Durga’s Journey to the Dark Side - Page 13

Originally posted by: majumdar

Meena,

Btw had Krishna-I not miscarried and Kiran tapes never surfaced, it would have been JW who would have ended up getting separated from his child for ever for no fault of his. Or if Karuna had not been in Dubai, JW would have been forced into exile away from his wife and kid.

Plainly speaking a father would have been wronged. But I doubt JW would have ever punished Bani for it, he would have accepted it as his fate.

Rgds,

Pri

Pri,

With K-I, she did not give birth that time, so we don't know if she would have decided to separate the child even after birth…I mean it makes a difference right. Bani might have felt that she can support the child independently but when the child is actually born and she might realise that father of the child is equally important…But yes, Bani was wrong and if Jai wanted to punish her, I would have supported him but alas he did not fight for his right.

In Dubai situation, Bani was still in WM and it was not Bani that threw JW out of the house and if the child was born, Bani would have still been in WM and it was Massi who did not let Jai in…Besides, that time Jai himself and everyone thought he was wrong…The drug thing did not come out.

Just because Jai does not want to fight for his right and resort everything to fate, I don't think Bani also needs to do that. I think resorting to fate is one of cowardice acts…How can you lose a battle even before fighting it…Even if he had to fight with Bani, his love, he should have fought not give in… Jai could leave Bani to cool down a bit and then if he explains to Bani how important a father is to a child, I don't think as a mother who is seeing her child everyday, Bani would have refused it. She was mother when she made the decision also but then the decision was on impulse and she was seeing from her POV but when she gets to see in reality how her child misses her dad, her decision would differ.

I really don't get the argument on Bani did it, so Jai also did it, so what's wrong? Hey Bani was wrong and why should Jai repeat the same mistakes? Then if Bani was bashed for her mistakes, then so should Jai.😆

My 2 cents…😃

Cheers,
Meena

Originally posted by: majumdar

Bavie,

(This is not a happy scenario here --noone wins..its filled with
heartbreak, self hatred, guilt and shame....the only glimmer of hope are
the JB kids. )

I am glad that u recognise this. And incidentally in my first post post-leap
I had prayed that KTH not be repeated here. But it is disheartening that
quite a few people are still clamouring for revenge/punishment against
JW.
Rgds,
Pri

Originally posted by: majumdar

Bavie,

(This is not a happy scenario here --noone wins..its filled with heartbreak, self hatred, guilt and shame....the only glimmer of hope are the JB kids. )

I am glad that u recognise this. And incidentally in my first post post-leap I had prayed that KTH not be repeated here. But it is disheartening that quite a few people are still clamouring for revenge/punishment against JW.

Rgds,

Pri

Pri, I am all for revenge but it should be mainly against Pia and co because simply crossed they line…This is not the first time that Pia is hurting JB, she has done that number of things and that needs to be stopped…That's why I am saying revenge is needed…

But with JW, I am pretty sure, Bani would cool down before she can start hurting him…I am not saying that she should punish him for sure but if she decides to punish him, it would be justified.

But we all realise, that it is not a glamorous situation, it is going to hurt everyone and most of all Bani herself but if this revenge is most needed to put people off her track and her marriage life, then it is needed…If revenge is needed to teach people a lesson not to mess with other people's life, then revenge is needed.😃

Pri dear,

(That was certainly her intention.) (He has never resorted to fate when it comes to outsiders. But do you expect him to fight against people he claims to love, Bani or Maasi. )

Yes Pri, that was her intention but it could change after birth na... For that matter, she herself needs Jai because she loves him. During that time, she was with him, near him but if she had gone far away from him, how long could she actually take that separation – a month, a year – after that what, she will feel lonely. She will realise her stupidity and make a decision considering the future and not the past…Yes, it was her intention at that time but it could definitely change overtime. Yes Pri, fighting against your own people is also important. Fight in the sense not physical or anything but must not give up. What is he doing by giving up, giving them happiness? but it is temporary one. In the long run, it is ridiculous…For now, Bani thinks that she does not need Jai but in the long run, she needs him. And Jai realises that but even after realising that what is the point of giving up and giving her temporary happiness? For me, if you need to fight with your own loved ones for their own good and life long happiness (for temporary one), you should fight with them as well.😃

(Of course he should. Incidnetally, JW gets banished and pilloried even when he does not make any mistakes, so why spare him when he does make mistakes.)

I don't know about others, but I have bashed him only when Bani was brought in the matter. Only if Bani was mentioned, I bash him that to for defending Bani. 😊

Cheers,
Meena

Originally posted by: majumdar

Meena,

(You are right this is not the first time Pia is hurting JB. But on previous occassions she was hurting only JW- for instance when she drugged and raped JW, so no revenge was required. But now that she has hurt Bani's own precious skin, revenge is now justified. )

Pri, do you really think Bani was not hurt during ONS?...Fine Pri, if thats what you think, then i have nothing to say...If she really was not hurt, i don't see a reason why she did not make up with Pia later. And bringing Pia back into WM was a different issue...Bani clearly mentioned that she will punish her after she regains her memory. Well, of course, whenever Jai was hurt Bani was never hurt, she is a infact enjoying torturing JW, such a heartless girl who can only think of her dixit clan and her ghost St.Kiran mother na...I get it...😊

(if she decides to punish him, it would be justified.)

But if JW agrees with your prognosis and decides to let bani take her revenge, I hope you will support him. 😉

Sorry, Nooooo...JW should fight back...From my POV, she is justified but from JW's view revenge is not going to bring Bani any happiness, so he should fight back and both of them together must destroy Pia...I am repeating myself too many times...😉😃

Rgds,

Pri