Originally posted by: Kamala05
1.Say something about your hobby?
My hobby is reading. Not just novels or fictions. I love reading thought provoking articles.
2.Share any funny /memorable incident or experience from your childhood/college life?
Well , I think I have shared almost all funny incidents except the one I had during my internship It was funny for me , I am not sure whether it will make you 🤣 .This is top secret , even my sister is not aware of this . Please don't judge me based on this incident. Ok 😳
I did my block placement in Attapady (Basically a tribal area). I was staying in a building which was part of a convent with trainee teachers and with my best friend cum my block placement partner Jo .One day during our visit to a tribal settlement, we found marijuana cultivation. In Attapady though the cultivation and use is restricted by law ,they cultivate it in abundance. We were curious to know why the teenagers and the children are addicted to this , without any hesitance the tribes gave us few marijuana which was rolled like a cigarette. Later in our room we shared this with our other roommates, since it is December 31st only one trainee teacher was there and she was a super cool, smart girl. She was like Why should boys have all the fun , Why you are not curious to know how does it influence our body and mind , In short, after 2 hours discussion and persuasion, we 3, me, Jo and Jincy decided to try it . We just had 3 or 4 puffs amid of cough and we got lost in the smoke. We lost track😲. We woke up the next evening. The room was a mess by that time, everything upside down, and we were in a state of delirium🤪. We were afraid that whether sister's heard the noise which we made in hang over. But we decided to visit them nonchalantly and they were surprised to know that we were in the room . They were like Tum log wahan room me tha, Didn't the noise of boars disturbed , apparently they thought that the noise they heard were made by the boars while attacking the cultivation .None of us were aware of the events happened after the fourth puff, we were in another world on Dec 31st 2010 from 11.30 to Jan 1st till 5 pm .
We were vibrant and immature then, hence we tried that deed , I don't regret , but I don't want anyone from our group to try it .
3.What would you change about your personality?
I should really stop letting the behavior of others affect my emotion.
4.What is your biggest fear ?
Losing my dear ones.😭
5.Do you rather follow your heart or head? State reasons?
I used to follow my heart blindly, and I have learn a number of lessons. Even now I consider the voice of heart, but I decide with my head. 😊
6.Do you believe that everything happens for a reason? State reasons for your answer.
Not necessarily. There are a lot of things which could avoid if we analyze the consequence, hence it didn't happen for a reason, it happened because our decision was stupid. For eg : I could avoid the torture I experienced if I was assertive enough to say NO at the right time , but I said Yes thinking that at least my family would be happy , but at the end neither I nor my family was happy . It didn't happen for a reason , it happened because I was stupid enough to believe that even though I am shattered ,the particular decision will make my family happy.
7. If the world froze for an afternoon and only you could move and no one could see you or remember what you did, what would you do?
There is nothing which I wish to do when no one could see or remember. I am not ashamed or afraid to do anything which I desire to do
8. What is the most important thing that guys should understand about the girl, and it seems to you that they do not understand?
The fact that all girls are not born to make your life comfortable and to support you to pursue your dreams and ambitions. They should understand that the girls do have aspirations and dreams and they have every right to pursue the same.
9. We all have our very own ways of relaxing and de-stressing. What is yours?
Meditation.
10.Do you like to stay in touch with people that have moved away or do you have a tendency to forget all about them?
If they have moved on or if I feel that I am causing disturbance to their life I won't keep in touch ,but that doesn't mean that I forgot them , I can't forget anyone who is or was related to my life.
11. What are the first three things that come to your mind when someone say the word 'love' ?
Only one word Jo, my best friend , my sister, my Jolly. Everything which I want in love, ie trust, respect and acceptance are in Jo's love. No one will ever love me like Jo. My father , mother and sister love me , because I am a good daughter and sister , I love them so much so that I have made enough sacrifices to make their life more comfortable, but I never loved Jo with same intensity . I can even write an essay on her.
12. That would you like as a surprise vacation? A resort in a remote island or a hotel at the top of a mountain?
A hotel at the top of mountain . Salto Chico Lodge , Chile is my dream place.
13.Is there something that you are really passionate about? If yes, then say something about that.
Writing. I used to write articles in academic journals, my college mates and professors believe that it was thought provoking write ups. But later in the midst of so many personal problems I couldn't write because of lack of reading. Besides how can I write when I lost inspiration to even live. Now I am back on track I should really read more and write more.
14. Do you think any of your CC friends have any special qualities that you like ? If yes, then share them
I like the positivity of Manisha, Confidence of Sana and I like Vaibhi's quality to not get overly attached to anyone.
15. When you were little, what did you want to be when you grow up ? and do you still want it ?
I wanted to be like Indira Gandhi, stern, bold and authoritative. Later I realized that it is not Indira Gandhi, but the admiration my father have for the successful people inspired me. Now I don't want to be like her or like anyone. All I want is I want to motivate those women who think that everything is over, I want to be a living example and to make them believe that going against the tide is tough but if we succeed it will make us content.
16. Do you believe in second chances?
It depends. Few people deserve it while certain people don't deserve even first chance.
17. Would you rather always say everything on your mind or never speak again?
I am blatantly honest. I want to keep certain things on my mind, but I really don't have any control on that, sooner or later I will speak up
18. Would you rather get rich through hard work or through winning the lottery ?
Through hard work
19. Either or Questions
a. Introvert or extrovert? Introvert
b.Winter or summer? Winter
c. Comedy or mystery? Both
d. Books or movies? Books
e.Personal chef or personal fitness trainer? Personal fitness trainer
f. Call or text? Text
g. Truth or dare? Truth
h. Picnic or nice restaurant? Picnic
i. Fiction or non-fiction? Non-fiction
j. Curly hair or straight hair? Curly
20. How do you treat people who annoy you for no reason ? (or they behave in a way which you feel annoying?)
Initially I will try to make them understand that their behavior is annoying, but if there is no change, I avoid them
21. Would you rather have x-ray vision or magnified hearing ?
X-ray vision.
22. Where would you live if you could live anywhere in the world?
I think, I want to be a nomad
23. The first forum that you visited when you had joined IF and who is your first IF friend ?
IPKKND forum, Sana is my first friend
24. Would you rather have nosy neighbors or noisy neighbors ?
Noisy neighbor
25. Do you belief in
a. Astrology? b. Extraterrestrial life ?
None .I will not believe in anything until I experience it personally.
Thanks Bro for giving me an opportunity to introspect 😃
And who is next in hot chair , Can you share the list of members who didn't get opportunity to participate yet? 
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