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Nida

@Gurmeet4Drashti

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

To be honest ... I thought Raman would have that much dignity to stand up for his wife as he did earlier ...
But he totally disappointed me ...

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eternalasha

@eternalasha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: aimf
Amazing and very observant post. You have the knack of looking at all the details that might be easily missed on the surface. 👏
Thanks for pointing out the gems in today's episode. Keep posting!

Thanks aimf. Always value your feedback.

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eternalasha

@eternalasha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Gurmeet4Drashti
To be honest ... I thought Raman would have that much dignity to stand up for his wife as he did earlier ...
But he totally disappointed me ...

Yes very sad and disappointing. In this situation he didn't give himself the dignity of standing up for himself, let alone Ishita.

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sayandeep kar

@meghumonu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

watching raman's peculiar obsession over his son adi is making me very angry and hate him too much to bash him left and right😡 what the hell u r running behind a kid to hear the word dad from his mouth who dsnt give a two hoot abt u and there is ur cute daughter in your home abt whom u jst dnt give a damn is this kind of a behaviour we expect frm a grown up and mature man like raman(nw i think he is thoroughly immature) seeing this kind of behaviour i am being really forced to think that still to this day boys has the affection and love of their father and his family and and in many times of their mother and girls are still ignored!! raman's hullabo over adi is jst bcoz he is his son who is un replacable rather than ruhi who is jst a girl!! what the hell is wrong with u raman bhallla!! this is 21st century grow up dnt act like a jerk and run behind illusion stay happy with the diamond u have in your home that is ruhi!!

Edited by meghan432 - 12 years ago

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Juggaadd

@Juggaadd

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

There's another thing. Ishita does things and says "Ruhi ke liye" Normally, it would have irritated me because she is so nice and patient and tolerant. No one is like that in reality. By making her cry and her confession to Bala is what brings out the fact that Ishita too is a human. Else we should be counting her among the angels. I just don't understand how Raman is blind to all of this because I am sure Shagun never behaved like Ishita for him to ignore all this as normal. What's more, someone else is thanking him for bringing a smile on to his daughter's face?

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sayandeep kar

@meghumonu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

he really doesn't give a two hoot about his daughter he is just fullfiling the space ad i left by showing his love for ruhi which is meant for his creep son adi!! anyway itz normal in india boys favoured way over girls!! to think a man like raman kumar bhalla also fall in this category!! well whatever!!

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aadk

@aadk

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

A nice post eternalasha :) But personally I wanted Ishita to just walk away from the scene at the restaurant without any clarification or apology.She is being made just like loads of other ladies on the television who are the epitomes of sacrifice and selflessnes.My respect for her would have multiplied had she refused to ask for the apology.Its not that the family would never be going together to the restaurant or somewhere else again to worry about Ruhi' happiness..Whatever Ishita did was for Ruhi' sake,but I dint want her to lose her individuality in the whole process.

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13MEGHA05

@13MEGHA05

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Amazing post...👏

Even i thought the same things yesterday...

No comments about raman as god knows what toshiji tells him and he changes..

We cannot say anything about raman he is very strange human being...

And yes this was not ekta's mahan heroine wala apology.. I liked it the most...😊

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eternalasha

@eternalasha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: meghumonu
watching raman's peculiar obsession over his son adi is making me very angry and hate him too much to bash him left and right😡 what the hell u r running behind a kid to hear the word dad from his mouth who dsnt give a two hoot abt u and there is ur cute daughter in your home abt whom u jst dnt give a damn is this kind of a behaviour we expect frm a grown up and mature man like raman(nw i think he is thoroughly immature) seeing this kind of behaviour i am being really forced to think that still to this day boys has the affection and love of their father and his family and and in many times of their mother and girls are still ignored!! raman's hullabo over adi is jst bcoz he is his son who is un replacable rather than ruhi who is jst a girl!! what the hell is wrong with u raman bhallla!! this is 21st century grow up dnt act like a jerk and run behind illusion stay happy with the diamond u have in your home that is ruhi!!

Thank You meghumonu.

It does make one wonder if subconciously Raman values his son more than his daughter. I don't get that impression from anything I have seen in the show. CORRECTION - FROM TODAYS EPISODE HE DID ADMIT HE WAS PARTIAL TO ADI BECAUSE HE WAS HIS FIRST BORN. He does tend to take what he already has for granted. If in fact he does treat his son and daughter that way, subconsciously in this day and age then it is a little hard to take.

But certainly it still happens in society to this day. Sad.

Edited by eternalasha - 12 years ago

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eternalasha

@eternalasha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: 13MEGHA05
Amazing post...👏
Even i thought the same things yesterday...
No comments about raman as god knows what toshiji tells him and he changes..
We cannot say anything about raman he is very strange human being...
And yes this was not ekta's mahan heroine wala apology.. I liked it the most...😊

Thank You 13MEGHA05.

I do look forward his conversation with Toshiji to see what kind of internal shift he has made and to what extent