Is this show teaching Indian men to love their wife via verbal abuse??

CVs of YHM should be aware of what message they are giving to the society... They took a break from "Ghar ka chiraag" awareness classes and enrolled for "Verbal abuse"...

Good post.

It pains me to see RKB like this. In the early days of their marriage, he would get angry but he never taunted her this cruelly in anger. His anger was more often than not justified but he also owned up to it. He never once asked her to leave and when she did leave, he never broke the relationship between her & Ruhi.

Then around the Mani track - he became crueler. Since the turn of the year - he spews these vile low blows in anger, and it's harder to shake them off. There are times when it even makes full sense for him to be mad, but then things get taken too far and any relatability is gone.

This isn't the couple I grew attached to, and it pains me to actually say this is an abusive relationship.

No woman deserves to be treated like a doormat. We have been waiting for Ishita for Ishita to take a stand, but she hasn't thus far. Since they've fallen in love, she allows this to happen. Does she as a character or the writer realize what they are showing? Something needs to change soon.

The CVs don't understand balance. They could've shown Raman being short tempered about these situations, leading to distance between the leads, but no...for "drama," they have been adding in crass dialogs & make the entire situation unbalanced where Raman is the dominating, hypocritical male while Ishita is left to suffer. And that's not the dynamic anyone fell in love with.

Reality or not he is the most annoying character.Thank god he exists only in fiction.
He was always insensitive towards her at the need of hour.What's the point of being nice to ur wife if only she does something great?
Ok,basically this show is effed up so badly that you don't take it seriously.

For Raman:

A very pertinent point you raise! And I agree completely with you and Krish ben(hellooo there:).

I had the misfortune of watching today's episode and I was stunned to say the least. The show had lost its charm for me eons ago, even IshRa scenes had lost their magic(for me)...but what I saw today was plain disgusting and pathetic. If Raman is the hero of this show, I wonder who the negative character is.

Shagun echoed the sentiments of a lot of us-'Kya drama hai'! I think when creativity and out of box thinking is scarce, you end up scripting such appalling story-there was a time YHM was very relatable-to many of us(we might never be in a situation like Ishita's or Raman's, but the emotions, feelings displayed and decisions made by the characters was real). But now, the relationships are so messed up and implausible that relatability(whether to Mihir-Rinki-Mihika situation, Raman's verbal abuse or Ishita's passive reaction to Raman's yellings) has gone for a toss! And it only seems like the makers are milking these implausible situations till the viewer drops dead of exhaustion and disgust!!!

And don't get me started about the message being sent to the audience through these tracks! All I can hope is the audience (TRP or otherwise) is much smarter than the makers' make them out to be and doesn't fall prey to their cheap portrayals in the name of drama.

Originally posted by: TOMB-RAIDERR

ashok shows his love via rapes his wife not verbal abuse 🤣

Originally posted by: anu rulz

isnt it sad tht the male lead is now being compared to a lecherous antagonist??

Very nice post & I completely agree wit the TM!! The words which Raman said to Ishita were horrendous & cruel. What I fail to understand is jus few minutes back he promised her that her feelings r now most imp to him & in the very next second he thrashs & crushes her feelings so brutally, for the sake of his brotherly love & to prove his sister that she matters to him more than his love for his wife or heck his wife itself!.