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Posted: 9 years ago
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Excellent meme, PP. I completely agree with you. We need mothers like Asha so that mothers like Ishwari and husbands like Bhaiya can have victims. Otherwise, where would they get their toys? After fathers like Bijoy won't let their daughters become a toy naa.

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Mothers of sons should be proud of themselves for producing a high quality human being 😉 Just make your sons arrogant and proud of themselves so that all stupid women fall for his attitude.. Don't worry the mothers of the girls will take care of the rest to keep their girls ADJUSTED to satisfy your sons' male ego...😆 Waah... the makers did it! 👏

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I completely agree with you, Sia. I didn't even get emotionally invested in the talk Bhaiya and Sona had because it started with self-realization and ended with lecture. If Bhaiya brought up the subject, then why not apologize? Why not admit your mistakes? Why get into lecture on how they always quickly blamed each other? In fact, in season one, Sonakshi was very understanding and never quickly blamed Dev. Even when he made random decision without discussing it with her, she supported him every single time. He himself said that she is very understanding a lot of times. But he was never understanding to her. He was the one who quickly blamed. That's why I just couldn't connect with it because, he conveniently made her take the fall when he was exactly like that in season one and she was not.

In fact, he blamed her even after he found out about his mother's deeds. Then what the eff is he talking about?

In fact since in spite of everything she did, she got blamed anyway, might as well behave like a jerk and take the blame. Who wants to take the charge for a crime without committing it? Everyone has a limit.

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

I have never experienced such disconnect from the show.

There was no ishwari, serious talk between sonakshi and dev, flashbacks and emotional issues.. But I just couldn't connect with any one of them. Everything looks contrived. I am so disappointed that even ranting doesn't come in.
They have totally lost the plot. Tia, your pre-episode is really good. Bravo and big hug.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bijoy is keeping his promise. But it does not mean that he does not have his eyes on him. The precap proves it. He agreed to fake it as long as Dev does. But one slip from Dev and Bijoy will be back to protective mode. Unlike Asha, his priority is his daughter.

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

ultimately everyone is falling for Dev - kya reason hai bhai - females ka toh samajh main aata hai - Bijoy ko kya ho gaya - kaisa dostana hai yeh - "Dev stopped me for drinking"?????

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks Shailu. The track you outlined makes sense. But we can make a lot of wishes. But CVs will show what they will show. And considering Dev and Ishwari are their favourite characters, I am pretty sure that at the end of this trip to Dixits, Sona will return convinced that she is the worst wife, the worst daughter-in-law and the worst human being on the planet for not tolerating torture like Elena. 😡

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

The tree which never lived without a pillar behind him for support, will only value that pillar when that pillar crumbles and that support is not there any more.
U put words like pure pearls assembled so well in a necklace...I always get that in ur analysis...

Trival things we all argue
How beautiful u wrote tia

Highlight in ur analysis
Me: There was one bride welcomed in Dev's house and one bride welcomed in Bose house. Do you see the vast difference? Elena was a runaway bride so no one was prepared for her.

Here, no one is giving warning to the new bride how she should start to change herself, how what she had been like prior to marriage she has to learn to modify as per their rules, how she should start to behave like a daughter-in-law and keep her head down... Instead they are making her comfortable, treating her as a daughter so that the same right Sonakshi has to joke with her father, she gets it too with confidence of a daughter.

If Dixit house is how society operates, then whose responsiblity it is to change it so that every bride enters a Bose house?

Even as a parent, would you rather your child gets married to Dixit house or to Bose house?


...I want to say one thing tia we will never able to get twisted brain of dev and ish both are of same group and soha too somewhat joined the team her papa bhakth is increasing .
Well fun time is over be ready with mute button to avoid ish ho ho bg and her bakwas
I just want sona to just pass time and finish the jail yatra with flying colors

Ignore dev first ,ignore ish and gkb a slap needed for Vicky ( but I am pro for him hoping he would brainwash soha to go against dixits)
Just sona should mind her own business never to bow to soha demands like cheesy romance or sharing the bed instead go to guest room cook her own food be a guest and leave .
Want a fast 7 days can't bare ish more had enough for year or so
Go to her office to avoid dragon ish .
Even if ish is successful in snatching soha give them what they want just leave and marry jatin and have a baby of her own were she is respected unlike dixits who don't deserve sona
I want no expression from sona she must be like zombie who are not affected with things going around I want that .unaffected sona might even disturb dev and ish who crave attention better give them cold vibes .

