Sometimes love is not enough...Ashlok.

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dsr11

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

beautiful post vani. agree with everything you said.

but involvement of aditi in this issue, is what irritates me. if shlok trusted his father over aastha without aditi i would have understood. now it looks like he trusts aditi more. they should have brought up the trust issue with just family members without involving outsiders like aditi.

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jia.astk

@jia.astk

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Vinni..agree with most of the points mentioned here. Well written.👏

Shlok has broken Astha's trust many a times but still she believes him when there are tough times and her life in danger. Her pleas go unheard in the time of need even though he might help her secretly. In a hubby-wife relationship communication is the most important aspect too and that is missing here; he has to at least give her some hints that he trusts her iff that is the case. Shlok is an introvert, Astha is extrovert.. let's see how this story unfolds.Her dealing with situations is completely different too. Throwing on audience this whole Aditi Saga is unnecessary except to show the differences of Astha-Shlok out in open for outsiders too!! 😕

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Samia

@Sam_15

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Nice post akashavani!! Very positive...you have analysed Ashlok's relationship very well 👍🏼

Ashlok's relationship indeed lack the element of trust and understanding. They misunderstand each other time and again because even after knowing each other for so long and developing the emotional attachment, they fail to understand each other, and this is mainly because of Shlok. The potential to develop understanding and trust in their relationship was damaged by his betrayal and pretend love.

Yesterday I was really disappointed by Shlok esp. regarding the precap when he called Astha parayi but now I get your point of view. You might be right. We are very well aware of Shlok's tendency of conveying his message in a roundabout way. So perhaps he was saying all this to Astha according to NA's point of view...that he wouldn't even spare himself (his son) then how he can spare Astha when she is parayi (to NA)? 😕

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akashavani

@akashavani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: mayabharathi
very nice post I too don't want separation . It will be interesting to see how ashlok deal with their love-hate relationship together come to term with them nicely.

Thank you maya.so much.same thoughts😛

Yeah it will be interesting to see ashlok dealing with their relationship and coming closer.😉

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akashavani

@akashavani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: nim_var
Sometimes we are faced with such kind of situations where we have to select between our spouse and parents and it's better to deal with the issue delicately as we love both of them very much.It depends on the situation itself about how to deal with it. Sometimes we may take sides but that doesn't mean we don't love the others even if we trust them or not but they get hurt as they think we don't love them because we didn't side them.and many a times we do hurt our loved ones more even if we don't want to and thats why a lot of understanding is needed along with love and trust to deal with the situation properly.

Lovely post, Vani. More than love it is all about Trust and Understanding each other completely. Ashlok are there but not fully.

I think the precap means a warning to Aastha. Shlok is saying that NA does not forgive or forget any slight to him or his image, be it an outsider or family. I think that is what he meant by calling Aastha parayi, not that she is an outsider to him. She has MU him again n hence the hurt feelings.Thought Aastha understood his roundabout way of speaking ( during the goa trip), then why is she not able to get this? Unless her brains hv gone on a vacation. Looks like both are emotionally disturbed by their impending divorce.

Maybe the divorce hearing is addling both their brains and unless it is over they won't become stable in their relationship. Iam waiting for that to be over more than aditi, because after they can fight or love to their hearts content.

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akashavani

@akashavani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Edna4Philip
Nice post

Thank you Edna very much.😃

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akashavani

@akashavani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: nandu96
lovely post .even i dont want a divorce between ashlok...i want asholk to sort the MU bet thm by being together ....I AM AGAINST FOR A DIVORCE TRACK...ter would be a lot of problem bet hus and wife but divorce is not the only solution ...

Thank you nandu. Same thoughts here too😃

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akashavani

@akashavani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: rbb1
Nice post it's true love is not enough you need trust, respect and understanding

Thank you rbb.

Yes as you said respect will follow with understanding, trust and love.😛

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akashavani

@akashavani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Efinah36
Nice post. Totally agreed. We always trust our parents i love that part, i want a little separation, too.
They need time to understand each other
Aastha act so blindly!!!
Shlok must start trust Aastha!!!!

Thank you Effinah.😛

Yeah somtimes absence makes the heart fonder but with ashlok it's just stick together. 😉

But after seeing today's epi , I feel they are going to be fine.😃