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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ Kools 👍🏼 To all your posts. Bang on.
I could only roll my eyes at vandu and bala today. Raman should have sided by ishu because she has done so much for his child 😕 ... So that means a mother is automatically a good woman, wife, bahu, sister, etc...wow that's really simplifying human nature and its complexities. Lawyers would surely be happy, this woman is a mother she can't be guilty case won 🤣

Everywhere in the forum it is said that bhallas are stupid but even they recognize that Raman was being neutral and listening to BOTH sides. Can't we give him the right of being shell shocked? It was a lot to digest, give the guy a break... IMO Raman has come a long way. He didn't fire Ishita on the spot but listened to all that was said and actually is the ONLY ONE to do something substantial to prove Ishita innocent!!! Where are the rocking and amazing duo mihika and bala now? Busy on their Raman is besharam mantra 🤪

Seeing some posts, this is something I want to say:
Please can we stop with the "it's women like you who permit men to misbehave" that's such a grave accusation! We see raman's pov and we are deemed as being a woman worst enemy 😲. Why? Because we refuse to think that a woman should be believed no matter what on the only basis that she is a woman?
Can't a woman be deceptive, manipulative, immoral? Are those vices the attributes of men alone? Isn't that sexist?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Where are the rocking and amazing duo mihika and bala now? Busy on their Raman is besharam mantra


They r doing nothing . I mean , for all their awesome big talks , what will they do ? Go to police . A fat lot that would do , the police put Ishita in jail not Parmeet . Sarika testified AGAINST her . If Mihika calls her besharam is she gonna retract her statement ...or if Bala threatens her , is she gonna do his bidding . Has anybody seen Parmeet attempting rape on Ishita . R there marks on her body if police examine . Will any maika member come forward to testify that she had told them her experiences and concerns . No , nothing . She did not tell anyone even from maika .

so what r they gonna do ...pick fights and be rude and then what .

Bala could not get her out of jail Raman did ...he had come straight from Dehi , this lady refused to tell him anything ...what a joke that is , being in jail and refusing to tell why ur in jail AND expecting virtuously for husband to have implicit faith ...see Bala's lecture

Ishita is ur wife [ Shagun too was wife but she two timed]

Ishita is mother of ur kid [ Shagun is mother of his kids and Raman has seen her impeccable character]

how could u let ur mom insult her [ his own mom is horror story and insults Iyers day in and day out]

Bala did not ask Ishita how could u not tell the man who freed u why u were there in first place , don't u owe him that much at least

Mihika did not fire her for not telling jeeju , she was busy searching for smart nasty adjectives

only decent reasonable man is Mr Iyer . Others r gasbags .




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Posted: 11 years ago
#93
So true Kools police would give a damn to their vociferation.

Mr Iyers is the only reasonable one of the lot but unfortunately he is often silenced by his loud family

Gotta go now, goodnight/day 😊
Edited by Aeryn - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@koolsadhu...in such circumstances people even break their silence after years of being molested! We know Raman's real intention but the Iyer's don't. Obviously when all this was happening one does not expect them to understand Raman's silence... I mean they couldn't be like "Ok Raman keep silent we understand, take 2 - 3 days to come to a conclusion"
Silence can be understood differently by different people... Raman's family felt he kept silent because he supported them and Ishita's family felt he kept silent because he did not support Ishita...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Kool and other members.

Chill gals , their is no need to defend them as if your personal happiness depends on it. Waste of time!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is for Shona1993 👏
Well said 👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
#97

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

To be honest, he didn't need to do much in that situation. The only thing he should have done (In my opinion) was to take Ishita in to her room, or just talk to her later. Just tell her that he is there and will find out the truth.

