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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: KUTUR


consummation is fully confirmed...
we have to wait till monday to see of what happens when Chakor falls off the cliff😕


If it is not confirmed..Looks like CVs death by your hands will be confirmed 😆 i will be the accomplice 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ndivyateja


If it is not confirmed..Looks like CVs death by your hands will be confirmed 😆 i will be the accomplice 😉


I am with you in this👍🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
I think they're rushing with the consummation because of TRP. People are already fed up that the remarriage is getting delayed. So they've decided to give us consummation this soon, which doesn't make sense to me btw.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: BeeSandy

I think they're rushing with the consummation because of TRP. People are already fed up that the remarriage is getting delayed. So they've decided to give us consummation this soon, which doesn't make sense to me btw.


obviously the consummation and sukor romantic moments are to lure viewers,and like a treat to Sukorians..
If they would have been waited for "the" grand marriage followed by consummation,then forget Sukor we all would have turned old...


I advice you sandy,keeping everything aside,just watch the episode with a Sukorian mind,,you will love it😳
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: BeeSandy

I think they're rushing with the consummation because of TRP. People are already fed up that the remarriage is getting delayed. So they've decided to give us consummation this soon, which doesn't make sense to me btw.


Yes, they could've easily made the marriage a proper one. The move is more for the fans because there is no wedding soon. TRPs will not increase as they didn't promote it and the week will end on a negative cliffhanger.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Etna_Dia



I have totally understood your point of view and I have nothing against it, it is just that I don't agree that Teju and Kasturi will have no problem with it. But I feel you are the one who doesn't understand my point of view.

I understand all the talks about crazy passion, being adults and trusting each other and that the divorce was only in papers. According to the Hindu beliefs, there is no divorce. If one puts God above human law, then Chakor and Suraj are still married because no human law can undo sacred rituals. It all depends on what we put first: God or human?

But if you think of this possible scenario, you will understand my point of view: let's say Suraj gets lost on the way home and she gets pregnant, how is she going to prove that they were married? We like it or not, we live among by people so we have to adjust to their rules till certain points.

Why will Suraj take any risk before marriage? It's his passion greater than love? Love should come first. A man should protect the woman he loves against everything including her reputation. Are they going to discuss the possibility of her getting pregnant before going to bed? No.
I should not even mention that he never clarified how much Imli meant to him. This looks very rushed no matter if they are committed to each other.

Suraj is claiming that he loves Chakor to the Moon and back, that everything he does is for her, so the expectations are higher from him. When she told him that she is uncomfortable with kissing him before marriage, he should have stopped insisting not continue to force her to change her thinking. It seems that he has accepted her response back then. So, this sudden change is hard to be accepted.

At a symbolical level, it is important for the girls who entered in the haveli as a slave and a servant to enter now as a daughter-in-law with her head up high, with nothing to hide. We can say again that what is the problem? The problem is that when you have internalized certain principles, in the back of your mind you do feel gulity when you broke them no matter what you say to yourself. That's how human minds work even if we like it or not. If you believe that it is wrong to cheat on an exam, you will feel gulity if you are doing it even if everyone is doing it and even if the teacher allows is it.

Well, I no longer have time to conitnue this conferssation, let's wait for tonight because I don't think it's happening as there were no news on the other sites, usually big shows make headlines regarding the matter. To me it seems that the marriage is done only for romance so they can share the same shelter as Imli and Vivaan would not have separated as they don't care enough for Suraj and Chakor to think how it will look to the strangers if they sleep together and Chakor could not have slept alone either because again people would have talked.


woah! hold on a second..
I didn't talk about passion or craze or whatever that drives them is right or wrong. I agree with your points that consummation before marriage has all these cons. all i was saying was that suraj and chakors situation isn't the same as two people consummating behind their parents back..not because divorce holds no meaning but because legally this needn't be their first time and they are going to get married in two weeks.. in the event that chakor is pregnant suraj will take that responsibility..thats all I was trying to say.

in normal day to day life people don't get lost. what I mean is they don't think like we shouldn't do this because we might die tomorrow or that far ahead. yep! suraj could very well die tomorrow but we don't think like that in life. what if chakor gets pregnant then? well if it is about satisfying the society then chakor and suraj were married before like till 1.5 months back.. so according to the norms of the society chakor can get preganant with surajs child.

last point in the olvs, it is chakor who tells him that he is wasting the moment and suraj isn't the one who takes the first step but we will have to wait for the epsidoe to air.

in conclusion I agree that consummation is rushed. their relationship should have had much more depth. suraj should have cleared about I*li for sure! the only thing I said to divya though was that the reason of sneaking from your parents or betraying your parents isn't the major reason why it is not right at this moment ( in my opinion).






