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Originally posted by: -Sush-

Hi Guys,

I am waiting in the check in line and reading the comments ...I think the discussions about Star Plus and Gul have gotten rather testy and what one would perceive as finger pointing...since most of us have no first hand knowledge of who did what or how they behave personally...perhaps it is best to steer away from such discussions. It is getting too personal...Is that ok with everyone?

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Guys, as you know Sushpectives are known for its neutrality, and while it doesn't mean we all have the same opinion about someone...it is not fair to even inadvertently promote negativity about someone based on their personal behavior that we don't know all the facts about, and the person has no chance to defend or set the records straight...Each truth has multiple faces (like Nanis character says so aptly in IPK) ...and since we don't know all the faces...How can we arrive at a conclusion?

What I do think is OK...is to share freely opinions based on someone's public behavior ...which is accessible for all to view...and which the person has willingly put out there...

Am I making sense?

Originally posted by: -Shwets-

Hi Sush ,

With due respect I don't understand 😕 You did talk about TRP's , makers and SP on your thread right ? I totally get Sushpective it neutral and you have always been neutral which is why the post has and will be popular .

As a member posting on your thread, I should have the freedom to put down my thoughts without worrying about how it will be perceived , scrutinized or as a matter of fact even acknowledged .I don't think you should have the burden to answer ever member .I can speak for myself, I am totally fine with you not responding to me . But yes, I do have trouble with being told what I should and shouldn't write.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Sush,

Yes , you are making sense.

Just didn't feel anyone came out too strongly...I think the discussions were based on past behaviours by the channel and the PH. And I do agree, if we had come up strongly against any one actor... or actress ..we would be stalked heavily by the respective fans and the CC could even get a warning. So I do get where we should stay neutral.

I think people are just uniformly frustrated by the behaviour of the PH. I see it just like Kangana syndrome. Both are equally irksome, and some times our feelings just pop out, despite our best neutral intentions.See, I felt bad after writing that about Kangana also, because I really don't know her. I don't even know if I should feel sorry for her, because may be there is a reason she is like that. But then all these people have a responsibility too...Kangana should shut up occasionally, and Gul should shut off from SNS and concentrate and let her work speak for herself. If she is going to put herself up as a bait, we can't help but bite. 😉😆 I mean, it is quite irresponsible behaviour from her side for too long, in terms of what she does to her shows too...and I guess some of us have had to put up with it looonger than you have.

But yes, I do get you in all seriousness.👍🏼

Also,I hope I have not hurt any Kangana fans, if any, out here.😕

Originally posted by: -Shwets-

Hi Sush ,

With due respect I don't understand 😕 You did talk about TRP's , makers and SP on your thread right ? I totally get Sushpective is neutral , and you have always been neutral which is why the post has and will be popular .

As a member posting on your thread, I should have the freedom to put down my thoughts without worrying about how it will be perceived , scrutinized or as a matter of fact even acknowledged .I don't think you should have the burden to answer ever member .I can speak for myself, I am totally fine with you not responding to me . But yes, I do have trouble with being told what I should and shouldn't write.

Originally posted by: ranjitha

Sush,

I guess when you posted that note, you were expecting everyone to respond and share their thought on this. If that was not the case then ignore this post and pretend as if this doesn't exist. 😆

I am least experienced of you all when it comes to CC, because it's been close to seven years since I ever wrote in a CC, so in case I skipped a rule, you all are most welcome to share it with me.

As far as comments on PH goes, I think being judgmental is a trait of all human beings so as long as we share our thoughts and agree to disagree, we should be good.

It's been a month since I have been a part of Sushpectives and about a week since I joined CC and not once have I ever felt offended by anything anybody has said till date. In fact I have a lot of appreciation for all of you for being so open minded about varied opinions and having a sense of humor too 😃

I can totally stay away from a post or CC if the rules there do not match my attitude but if I end up being a part of something, I would like to share my opinion about everything, like we all have done till date.

If a person offends me I will have a direct convo with them to understand their perspective and if I feel we have no compatibility I will ignore. At the end of the day it's just a show that consume 5% of my life 😆

Originally posted by: jay_bpm

Howdy everyone,

Long time no see hence have no idea what the discussion is. But figured I still exist 😆

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