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fast trak

@fast trak

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#131

Originally posted by: tiny15
ofcourse BH ppl can help just ;like they helped oder women like Aji,ganga,phooli gulli etc.😛esply in cases wen the women r ex DIL.
i think Bh ppl can also educate oder women & they can top board exams wid so much household work,can learn fluent english on their own wid in short time wen they cudn't even read letter in english & can operate computer widout any1 telling and then completing their gradun wid in a yr thru correspondence.😛
and then got remrd 2 an IAS ofcr oops sorry Collector saab. wid high fi-family & they can return 2 their maiykas 4 permanent stay & interfering in oders lives after such luving husband's death & having such luving in=laws.

Dolly dadisa didn't force Shiv to marry Anandi. She may have initiated it but he loved her too.

She has loving in laws but they all left her to search for the lost child and went to Singapore. What else do you expect her to do? Anyone will come back to their mayka in that case.

I don't think helping own family and trying to sort problems is called interfering. Anandi is a social worker so her job also involves interfering in others families whenever needed.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#132

BH wasis help people in their own way and Anandi helps people in her own way.

But these merge seamlessly and flow like one big river.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#133

Originally posted by: hisusmita
Who is the other woman. that girl has been brought as the bahu of the housewith all due respect.

When their ladesar proved himself worthless she became the beti of the house and got everything which she deserved

She is no random refugee

How does helping Anandi who was their bahu dumped by their beta can be called social service?

Anandi was and is family.

Way before Jagya dumped Anandi for Gauri when Dsa planned to get child Jagya married for the second time to Gudiya at that time itself she decided that Anandi will always be part of family if not as Bahu or as Jagya's wife then as beti of the family.This decision was made by Dsa when both were kids.

So Anandi's position in that family has not just because of Jagya. It is the equation that Singh family members other than Jagya share with Anandi that gave her rights as a full fledged family member.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#134

It is in dadisa hands to take away those rights from Anandi.

I dont think anandi is interfering as a matter of right. It is as a matter of heart.

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#135

Originally posted by: fast trak

Dolly dadisa didn't force Shiv to marry Anandi. She may have initiated it but he loved her too.
She has loving in laws but they all left her to search for the lost child and went to Singapore. What else do you expect her to do? Anyone will come back to their mayka in that case.

I don't think helping own family and trying to sort problems is called interfering. Anandi is a social worker so her job also involves interfering in others families whenever needed.

BH is not her maiyka but her mrd Ex husband's house.

shes not only daughter of the house but she is Ex wife of the son of the house.and wen husband's disown their wives then thye r called abandoned wives and they r refugees only.

so Aji has also bcum refugee .

and ladesar of BH proved himself more than her worth.she was/is worthless thatswhy always do things wid oders support esply strong ppl whether singhs,then shiv now again singhs esply J

and DS did manipulate shiv 2 meet Aji so many times.so that both get time 2 b close. oderwise shiv mite not'd fallen 4 her.so saying DS only initiated and shiv himself fell 4 Aji was not wholly true.

plz BH family is not her family.its her Ex husband'd family so thats called interfering. even bio daughters wen interfered in their maiyka or their bros thats called interference.and here Aji is so-called adopted daughter is Ex wife of the son of house.

if shes social worker then do that work outside &not in her ex husband's life.

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#136

yes and the woman whos not random refugee bcum Ex wife so she shud'd gone from there.not shamelessley cum 2 their ex husband'd house wen hes living wid his family in the name of her so-called maiyka.

calling DIL of as sum random refugee and the ex wife as true beendani.wow kya logic hai.

i'd never seen any ex wife living in her mrd ex husband's house wen that mrd ex husband is living in his own house.if the ex wud'dnt been living there then it cud b understood but how can any1 live wid their mrd ex husband wid his family under same roof & then interfere in their marital life & their kids matters.

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#137

ofcourse there r carsh courses on bcuming nice human being in which this not- so-called -random refugee woman is failed.

wen the woman can says in front of sum1 that ur DIL has poison 4 me & my son in her heart but in front of her GS she says i came on my own then still she s gud.

wen she goes 2 apologise 4 interfering in her ex husband' & her wife's kid's matter but wen wife made clear she doesn't want 2 listen anything else on it then thinking oh now how will i fulfill my promise but still thsi no-so-randon=m-refugee woman is gud

wen the wives r abandoned they bcum refugees only esply if they remrd & widowed & cmae back 2 their mrd ex husband'd house.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#138

Anandi had legal rights to stay in BH when her pati dumped her.Even if she had been divorced court would have given her part of BH property as divorce settlement which will be exclusively hers to use.

Before the divorce itself Dsa gave equal property all including Anandi.

So Anandi did have leagal rights to BH properties by virtue of her marriage which was legal and alos because Dsa made her beti of the house and declared her as one of her legal heirs along with Bhairon Basant Jagya Suguna and Nandu .

So Anandi was never a refugee.

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One more thing - Shiv himself confessed that he fell in love Anandi the very first time he saw her and he even confessed to organising all those meetings in order to meet her.

So regardless of what Dsa did or didn't do Shiv would have married Anandi because it was love at first sight for him.

Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago

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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#139

ppl accept it or not divorced ex wives wen remrd r legal refugees just like bio daughter's bcum

If DS'd given Aji legal rites then wen Aji was going from BH 2 SN saying ganga is DIL she has more rites than me & she has poison in her heart 4 me then why din't DS asked ganga 2 get out as ganga was random refugee who bcum DIL but Aji is my legal daughter so she will stay here??it means Aji is still legal DIL of DS's GS whos mrd & has afamily of his own.

it was not essential 2 Aji 2 stay at BH wne her husband dumped her.and if she got he r rites in property after divorce then she shu'd taken it & went out 2 b wid her own parents which atleast din't abandon her nor she'd siblings who turned out her from there.

and whos talking abt monetary rites of Aji in BH?ppl r talking abt her moral rite 2 live in her mrd ex husband's house under same roof??even court wud b puzzlled & atleast advised her 2 move out

and shiv never said he fell 4 Aji at once. don't twist the facts. he started liking wen DS organized their meeting randomly & deliberately & he came in contact of Aji.

if shiv fell 4 Aji then even J fell 4 ganga widout any1s initiation . and a guest is called refugee thne the abandoned wife can also b called as legal refugee.

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hisusmita

@hisusmita

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#140

Oho achha

So the logic is when the bahu with her all good qualities becomes the beti of the house she is refugee😆

When their own son ran away to embrace the glitter of the city life ignoring everyone in the family. When he was ashamed of his own identity, that bahu became the beti of the house and their legal heir.

Just beoz beta after getting kick from the life chosen by him came back again does that mean the whole family will also become pendu and turn their back to their beti?

She will always remain the same irrespective of her ex.

The house is as much as Anandi's as it is Jagyas.

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