JOHN ABRAHAM speaks up about wife PRIYA RUNCHAL

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I think people are forgetting that John also has an MBA himself and used to work a regular corporate job before he became an actor. It's not like he's some dumb guy.

He makes good money, is well educated and very handsome. What is so hard to believe about Priya liking him?

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MakhannMalaai

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I love how everything is being generalized here.. Everything for girls is looks.. who gave you that exclusive information?

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Originally posted by: IAmLuvBolly
Actually I know a lot of people who are not physically compatible at all and are in very happy relationships. I can sit with my girlfriends and drool, ogle and fantasize about hot guys, celebrity or otherwise. But in the serious matter of relationship compatibility and personality wins. I do think you are generalizing and in turn calling all women shallow and superficial. Beyond that agree to disagree.

As for John and his wife specifically, not enough is known about her or their courtship to make any deductions as to why they got married. I prefer to think that an educated woman made decisions outside of his looks and Bollywood status.

yes i am generalizing and calling women shallow and superficial..

I am also saying they are not the only once that are like that.. men are like that too. so I am not making this a gender war.. or neither i am trying to say girls do it more than guys which in most cases are the truth..I was just making a point that maybe his looks could have played a part.. just like it generally does.. over 90% of the time it does.. whether it is one night stand or life long relationship.. looks generally help. This works for both sides.. we as guys would pick a hotter woman.. or you girls would pick a hotter guy.. human nature.. we tend to go after things that we find attractive.

but if you are saying it is only about personality then... how would you find out if someone has a great personality if they don't have the looks and you don't find them attractive? R you saying you would go out with a shorter guy than urself... someone who you don't find attractive just to see if you see his personality?

because i know plenty of guys who are great guys.. loyal.. successful, introvert... yet they are single because there not a lot of good women who would give them a chance and look passed their looks.

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You meet people at work, gym, parties etc, you form an impression of their personality and you go out and get to know them better, or not if you didn't like them. But still, even in my earlier email I said that it's possible to make a first date based on looks, but no intelligent adult woman makes marriage and life decisions based on looks.

I'm petite so there aren't that many guys shorter than me 😉. But if liked his personality yes I would go out with him. I'm more shocked that this is surprising to you. Two of my tall female cousins are actually married to shorter guys. One has been happily married for almost 20 years.

Out of curiosity, these successful loyal introverts that are single, do they have the same generalized ideas about women that you do? When you let it be known that you have a specific unflattering opinion of all girls then you also make it easy for them to form an opinion of you without giving you a chance. I'm also curious as to what your definition of a "good girl/woman" is. But we are delving into a whole other discussion here. And I like said above, agree to disagree.

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But let's face it there are very few good looking attractive guys compared to many good looking girls you find in everyday life😆. Imagine even in glamour world the number of good looking men can be counted on fingers...Very few guys are head turners(or may be girls don't turn head to look at men again 😉)but a lot of girls manage to turn guy's head's everytime they step out (may be men turn heads for everyone 😆). So, yes a good looking men does attract a lot as it's a rare thing..😉. Jokes apart...

OT: I agree John is well educated, handsome man who has a good bank balance. So, why should Priya not marry him if she got a chance to know him up and close.

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Originally posted by: -MakhanMalaai-
I love how everything is being generalized here.. Everything for girls is looks.. who gave you that exclusive information?

I think it's the other way round. Girl's don't even get to see many handsome men.

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Originally posted by: IAmLuvBolly
You meet people at work, gym, parties etc, you form an impression of their personality and you go out and get to know them better, or not if you didn't like them. But still, even in my earlier email I said that it's possible to make a first date based on looks, but no intelligent adult woman makes marriage and life decisions based on looks.

I'm petite so there aren't that many guys shorter than me 😉. But if liked his personality yes I would go out with him. I'm more shocked that this is surprising to you. Two of my tall female cousins are actually married to shorter guys. One has been happily married for almost 20 years.

Out of curiosity, these successful loyal introverts that are single, do they have the same generalized ideas about women that you do? When you let it be known that you have a specific unflattering opinion of all girls then you also make it easy for them to form an opinion of you without giving you a chance. I'm also curious as to what your definition of a "good girl/woman" is. But we are delving into a whole other discussion here. And I like said above, agree to disagree.

You date people from work.. that sounds disasterous.. I wouldn't do that.. the question for me to you would be what kind of work do you do? lol how much work can you get done at work? lol how do i contact your managment? I just think it is hard to get to know someone at work.