Even if he didn't see anything, he should recall past events and know that Ishita never lies! And why would Ishita even lie about being molested? That does not even make sense.



m<font color="#0000ff">y dear , Ishita too did not have to do much , she had AMPLE time to tell him before they reached the house did she ? No</font>

<font color="#0000ff">coz it was HER brainwave to tell in front of ALL</font>

<font color="#0000ff">and once the bomb was thrown where was the time to take her in the bedroom and talk etc?</font>

<font color="#0000ff">just imagine ...u go out of Dehi , come back , ur wife is in jail and in front of all she accuses nanand's husband of molestation ...someone she was very nice to</font>

<font color="#0000ff">does any man deserve this shock ? And he requires time to digest this shock or no ?</font>

<font color="#0000ff">And why the hell must any woman's accusatiuon be accepted as gospel truth ? Shagun is capable of cooked up stories is not she ? She is a woman AND a mother</font>

<font color="#0000ff">but</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Ishita is a nice girl and he has observed it and hence he did not blast but neither did he take Parmeet's side , he simply thought about it is it wrong ?</font>



Okay, so he didn't have time there to take her into the room but he could have talked to her the next day? And why does she need to tell him before? I don't get that part. She was molested, she should tell everyone! Why does she have to repeat what she is saying? It is not so easy to be in ones senses when you are molested. And the worst part is that she considered the family as her own and that is why she told infront on everyone. But alas, this shows how a girl should never trust her In-laws. And why would Raman believe her before? And as pervert was thinking the family would also think that Ishita had the time to brainwash Raman. I am glad she told infront of everyone. If I go to my parents, they would believe me, so why can't my In-laws believe me? When the pervert have already been fired from his job for such reasons?

My point is still not that! Had it been Shagun I would not like them to believe it easily because she has a cheap past, but Ishita hasn't one. And Pervert also have a history, he was fired from his job due to the fact he molested a woman. When in the past has Ishita molested a man and lied?

You should be knowing a person you are living with for months and she have never stod up for something which is wrong. And all mothers aren't good mothers. I never said that just because she is a mother she deserves to be free from accusations. It is from a persons character you should be thinking what right is and what wrong is. And pervert have a history of being a pervert. Ishita doesn't.
Edited by shona1993 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: --Udhay--

This is for Shona1993 👏
Well said 👍🏼



Thank you so much! Feel humbled 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#99

Originally posted by: Savz_Startling



@shona : it's just a show,don't worry . I am with u on this type of heinous crimes against women faces 👍🏼



I know it is just a show, but the issue is big. In society it is true that girls/woman don't dear to speak up after being molested because they feel ashamed. Now when Ishu did it infront of her family, why should she be considered wrong? Why should Mihika be considered wrong standing up for her? It would be more weird if Mihika would say, Raman is a good man, he should have thrown you out much before, you are at fault, you are a woman na, you should never have told anyone about it, you should first have told us.. Bla bla..

Thank you so much for supporting, feels good to know ! 😊
Edited by shona1993 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Aeryn

@ Kools👍🏼To all your posts. Bang on.
I could only roll my eyes at vandu and bala today. Raman should have sided by ishu because she has done so much for his child😕... So that means a mother is automatically a good woman, wife, bahu, sister, etc...wow that's really simplifying human nature and its complexities. Lawyers would surely be happy, this woman is a mother she can't be guilty case won🤣

Everywhere in the forum it is said that bhallas are stupid but even they recognize that Raman was being neutral and listening to BOTH sides. Can't we give him the right of being shell shocked? It was a lot to digest, give the guy a break... IMO Raman has come a long way. He didn't fire Ishita on the spot but listened to all that was said and actually is the ONLY ONE to do something substantial to prove Ishita innocent!!! Where are the rocking and amazing duo mihika and bala now? Busy on their Raman is besharam mantra🤪

Seeing some posts, this is something I want to say:
Please can we stop with the "it's women like you who permit men to misbehave" that's such a grave accusation! We see raman's pov and we are deemed as being a woman worst enemy 😲. Why? Because we refuse to think that a woman should be believed no matter what on the only basis that she is a woman?
Can't a woman be deceptive, manipulative, immoral? Are those vices the attributes of men alone? Isn't that sexist?



My point is still not that! Had it been Shagun I would not like them to believe it easily because she has a cheap past, but Ishita hasn't one. And Pervert also have a history, he was fired from his job due to the fact he molested a woman. When in the past has Ishita molested a man and lied?

You should be knowing a person you are living with for months and she have never stod up for something which is wrong. And all mothers aren't good mothers. I never said that just because she is a mother she deserves to be free from accusations. It is from a persons character you should be thinking what right is and what wrong is. And pervert have a history of being a pervert. Ishita doesn't.

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