Balika Vadhu 20 March 2015 Written Update

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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

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If Jagya proved himself to be a good father with Mannu so did Anandi with Amol.

Jagya and Ganga know that Abhi has problems with Shivam and Ganga does feel that J is strict with Abhi but have they done anything about it?

He feels overshadowed by Shivam and no one seems to pay attention to him he is frustrated and stressed out - he too takes out all his frustrations on Shivam and Shivam tries to get back at him.It is not a one way street with Abhi and Shivam - things are happening from both sides to worsen the situation

Why his father feels that he needs to be extra strict with Abhi is what J needs to answer.

Nobody excepts him to step into Shivam's father's shoes and correct Shivam. But he should have told his wife and son why he is lenient on Shivam.

Why there is only problem between Shivam and Abhi?Why is that Shivam doesn't have problems with Mannu?

So far neither J and G nor Anandi have not done much towards reaching a solution for the problem between Abhi and Shivam.

Anandi at least trying to make Shivam see the reason behind his behaviour towards Abhi did J try to do that?

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Awfulggt

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: aparnauma
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Anandi at least trying to make Shivam see the reason behind his behaviour towards Abhi did J try to do that?

Can you please let me know if this is true - When abhi asked Ganga about something... Ganga told him that some children are less gifted implying that he's weaker ...? I read this somewhere and felt like commenting on it but wasn't sure if it's true...

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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.

Can you please let me know if this is true - When abhi asked Ganga about something... Ganga told him that some children are less gifted implying that he's weaker ...? I read this somewhere and felt like commenting on it but wasn't sure if it's true...

That conversation went like this - Abhi told his mother that it upsets to see that Shivam is ahead of him in school and other activities everything and gets more attention too.

Then Ganga did say that some kids are just better than other kids but she amended it later saying that if Shivam is better at something he is better too.

I think that's how the scene went If I remember right

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Muktchand

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Thanks for WU...

prank... Awww such pure intentions of Abhi ... I am sure in future if he try play bigger so called Prank with good manners only

grrr CV Anandi leave BH asap ...

Shivam Anandi needs to stay from BH's inferiority complex kid ... Anandi shd reliazed this she face same when she was young ...

Anandi shd realized inferiority complex complex can be dangerous...wonder soon Shivam's life could be in danger due this complex

Shivam needs healthy environment if he is popular in school due his marks studies sports teachers love that nothing to do with he being fatherless... Shivam is getting attention not just in BH but in school too. School don't praise kids without reason.

His school popularity made BH people showed more love care towards him what can Shivam do about it ... High time Anandi shift in,Shiv Niketan with Shivam

Shivam will remain as popular as he stays in BH ... But he wont be in danger in future

I am sure after this incident Shivam will face more could cost his life too... Shivam needs to stay away from BH ..Anandi move out

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aparnauma

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Posted: 11 years ago

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True. Anandi should move out of BH.

She was made to move into BH by daddu and Dsa in the interests of her children.They both felt Anandi is an very fragile state at that time.Now she is much stronger and her son is doing well for himself and infact he is becoming a source of insecurity by giving someone inferiority complex.

He doesn't need to put up with somebody's resentment so unnecessarily.

Anandi should now move out in the interests of her kid.

It will subside for a short while. Who knows what other pranks are in store for him? What guarentee is there that they won't prove to be dangerous?

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Muktchand

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Posted: 11 years ago

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reading spoliers I am sure Shivam will be in trouble ... It seems BH couple anger made their son more insecure finally he will transfer his anger on Shivam

Anandi move out from BH sake of safety of Shivam ...

Just restricting Shivam won't make difference.. Shivam's success can't be hidden

its not just getting attention from,BH people but entire Shivam's personality making other kid total insecure slowly might lead into dangerous action

Anandi Shivam moving out from BH will not solution for BH couple their kid becoz this kind off insecurity inferiority complex won't cure easily .. Today its Shivam tomorrow may be Mannu as he get to know he is not biological son his bapusa & sharing his father with step brother, rather forcfully accept him as big brother or simply any random kid made him insecure jealous

But moving out from BH atleast Anandi saved her son life ... Becoz Shivam's life seriously will be danger if she continues to live in BH

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dolly

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Posted: 11 years ago

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i agree wid stephi sidra & oders that shivam is not innocent. bcoz his attitude tells itself abt him.and abhi doesn't feel inferior 2 him but its shivam who has superiority complex that every1 luvs him & hes most fav.

and ganga din't amend the situtn but she said that sum kids r more gifted than oders and if shivam is gud in sum areas so hes also gud in oder areas.so its clear shivam is no way better than abhi.they both r in difft classes thatswhy they came out of class @ difft times & wid difft frnds.

and abhi din't leave shivam wid evil intention oderwise he wud'd left him @ sum random place like taps did wid iccha. yes it was not even gud but we can't say its evil also. he played prank like oder kids do but he shud b dealt 4 lying.

and funny how ppl can think a 12yr kid can't know abt the way 2 his home.as sum1 said even if he cums by car he shud know the way & moreover jaitser is not such a big city.it mite hav bcum distt but still not v.big that BH has lost its name & fame.and 2days kids r more smarter.and like ppl r thinking shivam is superior than abhi then why this superior so-called cousin doesn't know way 2 his home that 2 normal one not the short cut one which the oversmart superior took 2 reach home.

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Muktchand

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Shivam is stupid ... Not knowing his home address plus without knowledge take short cut ... Instead of taking short cut route he shd have sit in school think about prank to teach lesson to Abhi ...

Shivam shd start thinking about how lie ...plan Pranks to trouble others ...stupid hee hain ... Anandi shd teach him how to get jealous... Plan pranks .. Imp lie to your parents Grand parents ...

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Muktchand

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Posted: 11 years ago

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It seems lied to your parents is term as Prank its not bigger thing

but not knowing home address or route is bigger sin / crime ... Yah obviously Shivam is AnSh's son ... Yah it bound to happen

If something happen to Shivam it would be his own mistake taking risk ... But someone lie about he been gone to Farm trip won't be the reason becoz its pure Prank .. But this prank lead someone in danger who cares that's own stupidity.. Finally end result get rid off Shivam is motive can be achieved without directly involving..its indeed smartness sharp mind ...

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Awfulggt

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: aparnauma

That conversation went like this - Abhi told his mother that it upsets to see that Shivam is ahead of him in school and other activities everything and gets more attention too.
Then Ganga did say that some kids are just better than other kids but she amended it later saying that if Shivam is better at something he is better too.
I think that's how the scene went If I remember right

Thanks for that.

What sort of mom tells her son that he's a weakling? No wonder he's turned out to be that whiny thing he is now. she corrected herself after making him feel worse about himself. Glad she did it later at least after all those looks of pity she passes to him

Edit : when abhi complaints, one thing Ganga could do was to divert his attention on bigger, better positive things and remind him of things he might have done well earlier. But no. She chooses to feel sorry for him even when she knows his dad's intentions towards him are for his own good. She is encouraging him in all the negative qualities he's getting into. Probably she was away from home for too long doing medical courses that she wants to pamper him now for all the lost time?

Edited by The_Alchemist. - 11 years ago

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