Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
I think what the TM is trying to convey is once bitten twice shy. Why Nimboli is not learning lesssons from punishments meted out to her? It is l;ike petty thieves are jailed for a while and when they come out, they start pickpoceting and other crimes. They are not bothered about punishments as they get used to them. Very few reform after going to jail.
If the creatives showed Nimboli controlling her craving remembering her punishment in that dark forest, it would have been much more realistic. But they want drama and trauma for the viewers.
It wil be nice if they showed little growth for Nimboli.
If Nimboli is justified for her cravings, why cant Kundan be justified for his craving?
That's what we are trying to reason out.
She is NOT scared of punishments anymore. She learned how to survive those punishmenst.She mastered the techniques which minimise the pain when she is beaten.
She knows how to steal food and eat when she is starved as a form of punishment and she pretends to be hungry after being starved so that Harki will get an impression that she has been starved
She knows how to climb out of that kotri when locked up inside.
So it is not right to say that punishments have not taught her anything. She devised ways to make herself immune to those punishments - So she has no learning disabilities😆
She perfected the art of surviving punishments - yes it will be painful for sometime then everything will be alright.
She knows she will be punished but why deprive herself of such small pleasures in life in the fear of punishments?
As for discerning between what is right and wrong does any one in Akheraj house do that? Then why find fault with that girl?
Is anyone correcting her when she does somthing wrong? The only person who does that is Mangala that too it depends on her own discrimination between what is right and wrong.
At this point I really don't find that boy in the wrong even though he is no good.His behaviour goes with the kind of upbringing that boy had and the society and his peers.he is no different from them.
His cravings are age related. Don't want to bring comparisons but Anandi's balak var also had similar cravings when he entered his teens. He was peeping through key hole when Anandi was changing and he too was looking for ways to stay near and touch her as often as possible before Anandi was sent away.
Where as Kundan's parents are supporting his desire to satisfy his cravings and got him a new wife Sumi and Bhairon sent off that girl in order to save the kids becoming parents at the age of 13.The family is the modifying factor here.
Be it Nandini Shivam Abhi Mannu Pooja Kundan and now Urmi joined them all are kids at this age it is the upbringing and atmosphere at home that decides their behaviour and to an extent their own inner strength which will help them to withstand peer pressure.
Pooja succumbed to outside pressure
Mannu succumbed to the circumstances at home
Nandini and Kundan they are products of their upbringing and the atmosphere at home.
So i think these kids behaviour should be judged only after taking all these things into consideration
not in isolation
Cryptocurrency
Cricket
