Shagun has changed - Page 15

Shagun can nvr change...its jst that even if ishita hadnt committed suicide and shagun married to manoj...still after some tym she wud have gone possessive about ruhi and adi...as we saw she hesiatingly agreed to manoj's mom prenum agreement but whn she saw nidhi she disagreed ...she thot abt adi n ruhi that tym...actually she herself nvr wanted to get married to manoj ever though he loved her wholeheartedly...she many a tyms looked sooo confused she nvr gave importance to their relation...her acts looked like she wanted to impress ishra n bhalla family for doing all these things...

and when ishra told her shez a part of their family the happiness she got was like she finally climbed up the mount evrest after many ups-n downs hurdles..and when acp informed abt ishu's suicide she got a golden chance to be with bhalla's for pihu's sake...m sure she must have been the volunteer to come up n take the challenge to raise pihu...

SHAGUN and her whitness can overcome her real intentions till she doen not gets to know ishita is alive n her insecurities will be shown up making her negative soon..

OK Some ppls said shagun didnt wanted to become jagat mata by solving the issues n matters between elders as she thinks they r mature enough to sort out their differences...ok atleast she cud have give a try as ishita's amma..accepted her as her kanna like ishu...she dosent even talks to them once atleast adi has some guts to make an attempt like making his dada-nana go in a same cars might be lil efforts...

ok it at all shagun can not so this cant she tell pihu the truth abt her ishu mom...ok if not telling her abt ishu being her real mom but she cud make her know what type of women ishita was...like at ruhi's tym ..shagun was hell negative but still ishu always told n made ruhi n adi to respect their mom as shez their mom too...she told ruhi n adi that shagun loves them very much..she nvr tried to instigate adiru abt shagun

PS.. SHAGUN CAN NEVER CHANGE SOON her insecurities n possessiveness towards pihu will make her turn negative...once ishita comes back..shagun will tell raman n family that 7 SAAL diye h mene apni zindagi k manoj ko choda sirf pihu k liye...ye ishita zinda thi toh aayi kyun nahi wapas apni bacchi ko dekhne k liye isne hume dhoka diya h ...PIHU KO 7 SAAL TAK MENE PAALA H MAA KA PYAAR DIYA H PIHU SIRF MERI H...she'll defo try to instigate raman n family...she may evn not leave pihu she'll fill her ears against like she used to do with adi

PSS. FOOL ME ONCE..SHAME ON U...FOOL ME TWICE SHAME ON ME...Jab ptaa h shagun ne negative banna h aakhirkaar sab whiteness dhulni h...then y to get fooled b4 that for sometime...JO NAA BADLE ...WOH SHAGUN KAHAN..

@Sri i read all ur comments here...n truly bang on ur all comments...i loved n agreed to each n evry point u mentioned...But PLZ...yaar DONT BANG UR HEAD ON HARD STONED WALL...that walls will not have ny affect but u will get hurt n tired..

Originally posted by: anjs

what a narrow minded outlook, dear...none of the people looking at Shagun as human wants her for Raman...

but unfortunately Ishita fans refuse to read that point, even if its written clearly

Originally posted by: DivanIshraru

raman wl anyday choose good turned bad ishita over whiter than white xena
and here people wl keep supporting xena 🤣

😆 Wow heights of unemployment i suggest yall find some suitable occupation rather than writing yarns on a fiction n show n characters HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA and watever yall may feel ishita will be lead never shagun simply coz dats demand of trp viewers no one interested in shagun is improve or not other than onnline few donkey who channel gives a dam. Too n yes ishita is mahaan n yes she is jagat mata trp viewrs like to see such bahu so rather than wasting precious money n time on accessunf net to write thesesis on a soap. Better u go do some good for society

Originally posted by: anjs

i said so, cause m not sure...but the fact i see, is that she is decked up...whatever one says, looks are the part of conveying emotions in a show / movie etc. Otherwise why do they show Ishita wearing traditional...she dressing up during festivals...she wearing simple clothes to work earlier. that conveys a lot.

As per your comments, Ishita-Ruhi bond is different, isnt that why she has left her parents and staying away for so long. If she has move on just like the Bhalla's and the Iyers, then what is deep n special about her love for Ruhi...nothing, right ?

Her bond is supposed to be special, but unfortunately, its not getting conveyed to me through her looks n behavior.

When a partner dies, its different, but when ur kids die, its different... one of my neighbour's kid got kidnapped. Just cause the father slapped the watchman, The watchman kidnapped the kid. Two days later they found the kid's dead body. The mother went into a trauma, the family got her treated but unfortunately she lost her will to speak. This incident happened 15-16 years back. Till date she cannot speak. While I dont want Ishita to go into such a trauma. But i do expect from a mother whose only love, her child has died, to atleast not be so interested in dressing up. that is what will convey to me what she feels for Ruhi...or rather how strongly she feels for Ruhi. Aliya telling her dressup n she agreeing, also sound a very weak logic...a person who was so stubborn with regards to Ruhi, that she would never evn listen to Raman, Ruhi's own father. So easily started dressing up just cause Aliya told her to...very weak logic...Also this is ur view, its not like they have showed it to be like that.

