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-Gan-

@-Gan-

Sparkler

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Posted: 10 years ago

Somehow this is one of those moments of YHM that stayed with me...a little girl all panicked about losing her cocoon of love from her parents (as she had learned very young what growing up as an orphan felt like, though surrounded by family) clutching onto her parents' hands and sleeping peacefully.

The essence of YHM with me lies there. ALL THREE were broken souls when we first met them in Dec 2013...scarred by the ones who they loved...and destiny brought them together to heal them with their mutual love for each other. There lies the heart of YHM. In all three of them together.

You can't just uproot that and bring back Shagun in Ruhi and Raman's lives as a replacement for Ishita under any context...If Shagun comes back, reformed or not, the whole premise of Nature vs nurture fails as Shagun gets the advantage of being the biological parent Ruhi and Adi, the ones who suffered the most for her narcissism...some crimes are irreversible as they leave a permanent damage in the victims' psyche, which cannot be undone.

And ShaRam...how is that a possibility..let's leave aside our personal affinity/ dislike for the actors ... or our hatred for Ishita...and think in terms of Raman Bhalla...this man had suffered miserably in the hands of that woman both during their marriage and after they separated...I would ask anyone calling their marriage 'normal' just this question, is fidelity in a marriage not necessary anymore? Because if you remember right Shagun might have embarked on her physical relationship with Ashok while still living with Raman ( remember Ruhi DNA track) and enjoyed every bit of her control on Raman even after she left him. She wanted and wants it all as she feels she's entitled to ANYTHING/ANYONE that her heart desires. Raman suffered in her hands. Period. There's nothing 'normal' in that relationship. Yes Ishita can be mahan, jagat mata...whatever...she might have inflicted pain during Mani track because of her ignorance of Raman's similar situations in the past with Shagun...but NEVER deliberately. If we cant forgive Ishita for making Raman suffer during Mani track...how do we forget and forgive the flashbacks with Shagun that Raman got during the same track...So ShaRam for the kids' sake me is an insult to the existence of Raman Bhalla and both his kids who suffered mercilessly because of one person's selfish materialistic ambition.

And Ishbu...there is nothing in the world that can float that boat in this or any part of the galaxy. A man who leaves a woman with whom he had a relationship for 12 years just because she can't bear children and then again taunts her about it again on the night of Terrace madness...is no man worthy of any woman...

My biggest issues with the leap spoiler...Leap can happen in any show when it's necessary...but at what cost...that is the question, If those are the cost...I would rather the show finishes on a happy note about Ishra's story and leaps/starts a second season with the kids grown up.

#NoIshBuOrSharam #DontTakeLeapInYHM

Hence I spammed against the leap ...not out of any craze or peer pressure...just from my sense of right or wrong.

( ignore typos..as I wrote in one go 😳)

Anyone wanting information about tweeting or hashtagging or calling/emailing ...please follow this link
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ye-hai-mohabbatein/4399993/47500-twts-spamming-now-to-stop-leap-dc-reporter-rt

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Coco

@---CoCo---

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Word G! I don't understand why the leap is being taken since they show has barely reached 2 years. A lot of times leaps take place after 3 years more. The leads love story has barely been taken place. Their relationship is at a stance point but they instead of focusing on the leads they bring useless storyline like revenge and child swaps, etc. I know viewers asked for a Subbu track but it should have taken place instead of the Mani track. Why was the point of bring him now because when leads confessed their love. What about a honeymoon track, or a consummation track, or how about finishing up with Vandu's pregnancy, Sarika-Romi, Bala-Raina Singh. I can give you millions of tracks that could be valid and mature for the storyline.

I don't even mind them showing this cancer track if the leads didn't separate because we would have seen some of the best acting, directing, and screenplay. The leads have amazing chemistry, its the usp so why ruin it with a pathetic separation leap. And the leap goes against everything they build on. Didn't they come together for Ruhi, so a leap goes against that because it has been repeated many times on the show that no matter what happen between Ishra they would not separate because of Ruhi. Also, the leap represents big character assassination. They way they are planning to show Ishra, goes back to the whole point of the story.

If they wanted to show a separation then I prefer the work excuse separation because at least the romance was build and at the end of the day you knew the couple is still together on good terms.

I say it is better to end the show then ruin their amazing product with this leap.

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Wings-of-Fire

@Wings-of-Fire

Rocker

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Posted: 10 years ago

I started watching YHM for Divyanka and she still is the main reason for me to continue. Right now everything is indicating that if the leap happens, she'd quit the show. So why am I bothered about the leap? My favorite is not gonna be on the show anyway! And I'd be happy if she quits whether the leap happens or not!

I'm not really worried about Raman or Ishita or the obnoxious pairing they are predicting or Ruhi or Adi. Because I know, like in every other Ekta Kapoor show, they will reunite IshRa and throw out Shagun and Subbu. So why am I tweeting against the leap?

