Balika Vadhu Episode Discussion Thread #5 - OPENED SEE PG 14 - Page 37

How Anandi become responsible if from the secure school premises someone kidnaps her son ?

Does that mean we have to carry them always otherwise we are responsible?

The kidnap did not happen at the school run by Anandi but at a premises where children from all schools were present .Anandi and her two kids were just like any of those kids there.

Originally posted by: hisusmita

How Anandi become responsible if from the secure school premises someone kidnaps her son ?

Does that mean we have to carry them always otherwise we are responsible?

Mangala has been blamed for K's rape attempt because

1) She knew K very well
2) She already got the hint and she should have made N understand What is his motive.
3) K is a pervert , M cant be blamed for that but knowing the pervert just changing the bed wont serve any purpose.

It was said in Urmi's case after her first night that M cant say anything because K is her beendh and has right to do so. So it can be said the same thing about N.So M should have told N properly . That is the reason M has been blamed.

If M instead of just telling casually dont go to his room made her understand what possible dangers are there in her own way she would have never landed in that situation.

Akhi / Harki are like that always, they are evil so what's new to blame them but M is so noble, she claims to be her mother figure so automatically she has to take the responsibility of the blame, Had she behaved like Kamli we would have never said that.

N has landed there for A and for that A has been ripped apart but after that self proclaimed mother has to take the responsibility if any wrong thing happens to her

Mangala would not have been held responsible for anything that happened to N in that house had she not claimed about loving the child like a mother loves a child and said that she has been looking after the child since the time she was a baby.

mangala know very well that kundan has not at all improve she did not give second thought like today he try to kill me he can try to kill urmi kamli nandini anandi but still mangala release kundan

now mangala is responsible of kidnapping of shivam .

mangala is responsible for putting shivam life in danger

Originally posted by: hisusmita

Mangala has been blamed for K's rape attempt because

1) She knew K very well
2) She already got the hint and she should have made N understand What is his motive.
3) K is a pervert , M cant be blamed for that but knowing the pervert just changing the bed wont serve any purpose.

It was said in Urmi's case after her first night that M cant say anything because K is her beendh and has right to do so. So it can be said the same thing about N.So M should have told N properly . That is the reason M has been blamed.

If M instead of just telling casually dont go to his room made her understand what possible dangers are there in her own way she would have never landed in that situation.

Akhi / Harki are like that always, they are evil so what's new to blame them but M is so noble, she claims to be her mother figure so automatically she has to take the responsibility of the blame, Had she behaved like Kamli we would have never said that.

N has landed there for A and for that A has been ripped apart but after that self proclaimed mother has to take the responsibility if any wrong thing happens to her

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Mangala would not have been held responsible for anything that happened to N in that house had she not claimed about loving the child like a mother loves a child and said that she has been looking after the child since the time she was a baby.

She said hat on seeing the baby her maternal instincts were roused that's why she used the Devi act to save her.This is what she told that maid Chagini and that's why she got her married off to Kundan.

If she consider the child as her own then she should take responsibility for her safety too just like Anandi as a mother was expected to ensure the safety of her children.

The child suffered as the bahu and beendini of the Akheraj house and she was just a sympathetic onlooker who tried to rescue the child once in while or she is the mother who failed to save her child from all the abuses that child was facing right in front of her eyes.

If the latter is true then definitely Anandi is the better mother.Her children be it Amol or Shivam didn't suffer/ are not suffering when they are with her same with Nandini too.The child didn't suffer till the time she was parted from her mother and now she is back with her mother even though she doesn't know it yet she is safe and free from danger and having a life.

So Mangala is a failed mother since she is claiming that she has been looking after her from the time she was baby.The failure is nothing to do with her illiteracy or ignorance but everything to do with her own nature and her own brand of love for the child.

Originally posted by: Missesha

Tell what to N? Was Nimboli in any position to understand what Kundan was upto? She didnt even understand after Kundan molested her, so what was M supposed to tell this little N? She was only a kid not even a teenager.

Despits that, Mangala had told Nimboli to keep away from Kundan. Had also given a knife for her protection.

Nimboli being a kid fell into Kundan's trap, so she can't blamed. Neither can Mangala be blamed, because it's not like she was present at the scene watching Kundan do his deeds and endorsing it.

She was at home, but was worried for this little girl who had left home in the day time and didn't return till late. (by the way Nimboli was used to going out in day time). She also sent Kamli to search for N. So how can Mangala be blamed?

People are talking as if Mangala forced Kundan on Nimboli. Or do people suggest that Mangala should have tied Nimboli at home at all times in fear of what Kundan may do to her?

As far as responsibility is concerned, Mangala took responsibility. She ripped off Kundan black and blue, after the incident, clearly knowing Akhiraj's wrath.

I don't see how Mangala becomes responsible for what happened to Nimboli. But it was only Mangala, who stood up for Nimboli in the her toughest phase of life. If any one is responsible it is Kundan and his lousy parents. And Then Anandi for losing her daughter to AKhiraj and not doing anything about it. Anandi also knew that Akhiraj was a cruel man and could do anything with her daughter, why was she sitting calmly watching movies with Anant, instead of making attempts to search her daughter?

But if people still think M is responsible then so be it.

I read here that girls in those villages are supposed to know everything in that age.

Its N who is dumb, then of course its M who had to make her understand that in her way , the way she can understand , She had to tell her that it can go this far that she might get killed. There are many ways to make her understand that.

If she can get married to K in that age then she should let her know the side effects too.

N can be kid but the way people say all girls of those villages undergoes what N went thru then this should a common thing in case of N too.

Why she was sitting at home at night in that rain and only sent Kamli ? The mother in her should rush everywhere to see where she is.

No one said she should keep her at home all the time, actually that is the most dangerous thing. Had it been some other molester , that would have been a different thing. But when the devil is always at home and already he has given a hint why shouldnt she take any protection.

After the incident beating black and blue will yield nothing. It is her good luck she escaped with her presence of mind , but had she already been raped what would have happened?

I am not blaming Kamli here as she is not claiming that she is N's mom. Its just because M is claiming that she had to take the responsibility,


They have shown A searched for her daughter but failed. She went to save a kid and lost her daughter.

Its 11 years . what capital punishment she should get for going to movie with her son. Should she deprive Shivam too? That too its clear from the convo that she didnt want to go

Perhaps if M had not claimed to be mother of Nimboli - Anandi would have been blamed for the rape/rape attempt by the same people who are blaming M. 😛