It's a Plan - Page 2

I agree with you.

Originally posted by: SandyAquarium

Jiyaa...this is why I am blaming the writers...

I liked the Diwali scenes..coz they were well done. Dev began to get a sense of something going wrong when IShwari leaves for the temple and that was an important realization. The reason why people didn't empathize with Ishwari is because she shows jealousy on seeing Dev with Sona in the bedroom and makes a nasty comment to her brother about Sona having Dev.

I for one do not want to get into Dev vs Sona debate that is most often than not, the burning issue on the forum. I on the other hand think they used to and need to complete each other.

The difference between Diwali-Birthday issue is...

1. Ishwari was insecure about Dev's time with Sona but Sona isn't in vice-versa scenarios. Though Sona acknowledges that she shares Dev with everyone...she accepts it.

2. Ishwari knew where Dev was during Diwali incident while Sona waits and waits and waits...not knowing where Dev is (Sona could have charged her phone in the lobby, borrowed someone's mobile or Dev could have called the reception and gotten someone to call Sona etc etc but CVs think we are stupid). Dev knew she was waiting and in the case of Diwali, he goes in search of his mother to take her temple...albeit a bit late. In this case he doesn't.

3. Dev at home worries about Sona while the party at home is hardly underway. It is not convincing ...especially given how unsafe Delhi is...

4. Nobody in Dixit family even thinks of Sona. That she is not home until midnight doesnt give them a pause...and what is that??? Strange...

5. The target audeince of an Indian television show are more often than not women. And what is the message the Cvs are trying to convey to women...that men are like this only? That MILs are terrifying? That married life can be scary? That husbands are so dependent on their mothers that you have to fight for your rights from day one that you'll be left feeling miserable? Where is the balance

6. And lastly, we have already gone through a cycle of Ishwari's insecurities and this is rehash and it is made worse by Dev's insensitivity towards Sona.

The current track is making Dev look worse than Ishwari and we know he is not. So so wrong to portray him as a man who doesn't value his relationship with Sona.

The writing has gone wrong in the recent past and for that I blame only the creatives.

Very well written!

I was a huge fan of this show's CVs but the quicksand like plot they have given over the last couple of weeks since the Bose house episodes makes me question the intent and ability of the writers in question too.

Originally posted by: sandyaramesh

I was a huge fan of this shows CVs but the quicksand show they have given over the last couple of since (since the Bose house episodes) makes me question the ability of the writers in question too.

Much needed post on who failed Dev and Devakshi to a great extent and Sona too for that matter with potholed sized loopy tracks.

Yup...you make total sense...they are butchering Dev's character...A multi million rupees company's CEO, being made to look like a youngster holding mom's saree...Mmm i wonder too.

Originally posted by: SandyAquarium

I think we can all agree that this spineless, thoughtless and most selfish Dev is the worst of the worst husbands out there in the real world (barring the physically abusive husbands).

So, let's step back for a minute and think, why is he suddenly being presented this way? Why is every issue being approached badly by Dev and why is every issue being pushed under the rug through temporary solutions - be it through lies, not wanting to spoil birthday or Asha's peacekeeping force and why are Devakshi making up without really resolving any issue?

Dev may be a Mama's boy and maybe an emotional fool when it comes to his mother, but he is no "FOOL"...yet he is being presented that way by the CVs coz they need this marriage to crumble.

Yes ladies...lets look the horse in the mouth...in this case the CVs.

This show which has claimed to emulate reality for long has lost it in presenting a husband who balances life between mother and wife. Lets face it...every husband we have come across in the real world does a better job of the balancing act than Dev and why is that? The CVs have decided to make Dev the scapegoat and made him into a spineless bumbling idiot.

But CVs, why would you want to discredit your ML so badly that the love between ML and FL and in this case the beautiful love between Devakshi doesn't appeal to the viewer anymore?

This is a spectacular failure by the writers of this show. They could have come up with a better solution to the problem they are trying to push forward - How do we convincingly break up Dev and Sona?

Therefore this entire mess we are watching now is a plan to separate Dev and Sona but the CVs have failed in giving us a convincing story in presenting the same.

P.S - Dev's dialogue about loving Sona but loving love more is the worst dialogue ever IMO. Lot of people confuse the high one feels when they fall in love with deep/great love. They love the addictive high more than the partner. And that is a shortcoming...not strength. And they have given Dev that dialogue. Was that intentional? Then, it is another way of putting Dev down but if it was unintentional...then, the CVs have failed in portraying love.

PPS - Is there a limit to Dixits greed? Pestering Dev for gifts on his B'day???? Seriously!!!

And I think the actors are asked to say (by the producers) that whatever is happening is very circumstantial and nobody is at fault. Just because they say it, the viewers are not foolish enough to take their word for it and say that Ishwari, dev and Sona are all right in their own place.

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

I don't think so CVS have butchered dev's character... He is same as before... To balance relation between mom and wife...he is still learning because it's not easy as not only ishwari is insecure about dev but dev is also insecure about. Her mom...

And pestering dev for gifts is not big.issues... If his siblings r asking for return gifts... Can't they have fun with her brother

Originally posted by: SandyAquarium

We know how dev is the perpetual Santa Claus for the family... do the cvs have to reiterate it at celebration? And if they are reiterating...what are they trying to say?...that Dev is perceived as cash cow by the Dixit family...right? So...there you go...Frankly Nikki and Ria are better than that. They love their brother and I feel CVs don't do justice to their character by giving them such dialogues about gifts. As I mentioned, I believe the CVs (whom I once admired greatly) have been falling short across the board.

How can you say Dev is same as before...go back to earlier episodes..wwatch him, his behaviour and his strong stances when he believed in something or wanted something...and then come back and say he is the same man.

Like seriously people r still giving Dev benefit of doubt in the name of learning. No sorry I beg to defer What dev did yesterday is beyond humanity and girl safety. Leaving ur wife in the middle of night waiting whereas u poor u was so emotionally engrossed in ur mom dialogue. Not done . No girl will should and can take this. As this is plain simple insult of her being, her feeling and her emotions. I donot understand and feel for sonas pain cause I know I will never be in that situation and God forbid if I am ever I would very well make all responsible for my insult realise what I feel. May be cause though I love my hubby , totally respect my and his family, my mil adores me but I too love myself very much. In understanding and adjusting I will have never and will never shortchange or lower my respect.