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Buddy wrong statement in use.

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Steer / Autopilot

This update brought in to picture the fine line between non interference and indifference/ perceived indifference.

What's the fine line of overstepping boundaries?- Case in point Manny.

What's the fine line between being helpful and being interfering? - case in example II with Bala and Vandu

What's the middle ground in knowing when we are interfering in someone's life or be perceived to be indifferent and acting as if we don't care. - case - Sam holding it against dude.

In what situations do the golden rule of MYOB and NYOB not apply- Ranjanji trying to shield his loved ones.

Non - interference is not indifference. If only HUMANITY could learn that fine line ... Sigh!!

Nisha, without a plot most times when you sit to key , you feed us with so much to ponder . I AM ZAPPED. 👏

So true Kalpana. Wonderful Analysis btw.

Originally posted by: putti77

He is not Raman from YHM... He is RnB from SoSY...

Dats a great one liner, which bears the truth and relief that we people here feel

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Steer / Autopilot

This update brought in to picture the fine line between non interference and indifference/ perceived indifference.

What's the fine line of overstepping boundaries?- Case in point Manny.

What's the fine line between being helpful and being interfering? - case in example II with Bala and Vandu

What's the middle ground in knowing when we are interfering in someone's life or be perceived to be indifferent and acting as if we don't care. - case - Sam holding it against dude.

In what situations do the golden rule of MYOB and NYOB not apply- Ranjanji trying to shield his loved ones.

Non - interference is not indifference. If only HUMANITY could learn that fine line ... Sigh!!

Nisha, without a plot most times when you sit to key , you feed us with so much to ponder . I AM ZAPPED. 👏

You have put it all together so well 👏

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Jas I feel it's a major stir up and there will be repercussions. And if II can hold it together now then Amma's words would hv had some impact.

Originally posted by: EnVee

Hey Kalpana. Thanks.It just struck me, the dynamics.

You have been writing really nice and insightful reviews! You, Dristi, Shruti, Pritee. Putti too is coming up with nice ones.

Pritee, thanks.

Bad headache! Cold days are just not for me.

Dristi, take care. SR too.

Everyone.

Originally posted by: Seriousreader

II is known to be reckless. It is not as if her Amma would not have passed on pearls of wisdom earlier on in her life...II is just II

Prats I am hoping that she holds it together this time atleast.
But if she has heard it, she will think of the prenup, she will think of taking the flight back and what not .
But in situations involving people other than the dude she will think a little atleast I hope.
One sorry, I did not see the missed calls at the right time was what the situation demanded.
But life isn't that rosy right?

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Prats I am hoping that she holds it together this time atleast.
But if she has heard it, she will think of the prenup, she will think of taking the flight back and what not .
But in situations involving people other than the dude she will think a little atleast I hope.
One sorry, I did not see the missed calls at the right time was what the situation demanded.
But life isn't that rosy right?

Originally posted by: taramira

Good morning girls and guys. The pot has certainly been stirred. SRI, I was thinkIng of the same thing, Manny and Appa should make a team. Demolish RB and II team, I am sure they'll do well. But just as Appa is convinced that Rb is not the right guy for his little baby, so does manny feel that RB has been conned. RB can deal with Appas judgement - his interactions with him are rare, and frankly speaking he doesn't really care. But II, a sensitive person that she is will certainly be hurt by Mannys judgement of her. She is now a Bhalla and for a married woman to live her life being hated by a key member of your family is not a pleasant experience at all.

And in regards to manny approving Marliese, I doubt it's only Marliese specifically. She would say this for anyone who would have been in a live in relationship with RB, her major issue is with the fact that R B is married and that too To a middle class woman who she is 100 per cent sure will rob him of house and hearth.

This was lovely too, you have described manny so well, it's not II, it would have been anybody and she would have reacted so and the fact that both were vagabonds and he settled, not only her past is marred and tainted but as a result of it her future is also affected for she will always behave so until she meets someone who would change her in a way that she even won't realize that she has been so affected by that individual that her attitude towards life in general has also changed...

"We should never change for others, but if somebody changes us without our knowledge then that's the one for us"