Originally posted by: tia.o
<font size="3" color="#003399">And Gauri, some claims are that if Sonakshi is not creating fuss, then she must be enjoying it. I mean W*F? Which woman likes being tied in the balcony like a dog? Also some claims are that Dev must not have tied her too tight if she managed to escape. Apparently whether tied indoor or outdoor is also a factor. Are you freaking kidding me?</font>
<font size="3" color="#003399">This is the man who locked Sonakshi in an office without food or water all night. This is also the man who tied her in a balcony and broke the doorknob so she can't escape.</font>
<font size="3" color="#003399">And we are discussing whether he tied Sonakshi tight or did Sonakshi enjoy it?</font>
<font size="3" color="#003399">So if Sonakshi takes a hunter and whips Dev's ass and he doesn't call the police on the mother of his child, would we say he must have enjoyed it?</font>
<font size="3" color="#003399">This is the kind of mentality, Gauri, who claim that when a rape victim does not go to the police for shame or fight back because someone is holding a gun to her loved one's head, must mean she enjoyed it.</font>
<font size="3" color="#003399">If the woman does not fight back for whatever reason, must mean consent, right? Saying "untie me" or "don't leave me like this" are obviously smokescreen. After all a woman's no is yes. Makes me mad to just think about it that while men like Zed or Mr. Das are feeling disgusted by it, this kind of thinking is coming from women.</font>
<font size="3" color="#003399">It may be fictional character, but this is unacceptable to show on screen. Will we watch a movie where a person who is abusive can continue to abuse people and just keep getting rewarded for this act? Media has to take responsibility to show negative consequences and to never show abuse as form of romance.</font>
yaar tia I strayed into another thread and tried to explain the exact same thing. I got smashed for it. So I decided on one thing I am not going anywhere else from now on. I am just sticking to this thread from now on . I was even called a feminist and crazy person.