Originally posted by: kondhili
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Sorry shweta i am undergoing a whole gamut of emotion...with my feelings all over the place.🤔
I might be in a small minority here but i don't feel sorry for Lexie...i feel sorry for a beautiful life that got wasted but the fact of the matter is that she alone is responsible for her sad miserable state right now.
Every body has problems in their life and the most easiest thing would be too loose one self in a make believe world where finding momentary happiness is very easy.
Every body has a choice to decide which direction to go...lexie was incredibly lucky that she had a 'boyfriend' who loved her so much so that he tolerated all her nonsensical ideology. Every step of the way he supported her and was there for her coaxing her to step back into the real world.
Frankly i can't understand why arnav is feeling so guilty right till the end he stood by her infact he gave her a choice to come back with him to India also. It was lexie's and only lexie's decision to stay back and rot in the 'free loving world' that she was in.
Like i wrote for the last chapter, the saddest part for me again was that, that this Arnav thought of khushi only when lexie mentioned her. It just made me extremely sad, upset and heartbroken.
How can khushi accept and be happy being called Arnav's responsibility??🤔
I don't know how many of us would be happy being called anything but our husband's love.
It would make me proud that my husband is a responsible man but i would derive no comfort in being called his 'responsibility'
May be i am being too harsh on all the characters i still want to go and on but i think i shall give time for myself to cool down a bit.
lovely comment there kondhili... also some other comments were very nice 👏
i must accept that i didnt think so deeply bt it while reading 😕 maybe cause something clicked in my mind thinking that Arnav was just trying hard to not rock the boat with lexie in the past... the thought that lexie's behaviour was selfish, didnt even occur to me...but now when i look at it, it does make sense... though lexie's view bt love n the physical aspect was very diff from normal (read screwed up :P) i now doubt if she even loved arnav...
and what bt arnav, how cud he easily accept her being physically active with other guys, wasnt he even a tad bit jealous... i agree with aman here...its against the normal behaviour...given the fact that he was so jealous bt a normal pool learning session between nk n khushi... thats why i think, that he was never in love with lexie...but with khushi he is, deeply, but he hasnt realized it yet, since khushi is always around...that sanse ruk jayegi moment hasnt come yet...
I agree with most people bt khushi falling more in love with arnav... it doesnt make sense to be a doormat to arnav...i can understand her empathy with arnav...in a way, she n arnav at standing at the same position in life...as per khushi both have lost their love n are dealing with a heartbreak...arnav wanted lexie with him, which didnt happen, n khushi wanted arnav's love which she now realizes that can never be hers...so that way i can understand her empathy... but waiting at the door with open arms, for arnav to rub his dirty feet on her...so not done...
shweta, i dont know how u will make arnav realize the gravity of him mistake...or what khushi is gonna do when he comes back... but please dont make her a typical soap heroine, who hides her tears n accept everything that her husband n mother in law dishes out for her...that is so not mahaan...that is being spineless...n m sure ur khushi is anything but spineless...
i also agree with a comment here that lexie is not selfless...selfless was khushi's father...who tried hard to support the tribals despite serious threats to his life... lexie did give away her expensive possessions, also her time and hardwork for others...but were they really the needy people, no...they were just students who wanted some materialistic things or students who are not equiped enuf to finish their assignments on time...so helping them is a good deed, but not as great as helping the tribals to feed themselves n their families or helping helpless women lead a decent life.. so arnav thinking of her as angel, just cause of that, is a little too much, though i also remember that it was in the past, and though he never dis-respected khushi n her father but he has also never acknowledged or even thought bt these deeds of khushi n her parents... though i m still eager to see him doing that...
also can khushi please do something for the tribals...i want her to carry her dad's legacy forward...will it happen... ??
also i so wished that lexie was alive n arnav wudve chosen khushi over lexie...but no...thank god, she is set free now...cause who knows arnav wudve got her back to india, that wud be a double heart break for khushi...so i guess m glad that that chapter is over...but now arnav will be with khushi cause she is his responsibility n cause lexie is no more...😭
Anyways, no matter , where u take this story, i will be here to read it... but please atleast khushi shud give him some silent treatment...u know some realization that he has lost a part of her, due to his rude behaviour...
Edited by anjs - 11 years ago
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