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Posted: 11 years ago
I am saying, for Purab to get BB's "fidaa" types love, he has to be a son to the Aroras..

Pragya-BB and Sarla are very close to each other than regular Maa-betis.. because of single parenting.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -mina-

purab. purab. PURAB. abhi bhi samaj mein nahin aaya? HOW MANY TIMES has bb tried to ditch you and go against your words for her sister. HOW MANY TIMES will she have to before you get the message. you are not more important to her than her sister. sad but true.



This has been troubling me most since the beginning of this show. I;ve said it before and I'll say it again she does not value Purab and I just dont think she deserves the guy. She's chosen every member of her family over this guy, I truly feel for him. Whatever faults he may have, you can't fault him for the love her has for her and the way she is going about this is all wrong.

I wonder when Purab's patience will run out...how many times before he gives up on her..
Edited by deefan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: MinMinMehra


Just adding on to this:

BB is also slightly like that stubborn child, who wants things done her way...almost like those kids in Charlie and the Chocolate factory...And she even gets it because she's so "loved" by everyone...Purab, Suresh and even Pragya

Also BB and aliyah are very much alike in that manner...both had siblings who sheltered them...That younger child syndrome, its okay my bro/sis/elder sibling will help me sort it out...so she's never had to make any conflicting decisions.

Yeah just repeating what you're saying :P and my mood is much better now...lol...vented out on work...😆



I gotta say BB has struggled to earn Sarla's trust all along. Even now, she was worried how will Sarla Maa feel about her being the reason of Pragya's kidnap.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Tia-

When has Purab stood up for BB's family? BB might find Purab attractive and like him a lot, but I don't think he has fit into the family value picture of Aroras/Mehras. I don't think she can trust him enough on that front...


On the other hand, Pragya can choose Abhi over her family.. because Pragya knows Abhi will not let her family down (I am talking generally.. yeah AbhiGya marriage/Tannu issue is there.. but Abhi has proved to be a good daamaad all along)..

I don't think BB can trust Purab for standing up to families... that kind of relationships. He ended up running away from a wedding home.. (Mehras was his second family) and forced BB to elope with him while Sarla Maa had a heart attack.



regarding abhi, that much is so true tia - if pragya chooses abhi, she's still choosing her family, because he will choose her family over himself anyday.

OLDER SIBLING COMPLEX...in my opinion. in complement to what mini me said ^_^
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: deefan



This has been troubling me most since the beginning of this show. I;ve said it before and I'll say it again she does not value Purab and I just dont think she deserves the guy. She's chosen every member of her family over this guy, I truly feel for him. Whatever faults he may have, you can't fault him for the love her has for her and the way she is going about this is all wrong.

I wonder when Purab's patience will run out...how many times before he gives him on her..


RaBul are not in sync with each other in real issues. I don't think their love has taken the test of time either and grown stronger.
Edited by -Tia- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Tia-

I am saying, for Purab to get BB's "fidaa" types love, he has to be a son to the Aroras..

Pragya-BB and Sarla are very close to each other than regular Maa-betis.. because of single parenting.


I think you're spot on Tia! I like the strong female bonds they have shown in this show, and I absolutely do think it's because of single-parenting. I wish they would have shown Aliya feeling close to at least one of her parental figures (abhi or dadi) and feeling some concience at the thought of hurting them...but of course they are going to make her soulless.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -mina-

you know what though.

i'm NOT saying this as a criticism, merely pointing out the difference

bulbul says "meri liye meri di sab kuch hai, purab."

pragya would not say this. if it came to abhi or bb...she would not be so quick to choose bb as bb is to choose her or purab.



I think how you choose and why you choose is important too. She totally just forced her decision on Purab. This is Pragya's life so I understand why BB took the call but cmon, don't just leave the guy hanging w/o hearing him out and offering or hearing suggestions.

In pragya's case, I bet you ABhi would not even entertain the option of letting Pragya go, a whole diff plan would be formulated. But thats just me, I think Abhi is a very possessive crazy lover/husband..
Edited by deefan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Tia-

I am saying, for Purab to get BB's "fidaa" types love, he has to be a son to the Aroras..

Pragya-BB and Sarla are very close to each other than regular Maa-betis.. because of single parenting.



yes!! YES!!! very awesome!!!!!!

love the way you have put this.

if you wanna be with my lover, you gotta get with my - DI, MAA, DAADI, and optionally purvi-janki, mama-mami too 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: deefan



I think how you choose and why you choose is important too. She totally just forced her decision on Purab. This is Pragya's life so I understand why BB took the call but cmon, don't just leave the guy hanging w/o hearing him out and offering or hearing suggestions.

In pragya's case, I bet you ABhi would not even entertain the option of letting a go, a whole diff plan would be formulated. But thats just me, I think Abhi is a very possessive crazy lover/husband..


Yup! Abhi's first reaction would have been to track the kidnappers down. He would not even think of his wife/lover leaving him, sacrificing etc..

And that's perhaps why he ended up knocking BB off.. because he was like what the hell she is even thinking. He is even possessive of BB for that matter. Neel ney haath lagaaya.. and Abhi was furious.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: deefan



This has been troubling me most since the beginning of this show. I;ve said it before and I'll say it again she does not value Purab and I just dont think she deserves the guy. She's chosen every member of her family over this guy, I truly feel for him. Whatever faults he may have, you can't fault him for the love her has for her and the way she is going about this is all wrong.

I wonder when Purab's patience will run out...how many times before he gives him on her..



Completely agree with you, that he has been left behind for most of her family and with Tia saying that he hasn't ever been the guy to look after her family...but I'm going to try and justify his behavior(just for my own personal satisfaction in getting the character right in my head)

He wants to see BB happy(This might be a good post and I might discuss this outside the AT so as not to break any forum rules.)

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