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Sonal Gupta

@sonalgupta2004

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#1081

Bang on dude!!
Well it was a bit rude but then according to me II hav to learn her lesson and stop comparing dude to anyone else
Or think that he will go over the board to impress anyone be it even appa...

Dude I supported u there it doesn't means u were right when u wanted II to come back before 13 days
In that case I m with II
😆

I know u were missing her and u want her and nivi with u when u r in delhi
But every time everything does not go according to ur wish and u hav to learn that
She also misses u when u r not here

So both of u leave fighting and patch up !!

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Errantnomad

@Errantnomad

Inactive

Posted: 9 years ago

#1082

Jas good morning.
True, looking at core values of the person and knowing the elasticity , you nailed it.
On a few days when life sucks this is what We keep tapping on.
I feel we come with our respective baggages in to a marriage and certainly not all the marriage habits we form initially balance itself out along all times. But it's hard to look at relationships as a weighing scale clinically in terms as mass, volumes , weight , balance etc , I feel.

Saw your post, then looked at the time of the post . Kalangarthala mani fourish ... Fivish ... Pearls of wisdom ... Chanse illama 😆 👏 . Irrefutable pearls of wisdom ...rendu naal munnadi padicha savoury pearls of corn update title came to my mind...

And on the last lines that you wrote , I don't even know if it's even escapism anymore for us or Nisha ... For her to keep churning out updates and for us keep reading . Addiction , escapism , love for good writing...whatever way we choose to call it as ... Even beyond all of these , I think it's become much more than that...
like a marriage habit we have formed over time both sides.

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#1083

"My dear human... every scar, tear, bruise, struggle, every wretched moment your soul goes through is uniquely designed for you...
Take it as a gift from the gods, as they only wish to grant you great character" ~ AD Woods

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kalavathi5

@kalavathi5

Navigator

Posted: 9 years ago

#1084

Nisha--awesome update!. I love how R&B rather than fight all the time just takes time to step away. Reminds me of myself!! 😆 Non confrontational, unless pushed to the wall.

I am sure if II reflects a little more, she will realize that part of her attraction to R&B was that he was not like Bala or her Appa. The person kind of similar to Bala/Appa was Sri and she wasn't interested in marrying him. Particularly after seeing the nasty side of Subbu.

I would like to think that it is only her grief in Periappa's passing that is making her react. Could also be that she wanted him by her side thru this and rather than admit she needed him, she says that her family would have loved to have him there. 😕

Some of your real life stories guys...I am in disbelief almost...does this really happen? Geez!!!!

At 49-trying to have another kid because of your BF? Wow...

And the Albanian GF story was just plain mean.

I just heard a really shocking story of a co-worker who has apparently abused another co-worker. The guy never came across to me like such a person but I guess you never really know someone!

Anyway...I am going to stay positive and keep reading SoSy!!!! That makes me happy!!!🥳

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taramira

@taramira

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#1085

New thread, new beginnings, new moments, new symphonies, new feelings, new happiness and new griefs...kahan hai kahan hai kahan hai!

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Sonal Gupta

@sonalgupta2004

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#1086

Originally posted by: taramira
New thread, new beginnings, new moments, new symphonies, new feelings, new happiness and new griefs...kahan hai kahan hai kahan hai!

Waiting for the same
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Errantnomad

@Errantnomad

Inactive

Posted: 9 years ago

#1087

II and dude, their issues are many... But biggest issue with them according to me is their unwillingness to take the risk of being vulnerable with each other.
Its no joke folks , showing vulnerability doesn't come easy to any of us. When we decide to show our vulnerability, that's a bl**** humongous step that we take in a marriage.

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Tuc_Mob

@Tuc_Mob

Explorer

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#1088

Dude again in the balcony ?

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Sonal Gupta

@sonalgupta2004

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#1089

Originally posted by: Errantnomad
II and dude, their issues are many... But biggest issue with them according to me is their unwillingness to take the risk of being vulnerable with each other.
Its no joke folks , showing vulnerability doesn't come easy to any of us. When we decide to show our vulnerability, that's a bl**** humongous step that we take in a marriage.

Both of them hav so much insecurities regarding themselves that that r scared to voice there feelings and opinions
And both of them presumes bout other as wht the other one is thinking and doing
Without knowing the actual reasons of the actions
And now I myself don't know why I m saying
Hahaha

But the bottom line is both r in love both r insecure
And egoistic...period

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