ShreNal/RiKaraAT#69:aap aap the hai aur hum humNote pg53/61 - Page 71

Originally posted by: priya_86

The main issue in the RiKara story right now is confusion in Gauri's stand and actions. Om still holds on to his ideologies, so his POV isnt at all confusing for me.

Gauri since DBO days has mentioned that she would not force herself upon Om under circumstamces and true to her words she maintained it for a long time. She never expected anything from Om till recently.

However, Gauri returned as the "bahu" of the house...when Rudra requested her to do so. She clarified her "sirf bahu" status to Om very clearly. She returned home by her own will and wasn't forced to do so by Om and she helped out the family a lot.

What confuses me as a viewer is why this sudden craving for acceptance on Gauri's part? She was the one who returned as "sirf bahu"...so has she changed her stance?...Is she out of the "sirf bahu" status...the one which she returned to OM?...If so when and how did this happen?...This sudden change wasn't conveyed to the viewers who are as confused as Om.

Gauri was always self dependent...she hardly required anybody to comfort her. She escaped twice from KT with her own efforts. Is it very much required to show her dependent now?

As I said...the inconsistencies in the script are acting as a slow poison for RiKara...Some monologues of both Gauri and Om are needed...and right now for me a monologue of Gauri would be helpful.

The way I see it, though Gauri came back as sirf Bahu, at hospital when Om was fighting for his life all that resolve went out and she told the nalayak goons there did you think I will leave my husband. That right there says she has switched to the wife mode. And as a wife she is craving his acceptance and Shivaye is not helping either. Instead of encouraging the 2 to talk, he is having one off convos with Om and Gauri which the other is not aware of. In a way Shivaye is messing up the situation quite badly. I can connect to Gauri wanting Om's acceptance but the problem is she is not conveying those feelings to Om . How can you expect Om to just know but she does expect Om to just know 😆

Coming to Om, you are right he has been Christal clear right from the beginning. But the issue there is the eyelocks and the touches and the caring he shows her gives her another signal which is confusing her too.

Both says one thing but their actions are different.

I am more clear on where Gauri is, I need a monologue from Om cos I am not positive what he feels for her exactly 😆

Originally posted by: priya_86

The main issue in the RiKara story right now is confusion in Gauri's stand and actions. Om still holds on to his ideologies, so his POV isnt at all confusing for me.

Gauri since DBO days has mentioned that she would not force herself upon Om under circumstamces and true to her words she maintained it for a long time. She never expected anything from Om till recently.

However, Gauri returned as the "bahu" of the house...when Rudra requested her to do so. She clarified her "sirf bahu" status to Om very clearly. She returned home by her own will and wasn't forced to do so by Om and she helped out the family a lot.

What confuses me as a viewer is why this sudden craving for acceptance on Gauri's part? She was the one who returned as "sirf bahu"...so has she changed her stance?...Is she out of the "sirf bahu" status...the one which she returned to OM?...If so when and how did this happen?...This sudden change wasn't conveyed to the viewers who are as confused as Om.

Gauri was always self dependent...she hardly required anybody to comfort her. She escaped twice from KT with her own efforts. Is it very much required to show her dependent now?

As I said...the inconsistencies in the script are acting as a slow poison for RiKara...Some monologues of both Gauri and Om are needed...and right now for me a monologue of Gauri would be helpful.

As I was reading all the comments here, a thought came to mind. Did Om not accept her Patni/shadhi status at dhaba because he thinks Gauri does not want to be known as his wife due to the sirf bahu tag?

Man I tell you, we need monologues so badly now. 😆

I feel this insult wud be a real turning point for Rikara. Bcoz as far as I can remember only Om has insulted her and yeah Pinky (but who cares abt her). After the inspiration episode, when Om broke her heart, she left and by the next day she was eating channa searching for a job. This time its not gonna be easy. Bcoz earlier she knew that wotever accusations Om showered on her were untrue. He only spoke abt her being characterless, which she knows is not true. SO maybe she cud overcome easily. But this time she knows that wotever humiliations she faced there wa bcoz she was not educated...and came from a small town. Its true also, yeh alag baat hain ki neither Om nor any of the Oberois care abt it. The family loves her and I like to believe Om also😊 So this time Gauri's heartbreak is not gonna vanish into thin air like before, I feel.

Originally posted by: BIaddict

As I was reading all the comments here, a thought came to mind. Did Om not accept her Patni/shadhi status at dhaba because he thinks Gauri does not want to be known as his wife due to the sirf bahu tag?

Man I tell you, we need monologues so badly now. 😆

Originally posted by: BIaddict

As I was reading all the comments here, a thought came to mind. Did Om not accept her Patni/shadhi status at dhaba because he thinks Gauri does not want to be known as his wife due to the sirf bahu tag?

Man I tell you, we need monologues so badly now. 😆

Originally posted by: mailanchi

I feel this insult wud be a real turning point for Rikara. Bcoz as far as I can remember only Om has insulted her and yeah Pinky (but who cares abt her). After the inspiration episode, when Om broke her heart, she left and by the next day she was eating channa searching for a job. This time its not gonna be easy. Bcoz earlier she knew that wotever accusations Om showered on her were untrue. He only spoke abt her being characterless, which she knows is not true. SO maybe she cud overcome easily. But this time she knows that wotever humiliations she faced there wa bcoz she was not educated...and came from a small town. Its true also, yeh alag baat hain ki neither Om nor any of the Oberois care abt it. The family loves her and I like to believe Om also😊 So this time Gauri's heartbreak is not gonna vanish into thin air like before, I feel.

Originally posted by: BIaddict

As I was reading all the comments here, a thought came to mind. Did Om not accept her Patni/shadhi status at dhaba because he thinks Gauri does not want to be known as his wife due to the sirf bahu tag?

Man I tell you, we need monologues so badly now. 😆

This is my guess.

It's also plagued with his own issues with the idea of marriage.

I am making a guess here after gauri's hum hum hain aur aap aap' and his heartbreaking 'sirf bahu'.

I think both think the other dont want the other.

Originally posted by: BIaddict

As I was reading all the comments here, a thought came to mind. Did Om not accept her Patni/shadhi status at dhaba because he thinks Gauri does not want to be known as his wife due to the sirf bahu tag?

Man I tell you, we need monologues so badly now. 😆

I want a monologue of both Om and Gauri. :)
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