Sona dug a grave for herself separate house would have worked wonders but sona likes challenges so bring it on

Gkb and Vicky do something constructive this time .

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tia.0

<font size="3" color="#333399">I completely agree with you, Sia. I didn't even get emotionally invested in the talk Bhaiya and Sona had because it started with self-realization and ended with lecture. If Bhaiya brought up the subject, then why not apologize? Why not admit your mistakes? Why get into lecture on how they always quickly blamed each other? In fact, in season one, Sonakshi was very understanding and never quickly blamed Dev. Even when he made random decision without discussing it with her, she supported him every single time. He himself said that she is very understanding a lot of times. But he was never understanding to her. He was the one who quickly blamed. That's why I just couldn't connect with it because, he conveniently made her take the fall when he was exactly like that in season one and she was not.</font>

<font size="3" color="#333399">In fact, he blamed her even after he found out about his mother's deeds. Then what the eff is he talking about?</font>

<font size="3" color="#333399">In fact since in spite of everything she did, she got blamed anyway, might as well behave like a jerk and take the blame. Who wants to take the charge for a crime without committing it? Everyone has a limit.</font>




yeah, I didnt get that either. realization then blame again! when did sonakshi blame him for anything before or aftermarraige. Its devbabu who plays self absolving game and 100% blame sonakshi for all wrong... he knows what his mother did and how he chose to ignore it! he knows how he was the cause of all things that led to breakup, prenup, bose's homeless state, then claiming "we both blame each other quickly vs understanding" lost whatever realization I thit he was having. my only hope is that dev has actually realized his errors and is going to earn respect from sonakshi. precap is confusing to say tje least. hope adha heard that convo vs bijoy 😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks Gauri... Barbie, lol... Indian version may be. 😆

Funny, how only I can't see the new dp.

I agree. Bhaiya kept his cool although he just couldn't help himself in the end. But mostly he took a break from nonsense rants.

Asha was in her high horse as usual. So here's a thing though.

In season one after Sona's Bidaai when Bijoy was sitting in Sona's room and missing her, Asha said that he was the best son, best husband and best father. Remember the day when Sona called later after the Tulsi puja fiasco?

So today when she wanted to whitewash Dev, how did Bijoy became a burden she had to tolerate?

So only two things can happen here.

CVs want to show Dev as the best. So they have to drag Bijoy down and make Asha a long-suffering wife so that Sona can look like a failure for leaving Dev instead of showing "tolerance".

Or Asha is manipulative enough to bring down Bijoy even in a hospital room so that she can convince Sona and Bijoy that she is a better wife to suffer Bijoy and Sona should do the same since Dev is obviously the God so that she can claim her daughter to be married instead of divorced.

Either way, it's a massive turn off for me.

On the other hand, Bijoy's character was excellent. My admiration just went up for him. He could have completely put Dev's claim out of his mind and/or blamed Asha for his condition. But not only he didn't blame his wife despite being locked in the room without food and water with the man he hates and thinks is a thief, but also listened to Dev's questions and asked Asha for clarification.

But with people like Dev and Asha, you need to ask specific examples. Like, okay so you are saying I am not a good husband. Tell me an incident when I failed you. Okay you think I was not a good wife. Tell me an incident when I didn't stand by you but you stood by me.

Otherwise they can make up any baseless stories to make random theories. Ask for incidents and they won't think of any since you have a bigger stack against them.

That's why Ishwari and Asha talk in parabolas. Because straight talk will bring out their hypocrisy.

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

@Tia.

Pre-post was sensible..thanks for sharing.We do tend to take things for granted at times when we shouldnot be.

I can see your changed dp now...nice haircut and you look look like a barbie

First, I am celebrating this day since Dev Dixit started talking calmly and actually compared with previous incidents. He thought...thats an achievement for Bhaiyaa🥳...I had given up hopes that he can think😆...he surprised me today.

You said it all about his mom taking pills and Bijoy having high BP.
Please can we note the difference in their behavior so that we dont have to say Ish-Bijoy are same in any way.

