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Posted: 11 years ago
#81
one question is bugging me

Yahan pai seriously kisi ko pta hai how channel works ?

PPl blaming actors for BD.. I mean seriously ? Do u ppl evn know tht no actor is bigger thn channel ? A PH and channel can easily sue actors if they dont act.. CVs and PH are using BD either coz of cost cutting or CVs themselves are not bother.. Actors can only be blamed for acting but not for BDs

PS- Shonnu, mahi, natz I mean seriously?I know little bit how channel works thts why I m saying use of BDs is not mistake of actors nor its in their hand . In some cases PH might excuse them but not all the time. VD ki party ? This is the lamest way of u telling tht Vivian k liye party is more important thn show whn evn on his b'day he did shooting
DD ka other projects ? Kaun se project ? She has already been kicked out from JDJ ? So uski kaun si wajah to use JDJ n uske pass koi other project nhi hai (Now dont call endorsement and brand ambassador other projects coz every actor manage this and it is not other project but another way of earning)

So BDs mai actors ko u cant blame coz DVD nai colors khareed k nhi rakha hai.Agar dono tantrums dikhate toh abhi tak sue kar diya hota... So baar baar showing DVD in bad light and calling thm greedy and unprofessiona is actually stupid.. They dont have anything in their hands.. Acting definitely unke hand mai hai so VD ki acting achi hai though character sucks ig time and DD ki acting JM dono sucks.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: princessonline



I am so sorry but I disagree entirely with the portion in red. Does Raja being drunk change the fact that Madhu was raped? No! It doesn't change a thing. It doesn't make it any easier for her to accept and go through what she is going through. She was RAPED by her husband. She has every right to go for abortion. This is no different than a random guy on a street raping a girl. The fact that Madhu does not want to keep her baby does not make her uneducated or barbaric. What Raja did was inhumane. I don't care if he was drunk or drugged. There is no excuse for raping a woman. It is because people justify rape in such ways that rapist don't get punished and think it is okay to take advantage of women! I would like to flip this around on you. What if you were in Madhu's shoes? If you had a husband like Raja and he did this to you? Would you go on to love him or despise every single day for what he did to you? Again, I don't mean to offend you! This is something I feel very strongly about. I hate violence against women.

Riya


See I am not justifying R**E . I know very well how Shameful Act it is !! . But I am saying that Raja never crossed his limit and ra**d her when he had full chance in his Village . But He always beared JM's insults , her disgusting expressions 2wds him , her Anger , Her Hatred everything eventhough he always supported her U can't deny this fact .But She never ever acknowledged that Goodness of Raja . Even when Raja said this much also that he is ready to change , She still abused him like anything . Still He tolerated everything coz He loved her . I agree JM's anger was right but Atleast When someone does good for us then we atleast appreciate that . but She never did that .

Yes She have right to decide wheather she want the child or not . But Raja is her husband , They are LEGAL MARRIED COUPLE , wheather she accepts it or not But legally He is her Husband !! And Legally Raja have full right to decide too as a Father that He wants the child or not . If tomm Raja goes to court asking for the child , She can't refuse it . Court WILL tell her to give birth to the child and give it to Raja if she doesn't want the child . So What is the need to abort the child ? According to me Abortion should be the Last Option for a Pregnant Lady . I can understand if it is mutual decision of a married couple coz of some reason , or Mother's life is at risk . But Here JM took her decision without even letting Raja know about the child . Don't u think this is Unfair and Wrong ? If at all she doesn't want the child , Atleast She should let Raja know . If then Raja coz of guilt or coz of Madhu's anger agrees for it then she can go ahead .Even then the step will be wrong and Both Raja-Madhu would be wrong for me . But Since Right now only Madhu knows about the pregnancy and thinking to abort the child So For me she is wrong .

This is completely my POV . Our POV's might differ .So I m not sure wheather U will be able to understand what I want to say .I ususually is very weak in explaining my Pov's 😆
Edited by moniluvskinshuk - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: SheDevil

one question is bugging me

Yahan pai seriously kisi ko pta hai how channel works ?

PPl blaming actors for BD.. I mean seriously ? Do u ppl evn know tht no actor is bigger thn channel ? A PH and channel can easily sue actors if they dont act.. CVs and PH are using BD either coz of cost cutting or CVs themselves are not bother.. Actors can only be blamed for acting but not for BDs

PS- Shonnu, mahi, natz I mean seriously?I know little bit how channel works thts why I m saying use of BDs is not mistake of actors nor its in their hand . In some cases PH might excuse them but not all the time. VD ki party ? This is the lamest way of u telling tht Vivian k liye party is more important thn show whn evn on his b'day he did shooting
DD ka other projects ? Kaun se project ? She has already been kicked out from JDJ ? So uski kaun si wajah to use JDJ n uske pass koi other project nhi hai (Now dont call endorsement and brand ambassador other projects coz every actor manage this and it is not other project but another way of earning)

So BDs mai actors ko u cant blame coz DVD nai colors khareed k nhi rakha hai.Agar dono tantrums dikhate toh abhi tak sue kar diya hota... So baar baar showing DVD in bad light and calling thm greedy and unprofessiona is actually stupid.. They dont have anything in their hands.. Acting definitely unke hand mai hai so VD ki acting achi hai though character sucks ig time and DD ki acting JM dono sucks.