Ishita's love for Subbu wasnt deep, and she herself has said do, when she realized that she loves Raman.

@ red : Dont you find an irony in her behavior then ? at one hand she remembers Ruhi and Raman's harsh words... then she goes n dresses up, as if nothing is wrong n she has moved on. For me it doesnt justify her behavior, neither her so-called deep love for Ruhi. She didnt even have a single picture of Ruhi. Whereas her wall was full of her n Aliya's pics. Do u think in this age, it was difficult for her to find one pic of Ruhi ?

Just to let you know, I am from vfx industry...and when u do a character study for any movie, any show...like game of thrones, life of pi, alvin and the chipmunks...the characters have a deeply drawn sketch...that defines the character...the stronger they adhere to the sketch, the more believable the character gets.

All these looks etc thing, might seem trivial to u as its Ishita. Had it been Shagun, u wudve easily pointed it out. But then whether its Ishita or Shagun, such things do matter.

Here I am talking about only Ishita...cause she is praised n hailed as the most awesomest mother, whose love was ruhi was above all...hence my question mark for her looks.

Hi anjs,

I really cant relate to ir undestand your reasoning that if a person is sad from inside they can not dress up well. No offence meant but it sounds more like narrow minded thinking of ppl who comments pn womens dressing sense when they lost thier loved ones - arey bachha mar gaya dekho fir bhi kaise chammak challo bankar ghoom rahi hai.
Sorry to hear about the incident u explained but different ppl have different level of endurance. recently a popular telly actress commit suicide because her bf was abusive. Do u think every other girl will react same a commit suicide in given situation. No because everyone of us are different. My own chachi lost her two year kid (he fell off the room window when they were sleeping in afternoon). My chacha didnt blame her for what happened and they have moved on. They have a son and a daughter and my chachi lives quiet happily all decked up but that clearly doesnt mean that the love she had for the lost soul was not real.
If the makers wud have showed ishita wearing simple clothes i wud have been fine with that too. Its her choice what she wants to wear n what not. Dressing sense of anyone never conveys what they are goinv through in thier life. If u r sad u dont have to be teary eyed every moment. Aisa nahi hai ki duniya me kisiko koi gam nahi hai, ye baat aur hai ki sabki aankhen num nahi hai.

Not supporting ishita in not trying to contact her family in seven years but this her love for ruhi was not real because she is seen all decked up after 8 ling years is something that i cant relate with.

We clearly have different thought processes here n i appreciate urs but i still believe in mine.
It was nice talking to you! Bye have a nice time with our beloved YHM :)

Originally posted by: anjs

to each his own...but then Pihu was in Shagun's womb for 9 months...Ishita had also said the same thing when she got to know that Shagun was the surrogate...but what she forgot was that Ruhi infact is Shagun's biological daughter.

and also Shagun is in no ways influencing Pihu, is she sharing details about her s***** life with Pihu ? No...she is training Pihu to be the same ? No...then why so much thinking about her past.

and multiple partners is a very relative thing...even a widow who re-marries can be termed as having 2 partners...so its wrong to be slotted that way.

Yes, Shagun cheated on Raman with Ashok...but post that she hasnt been with anyone, has she ? She was dating Manoj, we dont know will what extent their relationship was...maybe they were intimate, maybe they werent...

But the bottom line is as of now Shagun has changed... then to keep punishing her for her past, is not right. Atleast i think she deserves some respect now.

No one is coaching anyone here.
Nothing can be kept in the dark forever.
When the children grow up ,they tend to use these very same instances as examples.
Its each persons individual way of life.
Some are ok with it.
Some are not.As me.
Pl don't equate re-marriage with live-in relationships.
Shagun did it .I wouldn't want any girl or woman to go through that phase.REPEATEDLY.

Originally posted by: GBSC

Do you take them for shopping too?

Originally posted by: GBSC

No one is coaching anyone here.
Nothing can be kept in the dark forever.
When the children grow up ,they tend to use these very same instances as examples.
Its each persons individual way of life.
Some are ok with it.
Some are not.As me.
Pl don't equate re-marriage with live-in relationships.
Shagun did it .I wouldn't want any girl or woman to go through that phase.REPEATEDLY.

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

no girls old enough unfortunately (my daughter is only a few months old) and the boys hate shopping. but depending on the situation, i'll take them to get a toy once in a while. ya i bribe them time to time to keep silent wen i need to work desperately. 😆

You seem like a nice mother to me.