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Posted: 10 years ago
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is taunting member as lowly thinking & not understanding posts is allowed in this forum??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Is taunting members having no self respect , having cheap qualities , don't know how to debate in mature way allowed on forum ?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Is taunting members they cannot understand some people's sophisticated English language allowed on forum ?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kikyo

Jharla is not under Jagya's constituency So far its told in serial

1. when Akhiraj first time saw Jagya The villagers told him he is Jaitsar' s MLA Dr Jagdish Singh Usually people refer to their MLA as our Vidhayak sa like Jaitsar people call Jagya but they called Jagya as Jaistar's MLA Used name of the place with him
2. Akhiraj when first time was telling Jagya stories about Jharla's bad sarpanch Jagya told him you should contact your place's related administrative department How can i help you in this
3. Akhiraj told Jagya He will make Jharla a good place like Jaitsar
4 yesterday in very clear words Akhiraj told his supporters do such arrangements that Jagdish should feel he has visited his own place Means Jharla should look like a good and peaceful place like jaitsar

i believe these all are enough proofs Jharla is not under Jagya's MLA raaj 😛so why blaming Jagya? His own Jaitsar is a peaceful , good place so are all the villages under his control Thats why the people keep giving him votes and want only him as their MLA since such a long time😉

one more when Akhiraj was telling Jagya about crimes in Jharla he said his son's marriage how easily it was done in Jharla but same could it be done in Jaitsar ? no because Jharla is not like Jaitsar
No matter people try hard to blame Jagya Jharla is not Jagya's constituency Akhiraj is after Jagya only for the reasons dolly mentioned 😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi's search for Nandini has been nothing but a presumption like other hundred things in BV post-leap!
Honestly i won't make such presumption! Had Nandini not questioned about pregnancy we would have all presumed that surely an 11 yrs old girl knows about pregnancy! In the same way Anandi has not searched well for her daughter because we never got to see it happen on our screen!
Logically everything that happens in BV is CVs's doing!
But saying something and showing something else is not a good thing for show like BV!
If they want to show Anandi's strength as a mother then these mere photo-talking won't do! They need to present each and every part of the show properly so that te audience can understand their characters! Specially the lead character!
Anandi talks ill of bal vivah but never once focussed on the fact that she received a lot from those relationships and they lasted longer and stronger than her relationships in adult marriage.
Anandi talks about dying of pain for losing her daughter but has barely done anything about it post-leap.
CVs talk about great perks of adoption but we barely saw any! In fact, the way they portray some progressive things in their show, it makes you more doubtful to accept them!
If their progressive things were so good then show the result! We want a positive conclusion to make us believe in your progressive theories!
Anandi should get reflect on her faults! People find ideal characters unappealing but they absolutely hate the characters who are praised unnecessarily and barely any of their faults are pointed out openly in the show!

There is no use of stretching a story to such a length that it dimishes the shine of lead character!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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why is Mangala's affection for Anandi's child looked down upon. She saved a life , uneducated , village lady tries hard to raise a child . Ofcourse I expect her to have maternal feelings for that child and be selfish about it too. She is a mother to Nandini..because if we don't acknowledge her motherhood and affection we are denouncing all the mothers who adopt a child or the guardians who raise a kid in absence of the parents. Motherhood is a very broad expression and emotion, just by giving birth that is not established, there are many facets to it.
I would actually love to see her struggle in parting with Nandini..makes it real and actually touches heart.

Mangala is a real woman, has different experiences in life compared to Anandi , her response to a distress will be different. She had no privileges that Anandi had yet the woman is street-smart and has her heart in the right place. Yes she didn't took Anandi's help because thats realistic, she should be wary of social workers as are most women like her in these places..it's the JOB of the social worker to pursue and investigate where Anandi failed.

Yes , it's a serial but they hardly show Anandi's pangs for her daughter or efforts, it's like she shifts through one cause to another. While Mangala'\s love for Nandini resounds .

I would love to see the struggle of two mothers here. Nandini is blessed to have them. Shouldn't be an ego or blood thing, but two women uniting to raise a kid.

