Originally posted by: moniluvskinshuk
See I am not justifying R**E . I know very well how Shameful Act it is !! . But I am saying that Raja never crossed his limit and ra**d her when he had full chance in his Village . But He always beared JM's insults , her disgusting expressions 2wds him , her Anger , Her Hatred everything eventhough he always supported her U can't deny this fact .But She never ever acknowledged that Goodness of Raja . Even when Raja said this much also that he is ready to change , She still abused him like anything . Still He tolerated everything coz He loved her . I agree JM's anger was right but Atleast When someone does good for us then we atleast appreciate that . but She never did that .
Yes She have right to decide wheather she want the child or not . But Raja is her husband , They are LEGAL MARRIED COUPLE , wheather she accepts it or not But legally He is her Husband !! And Legally Raja have full right to decide too as a Father that He wants the child or not . If tomm Raja goes to court asking for the child , She can't refuse it . Court WILL tell her to give birth to the child and give it to Raja if she doesn't want the child . So What is the need to abort the child ? According to me Abortion should be the Last Option for a Pregnant Lady . I can understand if it is mutual decision of a married couple coz of some reason , or Mother's life is at risk . But Here JM took her decision without even letting Raja know about the child . Don't u think this is Unfair and Wrong ? If at all she doesn't want the child , Atleast She should let Raja know . If then Raja coz of guilt or coz of Madhu's anger agrees for it then she can go ahead .Even then the step will be wrong and Both Raja-Madhu would be wrong for me . But Since Right now only Madhu knows about the pregnancy and thinking to abort the child So For me she is wrong .
This is completely my POV . Our POV's might differ .So I m not sure wheather U will be able to understand what I want to say .I ususually is very weak in explaining my Pov's 😆
I understand your point of view and I really appreciate that you took the time to comment back and remained calm. Usually, when you disagree with someone's post they get very defensive so I really appreciate you for that!
With that said, I know Madhu never really treated Raja nicely and I kind of hoped that they would see eye-to-eye sooner than later, but that never happened. Raja always told her he loved and wanted to be with her but he forced her into the relationship. She never really wanted to be with him when she found who he really was. He took her to his family at gun point and she was helpless. She was married to him, but for me that still doesn't mean that she doesn't have a choice to decide what she wants to do with her life. I am not sure I would be comfortable marrying and living with a gangster who murdered someone so I totally understand why Madhu was rude to him. She never really saw the "good" in him, but to be honest anyone in her position wouldn't want to see the "good" in the man that has them under "house arrest".
I know that abortion is a very sensitive topic. People are either pro-choice or pro-life. Now I don't think you should abort your child for no reason at all, but I feel that Madhu does have the right to decide whether or not that she wants to abort this child or keep it. I agree that Raja is Madhu's husband- but this child is not a by product of consensual sex! Madhu was raped by her husband and this child is a by product of rape. I completely understand why she doesn't want to keep this child. Even though Raja is her husband, she did have to go through the trauma of getting raped and this child will always be a reminder of that incident. Furthermore, Madhu and Raja cannot see eye to eye. it is one thing to give life to a child and another thing to raise a child. It is better to abort the child than it is to keep the child and bring it in to a hostile environment.
Honestly, the CV's messed up! They shouldn't have brought in this whole "rape" track! It was so uncalled for. I think it is repulsive to show a woman eventually falling in love with her rapist. This is not the type of message we need to send to men.
Lastly, I know we both have our opinions, which probably won't change because this has a lot to do with social issues that most people feel very strongly about. But thanks for replying back and justifying your stance.
Riya