Yes darling I seriously don't know how a channel works, neither do I want to know.. the little knowledge I have about this BD Issue, is.. that such things happen only when.. there is a scheduling errors by the production people, or when the team is working in two or three units on different locations or when the actors are on leave or they are not available .. now I don't know which option is right for team MB.. about DVD's acting .. you entitle to your opinion.. and I respect that.. about my excuse being lame.. then I was just helping chakku find a reason as to why VD is not giving enough time?as she explained DD's reason very well.. I was just guessing.. and its not that I filed a complaint against him on this issue..I adore VD as an actor.. and I believe he is the best actor on TV today, and he is free to do whatever he pleases in his life.. but if I see my star more in parties than that of the show,, then I as a viewer and fan, can comment on that, can't I? I dread someday I'll login to IF and see his pics in somebody's baby shower or mundan too...😆

PS: I have had enough of fan wars in past.. and my experience says you can't argue with a diehard fan and win 😆..DD fan ho ya VD fan no one can listen a word agaisnt their favourite 😆...

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Posted: 11 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: Heartless_Freak

sweta. 😛😆

haila aisa kya dark past hai uska.? she is bery happy being Vampbala devkinanadan..apne maa-baap ke naam tak me she has no interest.!😆

n don't call her poor girl..she is very very ishtrong.! ambuja cement sharma jaye usse dekh kr.!😆 since last 2 months she is giving that one single disgusting expression with popping out eyes and she has gotten on my last nerves now..nvr hated a character this much.!🥱


oops! Shahi too has some heart type Id.. anyways I was just being easy on her .. I mean she is wronged na? she has been raped and that's where I cant say her hatred is wrong but she is stubborn and irritating and there is no doubt about it 😆.. and Rape is her dark past 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and in two years on this forum I got to learn that the one who has dark past can go on and destroy the world. and nobody minds it 🤣🤣 so I want JM to go and destroy the world..an kill herself in the process ... naa koi usko ko roke.. na kisi ne roka 🤣 and the part in bold is very funny 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#85

In my opinion, a baby that is a product of rape should not be killed. It is not the fault of the baby that it has been brought into the world. Why should the life of the baby be sacrificed because of the indignity suffered against the woman? Yes, I know rape is horrible, and that it is wrong. I know the woman has the right of self-protection and emotional security. But I also know that love is greater than all these things, and few things on earth have greater love than a mother for her child.

In spite of the great indignity against the woman and in spite of the emotional and financial hardships she would bear in the future, must the child be required to pay for the sin of the rapist? Is it right to kill the child who is not at fault? Is it right to take the life of someone who has done nothing wrong? In civilized nations, protection of the innocent is a primary concern. In the hearts of mothers, love should win out. Love that sacrifices and gives life, instead of taking it, should be the goal. But somehow someone will always put a self respect before anything else.So I do hate violence against children, born or unborn

Therefore, I would keep any child given to me In any way , under any circumstances and raise him or her as my own and with all my love and dedication.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: moniluvskinshuk


See I am not justifying R**E . I know very well how Shameful Act it is !! . But I am saying that Raja never crossed his limit and ra**d her when he had full chance in his Village . But He always beared JM's insults , her disgusting expressions 2wds him , her Anger , Her Hatred everything eventhough he always supported her U can't deny this fact .But She never ever acknowledged that Goodness of Raja . Even when Raja said this much also that he is ready to change , She still abused him like anything . Still He tolerated everything coz He loved her . I agree JM's anger was right but Atleast When someone does good for us then we atleast appreciate that . but She never did that .

Yes She have right to decide wheather she want the child or not . But Raja is her husband , They are LEGAL MARRIED COUPLE , wheather she accepts it or not But legally He is her Husband !! And Legally Raja have full right to decide too as a Father that He wants the child or not . If tomm Raja goes to court asking for the child , She can't refuse it . Court WILL tell her to give birth to the child and give it to Raja if she doesn't want the child . So What is the need to abort the child ? According to me Abortion should be the Last Option for a Pregnant Lady . I can understand if it is mutual decision of a married couple coz of some reason , or Mother's life is at risk . But Here JM took her decision without even letting Raja know about the child . Don't u think this is Unfair and Wrong ? If at all she doesn't want the child , Atleast She should let Raja know . If then Raja coz of guilt or coz of Madhu's anger agrees for it then she can go ahead .Even then the step will be wrong and Both Raja-Madhu would be wrong for me . But Since Right now only Madhu knows about the pregnancy and thinking to abort the child So For me she is wrong .

