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Posted: 10 years ago
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Short story, we met on the fourth of July. We've hung out 10+ times since, once just me and her. Farthest we've gone is making out and sleeping in the same bed. Last night we talked and she said this (highlights in the bullet points in the order of how she told me things below):

- She likes me
- She broke up with her boyfriend in January and officially stopped all communications with him 3 weeks ago
- Established that she doesn't want a relationship right now
- She likes me
- First guy shes ever been on a date with (besides ex)
- Said she is going to talk/do what she wants because shes single (expected)
- I can talk to anyone that I want
- But again she likes me

So I'm stuck.. I am actually trying to start a relationship with her eventually, but she doesn't want one. But she kept telling me how much she liked me and how awesome I am.

Would you continue talking to this girl in hopes for a relationship or should I just treat it like a friend zone situation and move on?

Thanks!

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Posted: 10 years ago
#2
move on

if she is interested...she will come to you

if not you move on
Edited by hippopotamus - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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YES. Don't waste your time.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#4
You can always try to make her feel better and she will recover from the previous relationship faster :)
However, she may just been using you as a distraction...
I know the feeling bro, it's hard to tell.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#5
don't waste you time in spending persons who are acting like they are closed to you.just avoid her if she really love you she will come with you.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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casualdude10 it is hard to make sense of what is happening in her head. Specially when she is coming out of a relation. It could have been a bad relation or it just did not work out for both. Either way getting it on with you in a matter of three weeks is pretty soon. I would put it under rebound relationship. Most times they are still thinking of ex when they are on rebound relation.

My suggestion is to not get sucked under the emotions that she is going through. You my friend are most likely the tissue she is using to wipe her tears and nose drip.

If you still feel strongly about her, then you need to wait and take it slow. Keep meeting her and maintain relation. Do not spend too much money and time just let the relation evolve. if your meetings are turning more physically entangling then it would drive you into getting emotionally attached. Keep your eyes open for signs and save yourself some heart pain.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i think you know it yourself. she probably likes you ( as she said herself) but she didnt say more. I would suggest to move on because she just came out of a relationship and she does not want to be in a relationship right now. Maybe she was just looking for some distraction in you. Dont waste your time, if she really wants you she will show you.

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