I'm tweeting and mailing and protesting the leap because the spoiler that came is one of the worst storylines I've ever read. The idea that they are trying to preach insults every basic human relationship and emotion. The idea of the leap champions betrayals, misunderstandings, helplessness and misconceptions. It undermines the importance of standing together. It makes a mockery of marriage, of love of every form, of loyalty and friendship and of life and death. I'm protesting because I care about all these emotions and relationships. Yes, people can argue that it's fiction, what difference does it make? Well, I happen to be one of those girls who grew up with books so I know that works of fiction teach you more than you give them credit for. Even your core beliefs that you acquired, came from fictions, usually called fables!

I will tweet and mail and protest till the leap is here.

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akdhalover

@akdhalover

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

This is such an amazing post must read by all the people related to YHM

You just reflected what and why we people don't want leap its not that we have anything against actors and all its just totally goes out of track and contradicts what was the base of the show

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Aarohi Talegoankar

@Albeli26

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

di we know the right thing. the essence of YHM lie in Ishraru. if any one of them leave it the originality will leave it. RD, DT, KP are perfect as ishita, Raman and ruhi and no one can replace them. I hope they listen us.

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ipournami

@ipournami

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

Completely agree with you. Am not much of a writer so am nervous on being on the first page but had to respond to your post. How could the cvs even bring such a track in this story with this theme. Its simply unacceptable. First time am praying sincerely thst a serial doesn't destroy itself in this manner.
I also wish they stop this serial on this happy note. We don't get the second c, I could barely live with it but this turn in the story in just not acceptable. So please cvs stop the story here or please don't take this turn.
Gan, your pic has captured the essence of yhm we all love. Why, oh why, cv's can't you see what we see in your writing and your storyline.

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beckysharp

@beckysharp

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

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Hi Gan, thank you for opening this thread. I am one of those people who do have a twitter handle, but doesn't tweet. For the past couple of days, since the new spoiler has been out, the girls were disheartened and heartbroken. They all decided to tweet, not only against the leap, but against the spoiler ! I decided to join them and created a new id just to tweet my protest, not only against the leap, but more against the spoiler. I know it may not bear any fruit, but at least I will have the satisfaction of knowing that I protested something that was not only illogical but fundamentally wrong.

I was appalled and absolutely shocked when the new spoiler was out. I know a section of yhm fans would be absolutely in a tizzy of delight on reading this spoiler, after all according to them ShaRam are the perfectly imperfect couple and Raman should be relieved from having a horrible horrible woman like Ichyta as a wife, who put him through the utmost torture during Mani track, is a jagat mata, would happily prioritize everyone except her husband !

I began watching this programme because it had the basis of reality. A story that most of us may understand, identify and empathize / sympathize with. About broken, hurt and embittered souls coming together to not only heal each other but complete / fulfill each other and try to move on in life and be happy.

Now, if Raman accepts Shagun back in his life, however reformed she may now be, it destroys the basis and the fundamental ethics and morals of the show along with that of marriage. It shows that you should forgive and accept a cheating spouse after every wrong committed by them solely because they are the biological parent of your children. I wonder, whether the yhm fans rooting for ShaRam , really understand the hurt that was caused to Raman during his marriage to Shagun. Do they remember the pathetic man, who stood crying and begging, holding baby Ru in his arms in front of Ashok ? Do they remember that Shagun, whilst being in the wedlock with Raman had a physical relationship with Ashok ? Do they remember the pathetic Raman who borrowed money and brought expensive gifts for Shagun, even though he could not afford it. Do they remember the sad, pathetic man begging Shagun not to leave him. Do they remember, Shagun turned and poisoned a 6 year old boy against his own father because she wanted to get back at him ? Do they also remember that their perfect Shagun, walked out leaving not only her husband but a tiny 6 month old infant for greener pastures ! Who was happy to torture their favourite Raman at the say so of her lover. That it is perfectly fine to live with another man for six years, share his bed and return to the husband you abandoned because you are now all alone and reformed ? I wonder if the people who are celebrating ShaRam even realize that Raman was nothing but Shagun's lapdog until Ishita walked into his life and slackened Shagun's hold on him.

Marriage is a serious commitment. Even if there is no love, you respect the institution. Marriage is a two way street, fidelity, trust and respect are the basis on which marriage's are built and ShaRam marriage did not have even one of these as a corner stone.

As for IshBu, one more wrong relationship. How can Ishita go along with Subbu ? This man dumped her as soon as he heard of her medical affliction ! How can Ishita go back to a man who treats a woman as a child bearing machine. I have not been able to bring myself to watch Subbu n his theatrics ! So have not watched the past few episodes. What has riled me more is the constant refrain from the actor that fans should be open to IshBu, I assume and presume and give the benefit of doubt that the actor in question is unaware of the basic premise of the show.

Isn't it immature, that Ishita leaves her husband because she is afflicted by a disease, which could be fatal ? The story would have made more impact if they had shown IshRa fighting the disease, all rallying around IshRa and helping them through it during their difficult times. In fact if they wanted to show a reformed Shagun, they could have shown her softening towards Ishita, during her time of difficulty, helping out with the children.. that would have made better sense !

Unfortunately, EK I have heard loves to destroy her own creation ! So here is the harakiri that is being committed by her !