I can say this for the nth time, I absolutely admire Bijoy Bose. I think for the first time, he lied when he said DevD had asked him not to drink.

Asha realised. I knew she will. That way she is sensible.
But I didnot like the way she said Dev-Sona could not support each other. I dont feel there should be any comaprison between Dev-Sona, Bijoy-Asha. And neither the only difference between the two couples is one stood by each other and the other did not. Its not that simple and is far more complex. Again its a different story altogether and not the answer Bijoy was asking.

I still dont understand what will Dev-Sona get by doing this round-robin fashion of staying together for Soha, as the sensible Asha plans to support them? I honestly find it so weird. Has anyone thought what will happen when Soha grows up?

Elena..no comments. Super faltoo. She probably is the ideal DIL.

I dont remember DevD ever saying sorry to Sona for that break up day. Sona said as soon as she realised her mistake. Thats why I admire Sonakshi. She thinks, listens, accepts her mistakes whenever needed to. Its ok to err, after all we are humans. But its not ok to not accept it. Sonakshi stand out here. DevD fails miserably here.

On the last note, DevD got thinking but not exactly with the right parameters. There is absolutely no comparison between his mom taking pills and Bijoy falling sick. Thanks Tia for so rightly pointing it out.

Whatever I was celebrating regd DevD's new-born calmness,maturity and thinking went down the drain after watching the precap...all I can say is kutte dum kabhi seedhi nahi hoti...expect karna was my bewakoofi




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks hun. The reason I went easy on Bhaiya was because he kept his temper in check and didn't irritate me today. Of course tomorrow looks like ranting session to me. As you said, fidrat ko kaun badal sakta hain?

Today I was irritated by Asha and Sona. Sona should really grow some brain cells and stop listening to her mother. I mean what did listening to her mother got her?

Her mother convinced her to marry Dev > She got divorced

Her mother convinced her to keep trying > She got kicked out with her self-respect in tatters.

Her mother convinced her to try to maintain peace with Dev for Soha > Dev picked her up in the middle of the night to scream at her because her random statement sounded like his middle finger to his mother.

So please enlighten me what good Asha's advice has ever done for her?

In fact, Bijoy's cautions, though she never paid attention to them, turned out to be true every single time.

Bijoy had warned her about Ishwari > That was true.

Bijoy tried to stop her from marrying Dev > Also was right.

Bijoy showed his concern about Ishwari and Dev's equation. > Turned out right.

He warned her not to take Soha to Delhi > Also was right.

He told her that he doesn't trust Dev and Ishwari > Right again.

Yet, because Asha always ridicules Bijoy's advices, Sona also doesn't listen to Bijoy. But funnily enough, Asha is still convinced that she is the source of wisdom and Bijoy is a fool, Sonakshi is still ignoring her father's advice and listening to her mother.

So yes. I am frustrated with Sona and Asha.

Originally posted by: chucklebuddy

I have mixed feelings for today's episode. It was good actually. Probably the precap took out the effect that the last scene had on me. So much of realization and peacefulness in today's episode but precap mein tashan?! They are like the perfect square wave with irregular intervals! Let me wait and watch how they are going to be played.

I have this weird feeling that the CVs are stressing on this "my house my rules" statement way too much to give us babaji ka thullu in the end. Dev might not end up doing what he has said - this is the surprise / twist the CVs should be plotting!

In Friday's episode, Bijoy was about to drink small shots but wasn't it Dev who provoked him and encouraged him to go for the whole bottle instead? It was Bijoy's idea but wasn't he planning to do it in limits?

Dev equating this situation with the past? Sona was not even present when Maataji was gulping down the sleeping pills, and Dev heard Maataji confessing to Maamaji that her dislike / "unable to accept" phase forced her into that. And and and, Sona was his girlfriend then. Here, we see Dev & Bijoy doing a all-nighter with alcohol, game and conversations followed by a paagal dance in the morning! With all the history between them and shouting, yelling and disrespecting that is happening now, she is not supposed to express her loss of trust in Dev?

