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Posted: 9 years ago
Oh no !! I know a bypass is quite an ordinary operation nowadays but all that strikes my head is they are mending a "broken heart " 😭
Guess this situation has to accelerate R&B's return and that in turn has to speed up the resolving of this horrid situation. i don't know if I want to know how that would happen ???!!

A world war III ...a status quo with an act for the world...or a reconciliation which we all are hoping for ...

And perhaps this could be the juncture for the coming of the twins ...no harm in hoping against hope with pleasant thoughts for the future, as the present looks so sad and bleak πŸ˜•
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: kalviswes

Lovely update Nisha...Though I think I have something in my eyes...feeling really bad for Ranjan and Sam and II...😭

I am happy II came back-at least Ranjan will have her and Nivi by his side when he recovers from his surgery. 😭

Sam is a beautiful soul---the whole Bhalla family is very lucky to have her as the eldest child. I hope they all get to know her worth.
As I get older, I find that it is much easier to break relationships than to hold on and try to nurture them. Being the glue is a thankless job. It is easy to look down on those who take up this thankless job-walk away from the family, walk away from our responsibilities, walk away from those who care for you and love you. You have to make a call each time, does being a part of a family bring some value to your life or doesn't it? Many times, I would like to walk away and just never look back on some people in my life-but at the end i have to think-do they add something to my life? If they do, and I value it-then I need to step up and do my part of bringing them closer and working with them no matter the frustration and the stress that comes with that.



Kala, another beautiful thing I read... There's no place for repentance... ... The article said Does repentance undo the things we did? Marraiges fail, families break, trust we lose .. Sometimes there simply is no place for repentance though we seek atonement through the tears we shed .
Edited by Errantnomad - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: VeeIyer

Oh no !! I know a bypass is quite an ordinary operation nowadays but all that strikes my head is they are mending a "broken heart " 😭

Guess this situation has to accelerate R&B's return and that in turn has to speed up the resolving of this horrid situation. i don't know if I want to know how that would happen ???!!

A world war III ...a status quo with an act for the world...or a reconciliation which we all are hoping for ...

And perhaps this could be the juncture for the coming of the twins ...no harm in hoping against hope with pleasant thoughts for the future, as the present looks so sad and bleakπŸ˜•



The coming of twins !! Now that's a thought πŸ‘ ... Vani the update was all grim but I couldn't stop chuckling reading this πŸ˜† ... Yep the explosion could be multi/faceted and the outcome pleasant... The most pleasant would the twins could emerge ahead of their time challenging the destiny as laid out in Nisha's future bhavishyavani for the couple and MM.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Errantnomad



The coming of twins !! Now that's a thought πŸ‘ ... Vani the update was all grim but I couldn't stop chuckling reading this πŸ˜† ... Yep the explosion could be multi/faceted and the outcome pleasant... The most pleasant would the twins could emerge ahead of their time challenging the destiny as laid out in Nisha's future bhavishyavani for the couple and MM.
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Nisha's future bhavishyavani !!!! πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

I know Nisha won't resolve the situation so easily but if I made you chuckle, chalo will pat my own back 😊😊
This could also bring the prenup out in the open as she stayed at the Nungambakkam house !
Ayyyooo rama !! how many angles and facets are we going to try to foresee ??!!


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Posted: 9 years ago
Such a heart warming update Nisha
U r truly a genius
Poor Ranjan it was like I was there when he said that to II
It broke my heart too...

And the way Mahavir and other helps welcomed them was such touching
Often we tend to forget the people who live with us all there life helping us 24/7 seeing there family in ours.. It was just wonderful of you to describe there reaction

And wht to say about Sam yes all bhalla's are lucky to hav her and II too as she was always there for her before and after marriage also
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Posted: 9 years ago
Kala

I have to disagree
after experiencing incredible pain and suffering I have come to a conclusion that thyere are some folks in our family and friends that havent added ANY thing to my life

Some of us do nothing but give

Some do nothing but TAKE

I am struggling to forgive many, forgiving will help me move on

I can never forget. I am blessed with an awful memory and I can never forget somethings, which tells me either I am still hurting or the offense was huge
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Posted: 9 years ago
Both are insecure about each other as both have never said they love each other .yes they have enough lust but for how long will it last is the question on their minds atleast ll .they r not sure of their place in each other life.they are possessive but lay no claim on each other.
She remains apologetic he remains an ass.she thinks she is the cause of trouble but it's him who stirs up the pot.he is big idiot and it seems he is proud of it.
He been mama boy and think he suffered wen he lost her but doesn't think of his child , yes she is small yet but doesn't she have a right to have her dad's love most of the time not just on his whim.
Loner ...ass that doesn't give him the right to b off the grid when ever he wants ur married u have a child now if u loved ur bachelor's life so much then u shouldn't have started this life which seems very stifling to u .
I never had any patience for such nonesense
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Posted: 9 years ago
Poor dad this update stole my heart.


Nivis reactions to mm were just priceless
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Kala

I have to disagree
after experiencing incredible pain and suffering I have come to a conclusion that thyere are some folks in our family and friends that havent added ANY thing to my life

Some of us do nothing but give

Some do nothing but TAKE

I am struggling to forgive many, forgiving will help me move on

I can never forget. I am blessed with an awful memory and I can never forget somethings, which tells me either I am still hurting or the offense was huge



About forgiveness and forgetting I think it's relative in terms of degrees . I am not sure if most forgive in totality . Yes there are people who add nothing and may be the single thing that they indirectly help us do is to push ourselves to not think about them in the sense that we shift focus away from them
Edited by Errantnomad - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
Charlie

I am probably taking the side of the devil by supporting R&B here

He has never disrupted her career or lifestyle in any way, he doesnt even stop her from visiting her parents.
He doesnt disrespect Mr Iyer
Sure! He does hate Mr Iyer

He hasnt cheated on II
He doesnt flaunt his offbeat lifestyle
He doesnt greedily go after II's income (men wealthier than R&B have been known to do that. Its a way of control)

He is just hurt because he assumed II meant HIM when she said she no longer can aspire for a singing career
To top it off II assumed he didnt care for the baby when she was in Chennai

And then Appa blasted him

And then he read an article that insinuated that II is no longer a Bhalla

All of it leading him to believe she no longer wants this marriage


I doubt any man would go after his wife wagging his tail after all of the above
Men have ego and pride in good measure too

He could have completely shunned his Dad after his Mom died. He could have never returned to Delhi

Something draws him to that house and to Ranjan
He has never verbally abused his Dad
He has never gone out of his way to get Ranjan prosecuted
He has feelings too, he sees how much Sam and Manya love Ranjan

Deep down, he does too


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