#NoShaRam

#NoIshbu

#Noleap

#saveyhm

Please Ekta, don't destroy such a beautiful show n such amazing story line. There are so many more avenues that are open for exploration !

Phew ! I am done ! Sorry for the rant G !

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shadeslayer

@shadeslayer

Navigator

Posted: 10 years ago

I am not spamming nor tweeting Gan, Don't have an account and don't plan to make one for a mere show. But this is the first IF post after reading the spoiler that touched me, and hence the post.

We started off this entire journey with three broken individuals who had been hurt brutally by their past. We loved their journey for the first 8 months. We took all the crap that they threw in at us, especially with the end of the mani track and everything starting from the sautan/Shagun sagas.

The major problem all of us have with the leap is the insanity of showing them back with their exes. The exes who were responsible for inflicting so much pain into their lives. What an insult to the characters of both Raman and Ishita- To show them accepting the one who hurt them the most. Which wife who is going to die leaves her family? Instead of spending all her last moments with them. Protecting them from pain? A man who has been hurt in betrayal would rather have the love of his life die peacefully in his arms than face the brunt of infidelity (Assumed) again. Instead of saving him from so called pain- The character of Raman bhalla would be going through twice as much pain- Not only thinking he lost the love of his life, but also thinking that she is an infidel. What result would it have on his already tarnished self importance?- The inferiority complex that Shagun threw at him time and again when she was married to him? He would be pushed back to the same dungeons of his past- What kind of father would such a man make to his kids anyways?

As for calling back shagun- A woman who has proved time and again that she neither deserves to be a mother nor a wife to any man. Who recently left her kids to die - she is called again coz she is apparently reformed? For showing a 1min face of regret for her kids in 1.5 years and 480 odd episodes?

I don't even want to start about Subbu. I did not watch the terrace madness- But I did read that he again took a dig at her infertility. I might sound harsh- such a man deserves no woman and definitely no child. The lowest possible kind of man- and to show ishita even pretending to be in love with him- To show Ishbu- If that was the ultimate point of the show, then why not just start with these jodies? At least we would not mistake this show as a show for second chances at love. We would have known this show from the start was for second chances fr the one who made the mistakes.

Afterall- In this so called show established to portray nature Vs nature- In the end, the makers have shown their own 18th century mindset- Whatever you do- Nature would still win. How many times has shagun gotten away with all that she does- Only coz she is the biological mother? And now she even gets freely what she wants- status, money. Afterall- this is what the show has been teaching ever since the time slot change- Evil wins- do bad- win- Do good- you suffer. Marriage and fidelity are not even important- Loyalty has no basis.

And the biggest factor that pulled us- Ruhi- The binding factor. This leap and the story after it beats the crap out of all that they have done in the past 1.5 years. I do not understand the logic- neither of the story nor of the business profit. But the makers apparently do, and perhaps they are right and I am the mad one who read the story wrong from the start- It was always about nature winning , it was always about the mohabbatein of the exes. My bad. There is a lot more I can write about- But I have given up-

#RIPYHM. The actors will yet stay on coz they will not wanna lost their money and job-And they do not respect their acting enough or their characters enough to give a damn. And I don't blame them- Kudos to the trio KP, DT, RD for dishing out the best performances even in the most unbelievable of tracks.

Sorry for the long rant, it is probably my last on IF if this spoiler comes true (Which it most probably will- since it is standard EK Bullshit). Also, if any of the CVs see this, we are not jobless fools like you wanna believe, most of us who started watching this show from epi one are working professionals. Just FYI.

P.S.- Gan, I joined IF coz I fell in love with your collages. I guess the only thing I will be thankful to this show for- I met some great ladies (You guys know who you are, Love you all)

#PeaceOut #NoSharamAndIshBu #NoLeapForYHM

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Indu

@-II-

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

WORD, Gan!! 👏 You have stated it so beautifully, I just want to say DITTO! to everything you have said. This is the precise reason for my support towards the protest, too.

The whole premise of the show will be ruined if they go this route. Raman accepting Shagun or even allowing her to live in the Bhallas' as the kids' mom, Ishita going away with Subbu even if it is pretense, is contradictory to the initial storyline. It irrevocably destroys the very foundation, the soul of IshRaRu and YHM.

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Aru.Divan

@Aru.Divan

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#10

G, I have been tweeting and RTing not sure if any of this will work but I don't want to give up without trying. They promised a mature love story and now it's down the drains. Somewhere I have started to wean myself off the show. Anyways looks like C is around the corner, at least I have a reason to quit saying my journey with YHM is over. With this leap shit definitely my heart did not race on hearing about the C but just made me feel good that I can quit with lesser qualms.

But really thanks to YHM, I met some lovely people including you and I will watch till C the way i watched and then maybe say farewell cos I am really not sure how am I going to withdraw myself. I am contradicting here but yes my fickle mind when it comes to these two.

YHM that I know will always be close to my heart. G my sincere request till C I would love to see you beautiful collages. If you are not comfortable here, then post them on twitter or Insta. I would love to complete watching their journey with your collage 😃.

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