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We are just assuming that he doesn't have a source of income or that he is not independent etc.

Originally posted by: SPuja

Nothing wrong in the marriage and Hardik's gesture - I am tired of clarifying this again and again. He seems to be not caring for his parents or his grandmother - just his own wish. Unless and until Hardik is employed - this gives a wrong message that marriage can be done as and when one likes - elders like Shakhers are there to take care of their livelihood. There was no emergency to marry like that. Shakhers are not his family - I hope Hardik and Gulli will stay at KB for just a short time and then go on to make their own home.

By the way I have not heard of any marriage where the boy's side or girl's side do not know each other and the boy and girl met just two-three days before and got married.

I have confidence in my son's ability, but I will not like him taking such a hasty decision (after all marriage happens only once with only a few exceptions) that he does not think it necessary to even inform me - may be there are people who find it normal. And I myself will not marry like this - I will at least want my family to be there for the auspicious occasion. If they cannot come, then it is another matter. What was the emergency there? And if I were in place of Shakhers, I would certainly asked Shiv and Anandi how they supported such hasty decision, not informing even daddu?

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

So Hardik is not earning ? And he has married ?😆

Hardik biwi. Ki. Kamai par. Jeena. Chatha hai.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Why must it be assumed that Shekhars are giving him financial help?

Why can't it be this support in form of an emotional support of his decision?

Originally posted by: tinoo

Hardik biwi. Ki. Kamai par. Jeena. Chatha hai.

Every son or daughter wants his or her parent's consent. But in some cases, the disagreements are so many, it happens that these things are usual. If we really love our children, we must let them free at some stage. They will love us for this. And we wont lose them.

Hardik seems to be an innocent boy who has to marry somebody and why not gulli? Instead of some girl chosen by his grandmother. Hardik can get employment in some multinational company if he is qualified. He can even become a model or join a band as he is interested in music.

I know many cases where the calculations can entirely go wrong. One mother wanted to get her son married to her close relative's daughter thinking that they can live happily everafter. The daughter in law started to show her true colors and treated her mother in law like an unpaid servant and the son turned against his own mother. One cant depend on children beyond a point. We saw Suhasini's story.

A bit of flexibility on the parents part will bring happiness and postivity.

In my family circles, there are so many love marriages( intercaste and inter religious), we are relieved that the burden of looking for brides and bridegrooms are not on our heads. Shopping for brides and bridegrooms is not fun. If something goes wrong, our kids will blame us. Let them take responsibility for their lives and let us stand by them come what may.

Originally posted by: Missesha

What's wrong if people can forgive Saanchi? If Ratan, Ds, J, basant, Gauri etc can be forgiven then why not Saanchi?

Forgiving someone is a personal choice. Why should any member be questioned if they choose to forgive Saanchi?

If they had a heart to forgive Jagya and others, then why should they be questioned on forgiving Saanchi?

if it is referred to my comment ( since it is below my comment ) then i believe you need to read the comment even other's then ask question I did not question anyone so whats the problem ?