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Posted: 9 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: 13thwish

@Leaves: Doesn't everyone live in their own world? Similarly, importance is also subjective and I was merely stating my view of the matter. I am not answerable for the thoughts/actions of anyone else.

However, I notice that you have neatly sidestepped all my valid points regarding the topic (character) being discussed by completely diverting the subject.
Doesn't matter. I feel I have made my point clearly enough.



As you wish. I also made my point clear. How important Ravish is for you.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: 13thwish

If he was actually doing any of this for her, his thoughts would reflect that. He would've tried to reason with her and said I will always be your friend and support regardless. We don't need to marry for it. THAT is the kind of sensible advice one is supposed to give a distraught and irrational person.

Instead his first thoughts were FBs of his own (apparently romantic😕) time spent with her. So it is clear that he is doing this to pursue his OWN forlorn hopes.

Just because the character enjoys lying to himself and others, let's not all kid ourselves. 😛

your post is a clear proof who is a kid here 😛you need to practice your own advice dont kid yourself for your love ViTharv
Your precious Vividha was literally begging to him with her please please please please requests so whats wrong in him giving her a chance ? The lady is shattered to the core Rejecting her would shatter her more Yes he loves her and she is requesting him to give her chance Her lover left her so whats wrong in giving her chance when she is asking herself ?He did not force on her himself She is herself requesting him to marry her

Ravish as a character does not enjoy lying to himself but of course cannot expect any logical comment from ViTharv fan on him As always twisting what cvs have actually shown 🥱
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Posted: 9 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: tiny15

Yeah dolly these ViTharv fans all day keep posting comments on Ravish too and then they say he is irrelevant to them 🤣

This particular member who is posting these nonsense comments on Ravish keep calling herself neutral while her every post is in ViTharv support and anti Ravish and she keeps misleading serial facts to blame Ravish Wah kya neutralism hai
I am a Ravish fan i say it openly Dont carry a facade mask of neutralish to support my favorite 😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
#24
he is an idiot, i feel sorry for ravish coz Vividha justt uses and abuses him whenever she wants. if he aint a doormat that I don't know what is a doormat. even Gopi Bahu ain't this pathetic. but felt bad for him he is a stupid to be trapped by her
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Posted: 9 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



If you like 5 dminesional characters, it is your headache. Enjoy all the impulsiveness. goodluck!


Actually no I like multi dimensional characters and I don't find them to be a head ache it's actually the overdose of Mahaanta that gives me a headache!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: 13thwish

@Leaves: Doesn't everyone live in their own world? Similarly, importance is also subjective and I was merely stating my view of the matter. I am not answerable for the thoughts/actions of anyone else.

However, I notice that you have neatly sidestepped all my valid points regarding the topic (character) being discussed by completely diverting the subject and opting to pass judgement on me instead. 😛
Doesn't matter. I feel I have made my point clearly enough.

Valid points?????I am sorry to burst your overconfidence bubble You made none point valid , all your are pointless

Ravish as character enjoys lying to himself ?Good joke because which lie he has spoken to himself ?

The lady is personally requesting him to marry her , she wants to spend her life with him She wants a fresh start with him so whats wrong in giving her a chance ?He tried his best to convince Atharva but still he left Vividha wants to move on and herself requests from him so whats wrong in his action of agreeing ?

And we haven't seen his POV yet There can be more to it but you jumped to conclusion without seeing it then you call yourself valid ? Funny

You have problems if he sacrifice his love for Vividha's happiness You have problems he is being mahaan You have problems if he agrees to Vividha's proposal of marriage and to start afresh you have problems he is being selfish

You ViTharv fans can never be happy with him because you are ViTharv fans

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Posted: 9 years ago
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When you love someone, you do what's best for them.

If Ravish truly loved Vividha then he wouldn't marry her, because it's not best for her.
He is marrying her knowing what she said was said after she got her heartbroken. And everyone knows such a person isn't in the right state of my mind to be taking big decisions. Or are we meant to believe Ravish is clueless about human feelings?

And how can you proclaim that Vividha would be heartbroken if Ravish says no? I highly doubt that would happen.

You also can't pretend to know that Vividha would commit suicide because of all this.
Even when Vividha thought Atharva might have died, she didn't want to kill herself, so how can you make such a big statement like that?

And as a side note I'm pretty sure you said that Ravish would be really desperate if he married Vividha, that he will be dancing to Vividha's tune, something about him being less of a man? And best of all that he is worse than his father Ramakant?

What happened in a day that you made Ravish from zero to hero, from despo to selfless?
Edited by Khushi.... - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Ravish stood by Vividha at all times though he knew she does not love him.

But his love is selfless and self effacing. If people call him sevak, doormat and low, then it means that goodness is not valued if it comes from a wrong person from their point of view.

Ravish was always selfless. He took Atharv and cared for him until he got well and then let him go.

The only fault of Ravish is loving Vividha and standing by her. He could have said no to Vividha but he knows she will be devastated if she hears a no from him. He can marry her and be a guardian until she chooses what she wants when Atharv returns.

Ravish, you have become a true hero and the other hero sucks by playing games without realising the impact. Vividha could have committed suicide.

A doormat, a sevak etc. is far better than a selfish person who play games and runs away to escape responsibility and facing the truth with his loved one and hurts his mother as if she is nothing.


Leaves🤗

You know that I am a hardcore ViTharv fan, but I was just thinking about the scenario that was played out.

Vividha has been irrational today, she had to vent out the anger, the anguish of being jilted at the altar by the very man she loved heart, body and soul. And Ravish was the man standing taking all her anger obviously first as a friend, and then as the brother of the man she was going to happily settle down.

After reading many comments, from both set of fans, what if they married for society sake after learning about Vividha's pregnancy? Probably even Sujata doesn't want Vividha to live a life like her, without any support and she probed Ravish to think about the proposal too? 🤔

But Vividha marrying someone else just as a revolt or what is silly and holds no scope for story. I wish she would have given the freedom of his life. Knowing she will never love him, why does she want to do this? He knowing she will never love, why did he agree for the marriage is out of my understanding.

He is a man broken, he knows he can move on and find a girl who will love him unconditionally, give him that respect, honour that the husband-wife relationship demands.

I am utterly confused now.

Love,
Mayu


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ravish is agreeing to marry Vividha because she requested to do so. Yes,it's true he loves her but he is not selfish and self centred like Atharv who is always concerned about himself -his joy,his sorrow etc. He loves Vividha on his own term ,not on Vividha's. If not selfless, it's not love --- just forget about soulmate thing. Ravish at least far better than Atharv as a choice or husband.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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When Vividha asked Ravish to marry her, she was in a very vulnerable position having been dumped by Atharv. At that point of time she was not in a position to listent to lectures or bhashans from Ravish. She simply wanted an yes and acceptance. As Ravish is familiar with her high strung behaviour and mood swings and also at her present situation, he just said yes so that he can assure Vividha. And he himself does not know what was eating Atharv. Vividha has become a child woman and Atharv is not helping her at all by hiding his truth.

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