Are Men Secure ?? - Page 10

Originally posted by: lighthouse

If a flirtatious married guy says to a female friend of wife that you are looking sexy and hot , does that make him creepy? I don't think so.. That is how this person talks and is with everyone.. On the other hand this quiet husband who never flirts with anyone is giving typical corner of the eye stare at some woman would certainly make him look creepy...We all have our judgement meters and are able to judge who is acting out of the character and when...

sorry, lighthouseji, but I think thats creepy... very creepy indeed... (the bold part)

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Originally posted by: sweta01

sorry, lighthouseji, but I think thats creepy... very creepy indeed... (the bold part)

Come on thats not creepy.. either we are taking things too seriously or there is something wrong....Words may lead to action but dont always lead to them... so its just way of light conversation...😊

maybe we are dealing with different levels of conservatism....😊

Originally posted by: sweta01

sorry, lighthouseji, but I think thats creepy... very creepy indeed... (the bold part)

Ok Sweta .. So this person(guy) is definitely insecure because you have (mis) judged him...!!!!!!

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Come on thats not creepy.. either we are taking things too seriously or there is something wrong....Words may lead to action but dont always lead to them... so its just way of light conversation...😊

maybe we are dealing with different levels of conservatism....😊

And Lighten up..!!!! ..Like I said harmless flirting to one is indecent creepy behaviour for other... Hence the same man may be viewed differently by 2 people just by what he says even when he did not do anything to act out. Men are insecure indeed in this respect.

Originally posted by: lighthouse

And Lighten up..!!!! ..Like I said harmless flirting to one is indecent creepy behaviour for other... Hence the same man may be viewed differently by 2 people just by what he says even when he did not do anything to act out. Men are insecure indeed in this respect.

I think everybody who doesnt like such things should have a siggy indicating their conservatism.. something like " I dont like sexist flirting. Stay away...."😆😆.. just so that this conservatism doesnt become the chat graveyard for some.

Yes but if some one is crass, abusive and uses foul language... one warning followed by ejection is not wrong...

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

More or less since we assume some education in these interactions.. Guy who is whistling and whiling away his time under lamp posts is not going to login to the forum and receive a judgement...😊

regarding profiling individuals its not too difficult - just let them keep on posting on random things and eventually you can see a pattern in their thinking.. based on which fairly good judgement can be derived...😊

Oh is it??? 😕 ...Then you have pretty much profiled everybody on this DM I guess, right? 😆

Sorry for the detour once again...

Actually I have nothing to contribute to this thread, as I am not too sure about what you guys are all trying to debate here... 😕

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

regarding profiling individuals its not too difficult - just let them keep on posting on random things and eventually you can see a pattern in their thinking.. based on which fairly good judgement can be derived...😊

You are absolutely right and based on that I have made some fair judgements about everyone on the forum and I am glad that I am right to this date.

Originally posted by: raksha.l

Actually I have nothing to contribute to this thread, as I am not too sure about what you guys are all trying to debate here... 😕

I don't either. Now I don't know if this is about internet flirting or man's insecurity or women gaining power through wrong charges on men. 😕 So me off too.

I hope the hidden agenda of some posts remain futile. Better judgment is already made. As usual there will be some disagreements.

Originally posted by: Maya_M

You are absolutely right and based on that I have made some fair judgements about everyone on the forum and I am glad that I am right to this date.

Wooow, that's cool Maya..Because sometimes I did get disappointed with some people, so stopped profiling people based on what they post here..