But ofcourse one would be dumped for another. Sigh.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I like Anandi for her shrewdness and being smart. Her daughter is being raised by someone, her adopted son anmol is somewhere else, her husband( Jagya) was looked after by Gauri and yes, shivam is no where in the pictures, her mother Bhago was totally ignored by her... And a list can go along ... But still Bravo, she is the most respected , liked and protected character of BV.
When will she behave like a mature mom, daughter , wife ..."
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes Anandi is very bad. She forgot her mother, same way Jagya now forgot his parents. Sumi Bhairon didnt bother to come or call after Basant's death.

On one hand we write this is fiction and other hand we try to find these reality when we know Cvs are not bothered to show those.

They have shown how after marriage Anandi took care of Khajan so it is implied Anandi- Shiv done/doing their bit

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

Kundan told Urmi, the MLA of our district is coming home... this proves that Jhalra comes under jagya's constituency.

But see the irony, while he is so much against bal vivah, his own under-aged son got married in a temple in his constituency.

Akhiraj kidnapped a girl and still she is not found although she is growing up in his own constituency.

An honor killing happened in his constituency and he does not even know about it.

A truck collided with a car and killed two people and no one is bothered to find the truck driver.

This is MLA's raj.👎🏼



👏 Agree with every word. This is exactly what I have been ranting about. That Akhi lives next door and still JaAn can't find Nandini.

If they are good professionals and have a good network, they would have got information that Akhi brought a baby bride for his son. And this Akhi is a 7-footer who should be the easiest to find.

Fifteen years after Anandi swore to end BV, and claimed to have ended it in her area, her own daughter is married off under her nose and she is helpless to find her.

And the biggest irony is she runs an institution dedicated to fighting BV. What kind of professionals are the social worker and the vidhyaksa that they don't know what us happening in their own backyard?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: hisusmita

Yes Anandi is very bad. She forgot her mother, same way Jagya now forgot his parents. Sumi Bhairon didnt bother to come or call after Basant's death.

On one hand we write this is fiction and other hand we try to find these reality when we know Cvs are not bothered to show those.

They have shown how after marriage Anandi took care of Khajan so it is implied Anandi- Shiv done/doing their bit


People like to remember only what suits them and forget what doesn't suit them.
They keep accusing Anandi that she didn't care for her parents. But does any one remember how a small child Anandi stood up for her father who is a farmer and whose land is grabbed by Mahavir Singh? Does anyone remember how Dsa threw out little Anandi because she went against her orders and met Mahavir Singh to request him to give her parents land back?

Their home was seized by the money lender they were out on streets and working as daily wage labourers and little Anandi supporting her parents.
In the end they landed at Mahavir Singh's door step and he employed Bhago and Khazan as domestic helps. It was Bhairon Singh who saw them there and did some corrective measures.

But all that get over looked.

Anandi as a child tried to do so much why will she not care for her parents when she is grown up and has support of all?

When Jagya dumped her she chose to stay with Singhs simply because they too were going through the same pain as she is going through.But people accuse her saying that she did it because Singhs gave her help.
By the time Anandi was dumped by J Khazan and Bhago were in a fairly decent financial situation they could support their daughter.

How could some one who did so much for her parents even as a child can forget them?
Does it need to be shown in great detail all over again and again?

On one hand people say that Anandi doesn't change her thinking. Then how can it be said that she doesn't care for her parents when she remained same?

Anandi Shiv taking care of Khazan when he is not well was just one incident that has been shown to tell about how Anandi Shiv took care of both Shiv's and Anandi's families.Just because we didn't get to see much of Anandi Shiv Khazan why assume that she did not care about her parents?

Anandi's character and story has been told from the time she was eight years old and there have been enough tracks and stories to tell what kind of a person she is and yet people remember or forget according to their own convenience.

Did we get to see little Nandini's life over the past eleven years in minute by minute detail? Then how is it being believed that Maangala took care of her in all those eleven years?
When it was clearly shown that Mangala has not always been there for that little girl and that little girl devised her own survival techniques to cope with life in Akheraj household people still love to believe that Mangala was hovering around like a mother hen.😛

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