Gym...ummm i workout 5 times a week. I have yet to see anyone talking to anyone during work out as if they are trying to get to know each other.. Again what gym do you go to? lol are the people around you still out of shape.. because that explains it lol

party.. umm not everyone is a party animal.. remember i said introvert.. some people don't like to socialize and go out to party.. hell i haven't been to a party since i graduated from school.. this is back in 2007. you get a corporate job and next thing you know no parties no friends to party with... either way regardless, how can you get to know someone in a party with loud music? it is the fact that they look good and are having a good time that attracts you..

but regradless, a good looking guy has a better chance of showing off her personality than an average looking one? don't you agree with me.. they probably get more chance to show it than a shy introvert person who generally don't get a chance because simply they are not "hot".

You haven't answered my question.. I asked you would u go out with someone that you don't find attractive just to see if there is a personality connection? most important question, would you give a an verage guy a chance over.. a better looking guy.. if they both ask you out together? lol

I may have generalized ideas about women.. and men.. but I have been around the block.. I am possibily older than you.. and most of you here.. I have seen it played out.. whatever i am saying is based on experience.. go ahead test all of these theories and in most cases i am right. you may not admit it here.. but deep down you know i am right.

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[quote]But let's face it there are very few good looking attractive guys compared to many good looking girls you find in everyday life[/quote]

This is so true! There are hardly any good looking Indian guys in the first place. 😆 Indian women are beautiful in general but that's not the case with desi men.

How many times do you see old ugly men with beautiful wives? It's so common. Never have I seen good looking Indian guys with hideous women. The women don't care that much about looks especially if the guy is stable and has a good job and money.

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Originally posted by: dabang4life

You date people from work.. that sounds disasterous.. I wouldn't do that.. the question for me to you would be what kind of work do you do? lol how much work can you get done at work? lol how do i contact your managment? I just think it is hard to get to know someone at work.

Gym...ummm i workout 5 times a week. I have yet to see anyone talking to anyone during work out as if they are trying to get to know each other.. Again what gym do you go to? lol are the people around you still out of shape.. because that explains it lol

party.. umm not everyone is a party animal.. remember i said introvert.. some people don't like to socialize and go out to party.. hell i haven't been to a party since i graduated from school.. this is back in 2007. you get a corporate job and next thing you know no parties no friends to party with... either way regardless, how can you get to know someone in a party with loud music? it is the fact that they look good and are having a good time that attracts you..

but regradless, a good looking guy has a better chance of showing off her personality than an average looking one? don't you agree with me.. they probably get more chance to show it than a shy introvert person who generally don't get a chance because simply they are not "hot".

You haven't answered my question.. I asked you would u go out with someone that you don't find attractive just to see if there is a personality connection? most important question, would you give a an verage guy a chance over.. a better looking guy.. if they both ask you out together? lol

I may have generalized ideas about women.. and men.. but I have been around the block.. I am possibily older than you.. and most of you here.. I have seen it played out.. whatever i am saying is based on experience.. go ahead test all of these theories and in most cases i am right. you may not admit it here.. but deep down you know i am right.

See, I agree with most of what u said...but my questions to you are

1) Have you never heard colleagues getting married??

2)Celebrities and ppl in glamour field most of the times get to know each other from gym and parties..

Of course corporate and IT ppl don't spend that much time in gym and party everyday to meet the same set of ppl over months but in office they do.

It's not like you saw someone attractive in office and asked for drinks..no it doesn't work that way to show personality...of course if you get a chance to say hello or go on office outing you do get a chance to show your personality and if u are smart enough you can in a subtle way keep in touch and continue to show your amazing personality and good sense of humor. All girls love guyz who can make them laugh a lot with their spontaneity and humor. If you are average looker and great humor ...i think all such guys get plenty of chance.

There are no two questions about if there is no background of any guy , i would pick the attractive one on dance floor in a disc..but going on date with totally unknown attractive or not is a total no. But u go out to eat with an interesting colleague even if he is not a looker.

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Originally posted by: dabang4life

Again it goes back to the looks.. For girls it is 90% about looks.. It is the other 10% that he has to worry about ..I bet she had a crash on him when she was a teenage.. So it was a no brainer when the opportunity presented for them to go out..

Have you wondered why some girls keep getting cheated on and they still stick around?? When u ask.. Because he is cute, handsome and good looking or whatever.. There you go.. It is all about looks..

This maybe insensitive of me but do you not blv that you good looking or something, did a woman treat you bad?? it's just that i have seen you rant about women, and how they shallow and only care about looks on this forum time n time again, if that's the case then I'm sorry but there's no need to trash women everywhere for what an individual may have done, all girls are not like that.

In fact its men who are obsessed with looks, yes, we drool over actors but when it comes to what truly matter, we don't judge men based on looks, you need to understand not every women is a shallow.

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