This is completely my POV . Our POV's might differ .So I m not sure wheather U will be able to understand what I want to say .I ususually is very weak in explaining my Pov's 😆



I understand your point of view and I really appreciate that you took the time to comment back and remained calm. Usually, when you disagree with someone's post they get very defensive so I really appreciate you for that!

With that said, I know Madhu never really treated Raja nicely and I kind of hoped that they would see eye-to-eye sooner than later, but that never happened. Raja always told her he loved and wanted to be with her but he forced her into the relationship. She never really wanted to be with him when she found who he really was. He took her to his family at gun point and she was helpless. She was married to him, but for me that still doesn't mean that she doesn't have a choice to decide what she wants to do with her life. I am not sure I would be comfortable marrying and living with a gangster who murdered someone so I totally understand why Madhu was rude to him. She never really saw the "good" in him, but to be honest anyone in her position wouldn't want to see the "good" in the man that has them under "house arrest".

I know that abortion is a very sensitive topic. People are either pro-choice or pro-life. Now I don't think you should abort your child for no reason at all, but I feel that Madhu does have the right to decide whether or not that she wants to abort this child or keep it. I agree that Raja is Madhu's husband- but this child is not a by product of consensual sex! Madhu was raped by her husband and this child is a by product of rape. I completely understand why she doesn't want to keep this child. Even though Raja is her husband, she did have to go through the trauma of getting raped and this child will always be a reminder of that incident. Furthermore, Madhu and Raja cannot see eye to eye. it is one thing to give life to a child and another thing to raise a child. It is better to abort the child than it is to keep the child and bring it in to a hostile environment.

Honestly, the CV's messed up! They shouldn't have brought in this whole "rape" track! It was so uncalled for. I think it is repulsive to show a woman eventually falling in love with her rapist. This is not the type of message we need to send to men.

Lastly, I know we both have our opinions, which probably won't change because this has a lot to do with social issues that most people feel very strongly about. But thanks for replying back and justifying your stance.

Riya

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Posted: 11 years ago
#87
bhai kuch bhi karo bas yeh bakwas bandh karao 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I also like selfish female leads. But their selfishness should look real and not LOATHSOME 🤢🤢🤢 I like Kashaf of Zindagi Gulzaar hai. She isn't mahaan. She is selfish at time. She has seen bitter reality of life like JM but she just doesn't roam around with that disgusting expression pasted on her face always🤢🤢🤢
And JM wants abortion, fine. But before abortion all she thought about was HERSELF and not even the kid for once🤢🤢
Haye Chakku ye gazab tu na kero comparing Kashaf to Ishtrong Bala 😆
Kashaf is one of my favorite character 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#89

Originally posted by: SheDevil

one question is bugging me

Yahan pai seriously kisi ko pta hai how channel works ?

PPl blaming actors for BD.. I mean seriously ? Do u ppl evn know tht no actor is bigger thn channel ? A PH and channel can easily sue actors if they dont act.. CVs and PH are using BD either coz of cost cutting or CVs themselves are not bother.. Actors can only be blamed for acting but not for BDs

PS- Shonnu, mahi, natz I mean seriously?I know little bit how channel works thts why I m saying use of BDs is not mistake of actors nor its in their hand . In some cases PH might excuse them but not all the time. VD ki party ? This is the lamest way of u telling tht Vivian k liye party is more important thn show whn evn on his b'day he did shooting
DD ka other projects ? Kaun se project ? She has already been kicked out from JDJ ? So uski kaun si wajah to use JDJ n uske pass koi other project nhi hai (Now dont call endorsement and brand ambassador other projects coz every actor manage this and it is not other project but another way of earning)

So BDs mai actors ko u cant blame coz DVD nai colors khareed k nhi rakha hai.Agar dono tantrums dikhate toh abhi tak sue kar diya hota... So baar baar showing DVD in bad light and calling thm greedy and unprofessiona is actually stupid.. They dont have anything in their hands.. Acting definitely unke hand mai hai so VD ki acting achi hai though character sucks ig time and DD ki acting JM dono sucks.

thank you for making this comment I hope from now onwards people will stop blaming DVD for BD.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#90
who the hell wants to save it now??
plzz colors stop this nonsense..I will pray for Sastri Sisters to beat DABH in TRP race

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