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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shovanashrestha

Thanks for the most needed post. At first even i was quiet annoyed with Annaya but at the end can't help it but felt sorry for the girl. I odn't know why but while at the dinner table while odering the food i felt that kabir was playing along with Annaya, I mean he deliberatly order as per sherya choice so that he could plant the insecurity seed in Annaya mind coz with direct approch he has been quite unsucessful till now. And with this he is alos trying to understand Sherya game plan?? guys don't know if this makes sence or not as my brain is not at all working straight..


Hahha, yes, even I felt Kabir was trying to one side punish Ananya for putting in the tough spot and also trying to provoke her possessive instincts,
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonyjknum

Yes actually she is trying to escape from this very fact which was there naked in front of her that her man once loved this other woman was close with her..knoews her in out...yes I felt sorry for her and so did Kabir and hence he tried to cheer her up


And thankfully we didn't have to witness that horrible 3 way date dinner ;)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Im wondering after Shreya's arrival... Why didn't Kabir even try once to disclose his past to Ananya? I know he tried twice before but I don't remember any instances after her arrival.. It would help Ananya to be on guard.. Or Ananya could just ask him about his reasons for hatred towards Shreya..

Well as you know it beyond my ability to understand how she is managing to stay away from knowing the past.

Also why did they plan for dinner date when his MIL is upset with him.. Isn't explaining her more important than date? I hope he will go n meet her when they are done with their mushy talk.

To be frank I feel it's been dragged way too much.. Ananya still after so many instances is not willing to know his past is very unreal.. They are dragging it unreasonably.. They could have covered some news stories rather than spending all these episodes on hyping up about his past and show us about his past in last week's. There is thin line between keeping a viewer hooked to the show and irritating them.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: koyelbasu

Today, for the first time I am agreeing with you in each point. 😊

Not only Shreya but Kabir also knew her choice of sauce but he has to ask Ananya what is her choice. Not Shreya but Kabir's action also show her the mirror that what she is dreaming with Kabir already lived by the duo though it is bitter now, but it was sweet for some time . The feelings which she was not ready to identify till now hit her bluntly today. Kabir is irritated but she is hurt as her wall of ignorance is broken today. It will positively bring her possessiveness & Shreya is no more just a business head but the woman from Kabir's past. I think, she will be critical from now about Shreya's behaviour.



I did think Kabir was purposely provoking Ananya's possessiveness, he was very irritated when he was forced to endure that dinner, but he can't hold onto his irritation when she looked so hurt. Not sure about she being critical, but it will be her first step in wanting to know about Kabir's past.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Danseuse


Shreya was in top form tonight and gets all the brownie points. 👏 She was either at the same restaurant accidentally or deliberately, but she succeeded in making the Kabir-Ananya duo uncomfortable and ruined their night out. She is playing her role exceedingly well. 👏

And her sad and embrassed face during the dinner, academy award worthy performance ;)

Ananya did what any well-mannered girl would do. Even I would hav done the same! 😊 Inviting your boyfriend's ex, needs a lot of courage. She did it w/out flinching an eyelid and obviously w/out thinking about the consequences. Again immaturity. But that's the learning curve in such relationships, I guess. 😃 She may choose not to do it again. And no damage was done as Kabir expl. the whole situation later.

I would have got up and left the restaurant ;)


Kabir was surprised but he played along well. Chivalry? Shreya was invited, so he chose her fav dishes too. 👏

In the end, the trust shared between Kabir-Ananya won. 😃 That was the beauty of tonight's episode.

I agree! The last scene was the proof..

-Rekha



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sorry to you guys..just read writer's views regarding Kabir playing along...he says no he acted impulsively...dont forget Shreya is his first love😡
And he also said...aShreya being there no coincidence
And there will be face off between Anita and Kabir😭
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -RegalVintage-

Yes! Exactly, that's what should be the logical thing to do. But now that she herself has said it a couple times she doesn't wanna know about Kabir's past, imo she feels if she broaches the subject now, it would hurt Kabir. Because who doesn't wanna know what your boyfriend's past is, especially someone like Kabir's who has a not so pleasant one at that. 😳

I think, I might be wrong, somewhere she is subconsciously scared of what she might learn about it, she is beginning to know the person she is with now, but what if the Kabir who was eight years ago wasn't exactly the man he is now, I think there's a part of hers that is scared of what she might find out. It could be right!
I am not really defending her, although it just might come across as such, but she has a way of dealing or rather not dealing with things, but when things will just place themselves out there in the open for her, she won't be able to ignore them.


What I know of Kabir, it won't hurt him, it will only give him immense relief,

I do think Kabir has some responsibility in the marriage breakup, not by indulging in EMA , but being a bit of insensitive husband, I think age and experience made him a better person,

But I think that's not what she is worried about.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I'm lazy so I will paste what I wrote on another topic here.😛


Kabir is very sensitive to ananya's feelings. I have noticed that he likes to coddle her like a child so it's highly unbelieveable that he will hurt her feelings like this. He played along because he has he does not want to fall into shreya's bait by reacting to her, but ordering for her without a second thought was a bad move. which is why I think kabir is manipulating both shreya and ananya. Ananya because he wants her to realize that shreya is his ex wife and they shared a life together once upon a time. Shreya because he wants her to think he is playing into her hands when really he wants ot figure out her her motive.

Even if that was not the case, it was still a blessing in disguise because ananya needs to realize that ex wife will always remain a ex wife, and there is no reason to be friendly with her.


As for shreya, I must say that she is very impressive. Finally, a tv villain i can praise.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sherni541


Im wondering after Shreya's arrival... Why didn't Kabir even try once to disclose his past to Ananya? I know he tried twice before but I don't remember any instances after her arrival.. It would help Ananya to be on guard.. Or Ananya could just ask him about his reasons for hatred towards Shreya..

He did ask once whether she still doesn't want to know, that was during their confrontation at his house after he announces his resignation and left office. She said she doesn't, after that he never offered,. Yes, Ananya should ask him now,

Well as you know it beyond my ability to understand how she is managing to stay away from knowing the past.

Hhahaa, I know that's why I tried to think like Ananya for once and come up with this explanation.

Also why did they plan for dinner date when his MIL is upset with him.. Isn't explaining her more important than date? I hope he will go n meet her when they are done with their mushy talk.

Exactly my point, I raised this question in my post on Wednesday episode.

To be frank I feel it's been dragged way too much.. Ananya still after so many instances is not willing to know his past is very unreal.. They are dragging it unreasonably.. They could have covered some news stories rather than spending all these episodes on hyping up about his past and show us about his past in last week's. There is thin line between keeping a viewer hooked to the show and irritating them.

I agree!!


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Posted: 10 years ago
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No, not like that. I meant if she comes asking about his past if Shreya says something or does something now, like the situation when he resigned and she comes to talk to him, she ended up asking him in a way, when she kept asking why can't he work with her and be a professional.
Of course he would happily tell her, but maybe in some other normal situation. But from what it seems, Ananya will learn of it in a complex situation, and yet support him. That's what is appreciable right, standing beside him when he needs her the most.

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