Sorry, but I completely fail to understand Asha! Even Ishwari is fathomable but Asha is not! Ishwari is only a MAA, but Asha, what are you? I have agreed with Asha in many instances in the past. I agree with her PT drills and "maintain silence" , "tolerance level" and "only for Soha" lectures but why are those only to Sona? And Bijoy? Why the partiality? Today, hath par kar di! Not even a single ounce of remorse for her actions - for locking Bijoy & Dev up all night. When Bijoy asked that question, she made a face as if she had been subjected to domestic violence or verbal abuse in the past. Though Sona was not given her haq in the IN, I should say, even Sona will not react this way if Dev asks her that question later in the future (that is, after all the reunion)! The worst part is, she did not even cry a single tear!


Originally posted by: chucklebuddy

Sorry for ranting! I should stop giving importance / start reducing the importance I give to this serial and keep my emotions under control.😭 With the happenings, I see myself losing interest in a couple of weeks.

@Tia, superb post! I agree with your views, as always!👏 Today I see you are easy on Bhaiya.😲 Even I am!😳 Because he did not achieve the boiling point of irritation or make me achieve the boiling point of anger!😆 Precap was a reminder of this statement!

I agree with the locking up of Asha and Ishwari point and Soha's stories being a phone call away! Guess the CVs have also started locking their brains in the fridge before they started writing the screenplay!🤔😆


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Posted: 9 years ago
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@BOLD, Precisely my point. Aise shaadi bachake Asha ne kya ukhar liya?

Nope. I don't think you are missing anything. Asha is doing everything just for show.

Otherwise, why such pressure on her daughter to go back to her husband when they obviously don't love nor respect each other?

If they get into fight despite her repeated warnings, that means they are just that much incompatible.

Now you can't put acid and water together and tell them not to react only for a few days naa. They will react and repel because that's their nature.

So this constant lecture about Soha (only to Sona because she doesn't have the guts to tell Dev to adjust and stop being a Dickshit), threatening to take Soha away (although she lectured Bijoy for doing the same) are for what? If she really wants to support, then why not let the parents figure out what they want to do and stop interfering?

How's interfering and forcing them to be together without their will is showing support?

Then what's the difference between her and Ishwari when none of them are listening what their children are saying and just busy imposing their will on them?


Originally posted by: SummerRain7

Thanks for the review Tia !

I wonder what they are trying to show by meddling with Asha-Bijoy relationship. If after so many years of being married and also being the understanding and patient one , Asha still finds it uncomfortable to answer this question from her husband , then what exactly is point of hanging on in such a marriage ? To just paint a pretty picture of a happy family to the outside world ? Or am I missing something here ? Was she hinting at a dissatisfaction in the past which is no longer relevant ? Marriage is never a bed of roses but even after so many years of nurturing and working on this relationship if Asha still doesn't find Bijoy to be a good husband then its truly depressing and I can only hope that Sona doesn't meet with the same fate if she were to give a second chance to Dev.

And as for Dev 's reaction to Sona 's apology , I can only think of Dumbledore's wise words from HP , that "People find it far easier to forgive others for being wrong than for being right."

Dev babu will not take the hint here and reflect on his actions and apologize .

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Arre nehin yaar. Kam se kam Asha ko yeh samajh mein to aayega ki Sona ne kya tolerate kiya aur woh khud kitna annoying sound karti hain? Warna woh to apne aap ko mahagyani samajhti hain.

Thanks Shailu. 😳

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Locking up ish and Asha would turn disaster tia

U really are cool with words superb this line is
Jo acid ka jala ho, unko machis ki tili se dar nehin lagta Dev babu. Aap jaise nazuk gudiya ko Sonakshi ki tolerance level kahan samajh aayega, jiski ek hafte mein sirf ek Bijoy ke taunts se hi halat kharab ho gayee.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks Tacker. @BOLD, no. Because they are incompatible and hence should not be together. My dear, regarding precap all I will say is ki, Beta sapne dekh. Lekin usse poori honeki ummeed mat rakh. Kyunki CVs Amrish Puri hain.

Originally posted by: Tacker_Holic

Great analysis again Tia! 👍🏼

You know today I saw promise in Dev-Sonakshi's relationship and I genuinely thought something positive was going to come. No I was wrong yet again, fooled by them again. The precap tarnished all of those dreams. 🥺 You were right back to square one. Are these two ever going to be normal and act like humans?

I dont know why I am still optimistic for the future! 🤔

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