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Posted: 8 years ago
KEEPING IT SHORT-
about all these pre or post marriage matters,or rushed consummation and all...
FOR SUKOR,THEY LOVE EACH OTHER,TRUST EACH OTHER,AND THEY ARE MARRIED,WHATEVER THEY HAVE DONE ACROSS THE BONFIRE,ITS REAL FOR THEM...SO THEY ARE VERY MUCH ENTITLED TO DO WHATEVER THEY BOTH WANT...
they both have spent all their assets,thinking about others..
for the first time ever-ITS THEM,THERE LIFE,THEIR TOGETHERNESS,THEIR DESIRES,THEIR DECISIONS,THEIR LOVE
so as Sukorians,we should be with them😳

In my opinion,they both are mature adults,and they both REALLY HAD ENOUGH,even sky has a limit..
all these in any sense,does not makes Suraj desperate or lustful at all,and neither it makes,Chakor unprincipled or inconsistent at all.


they are not a young totally "kunwaare" people,both had been married for over a year..so its really not an issue,at all😳


and regarding pregnancy,its not in the store for sure[I have this much of faith in the writers].😳


about depth or discussion about HER,there is really nothing to discuss,the depth of Sukor is more than a deep well🤓


Yes,a mini separation can happen,but Sukor cant be kept away from each other for too long,they have to be together anyhow and remarry,the grand way anyways..😳

ITS AS SIMPLE AS THAT...
Edited by KUTUR - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
@Aisha, I wasn't referring to you, I was just making a summary of the other opinions here on the forum. The rest is just explaining my point of view with no other implications or insinuations to your opinion.

The problem with writing on forums is that we, most of the times, believe that the other person, if she has a different opinion, is somehow scolding us or is angry when there is nothing of that sort. And nowhere I have questioned your point of view. I hope you understand this.

Anyway, I see the consummation is confirmed so nothing more to say. This story is really messed up. Something has definitely been wrong and that too, since the first wedding. Usually, leads get a lot of screen space after marriage, but here Imli, from a secondary character, became the main focus of the show. In other shows leads have the best of all after hardships, only here is the other way around. No wonder the frustration was always high on this forum. If the CV don't love their leads the most then we end up with this sort of situations.



Just a random thought... With all the candles, the tent is not the best place for such a moment. Everybody can see through it, but I bet the CV enjoys the idea. How much they like to push boundaries...
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Etna_Dia

@Aisha, I wasn't referring to you, I was just making a summary of the other opinions here on the forum. The rest is just explaining my point of view with no other implications or insinuations to your opinion.

The problem with writing on forums is that we, most of the times, believe that the other person, if she has a different opinion, is somehow scolding us or is angry when there is nothing of that sort. And nowhere I have questioned your point of view. I hope you understand this.

Anyway, I see the consummation is confirmed so nothing more to say. This story is really messed up. Something has definitely been wrong and that too, since the first wedding. Usually, leads get a lot of screen space after marriage, but here Imli, from a secondary character, became the main focus of the show. In other shows leads have the best of all after hardships, only here is the other way around. No wonder the frustration was always high on this forum. If the CV don't love their leads the most then we end up with this sort of situations.



Just a random thought... With all the candles, the tent is not the best place for such a moment. Everybody can see through it, but I bet the CV enjoys the idea. How much they like to push boundaries...


I totally understand your point of view and yeah! no question of scolding or being angry for sure.

also I agree 100% udaan has chosen to be so pathetically immoral and downright gross at times that nothing in the world justifies it. the less I say about it is better. practically everyone has vented out their frustration of how much ss I*li gets. earlier I used to think that suraj-i*li saga 1 was a mistake on cvs part but now I understand the cvs are proud of writing this good friendship story and even carried it forward. the only relief is this is fiction! and none of it exists.




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Posted: 8 years ago
Separating Sukor is the ultimate goal of the cv's life.

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