Will U Die for ur love & i mean literaly - Page 2

Originally posted by: himali_kokate

mermaid

thanks for sharing your views

what i meant to ask by that question is whether love for that one special person can overpower love for yourself and your own life???

jumping in trouble to save your loved one would still allow you some chances of staying alive. here Ian knew that he would die saving samantha...there wont be any consession given to him on this one...and still he chose it...it was almost like suicide.....i wonder if thats the case, people would have same reaction

would love to know your views........😊

Very well-asked! Indeed, it would require extremely close someone you'd much rather be dead without.
I loved your seggregation of sacrificial situation from Ian and mine - just a little itty bitty point - one doesn't know they'll be alive the next moment since the bus will indeed put on breaks. You are throwing urself at the face of death assuming that was it - for life & you don;t even get liberty to have splashes of life in that moment.. 😳..
IMO, very rarely will people meet such love as Ian. In most these instances, Samantha would not wish to stay behind either. 😳
If you flip through pages of internet blogs, debates and such, you'll notice how afraid and faithless in love - majority of people have become in the attempt of being practical. They must be right in their own judgment, but I am an emotional fool, who supports and believes in IAN.

PS - @ Gauri - Great views as always!! I agree with what you said and my mother had shared similar thought with me. SRK said similar things on national TV once. Once experienced, I hope to join the "parents will do anything club"😳

No, not for romantic love. But then again I haven't been in love yet. Even if I was in love I still don't think I would die for him. God, I sound so selfish 😆

Originally posted by: ani11

Thanks for asking himali ...no i don't mind ...as when i did'nt have kids i always thought that i would'nt survive without my hubby..........the thought is still very scary to me........the love for him has not changed....but the sense of duty towards my kids and the thought of leaving my kids without either of the parents is scarier...all i can say that motherhood is a feeling...i can't explain it to u.....there is a difference between reading about it and experiencing it ur self.....even as i am writing this the thought of anything happening to my hubby is scaring the hell out of me but i know that i will/HAVE to survive for my kids....there is no easy way out for me....hope this helps....😊

well i will say only few lines

first: your kidos are too lucky to have you as mother.

second: i think i will be feeling exactly the way you are feeling now when i will birth my own children.

i guess its the natural feeling that comes to us when we 'create' something..we wouldnt fancy the idea of seeing it destroyed or lost.

i think this principle applies to a mother like you and ofcourse gauri too..where children that you bore inside you for nine months and then birthed them with cruciating pain evoke the feeling of protectiveness toward them and thats the reason may be..that you cant see them in danger and you would leap forward to save them.

tell me if i am wrong😳

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Very well-asked! Indeed, it would require extremely close someone you'd much rather be dead without.
I loved your seggregation of sacrificial situation from Ian and mine - just a little itty bitty point - one doesn't know they'll be alive the next moment since the bus will indeed put on breaks. You are throwing urself at the face of death assuming that was it - for life & you don;t even get liberty to have splashes of life in that moment.. 😳..
IMO, very rarely will people meet such love as Ian. In most these instances, Samantha would not wish to stay behind either. 😳
If you flip through pages of internet blogs, debates and such, you'll notice how afraid and faithless in love - majority of people have become in the attempt of being practical. They must be right in their own judgment, but I am an emotional fool, who supports and believes in IAN.

PS - @ Gauri - Great views as always!! I agree with what you said and my mother had shared similar thought with me. SRK said similar things on national TV once. Once experienced, I hope to join the "parents will do anything club"😳

mermaid

iguess Ani can join you too.😆

well you can have lifetime membership for me too..i am sure my husband will have all the reasons to be jealous of my kids😳

@ Himali: sweetie, all moms are like me and Anita...including your mom too. I think our kids are as lucky as the kids next door because most moms feel like me.

@ QT: Thanks cutie pie 😊 I love reading your posts too. Looks like we have a mutual admiration club going on here 🤗 Hopefully, you'll join the "parents" club pretty soon too dear. Being a parent has its rewards and duties both. Reward is the unconditional love you get in return from the babies. Yup, the cutest age is new born to before they turn 2 yrs. After that, it is one or the other kind of chase and it amazes me that despite all they put us moms thru during the course of their life, we still are willing to die for them 🤔 The only thought that keeps me going is that ek maa duniya mein hai, jo merey liye bhi dey sakti hai apni jaan 😆
QT, some words of advise: If you are not ready for motherhood just yet, do not hold new born babies....they are infectious. You hold them, look at them, they give you that cutest toothless smile....and you are hooked .....you want to have one of your own 😲 That's how the babies increase their club....that's how I ended up having the second one after holding off for over five years....I got infected 😵 😆 😆 They sure are little bundles of joy....gosh, I feel like having one more

thats cool😳

CONGRATS in advance.......😆

arrey Ani and Himali, nothing's gonna happen with your congratz and blessings. My hubby needs to bless this thought for us to make progress 😉 😛 He is the one who warned me against holding other people's babies in my arms 😆 I think he doesn't want any more cmpetition that what he already has😆

Himali,

Your review of the movie was just exceptional. At the point when Ian gets into the cab with Samantha I knew what was going to happen but when it did happen I had chills go down from top of my neck to my ankels. Great write up 👏

I have nothing more to add since Gauri, Ani & QT have said exactly what I want to say. Once you are mother your love, responsibility and duties towards your children take priority over the love you have for your spouse or significant other. I would die for my kids or their kids. That is a promise.

Gauri,

The feeling of having 3rd one is great 😉 but now just wait for your daughters to grow up to be great women and make u GM some day in 15-20 yrs. God bless them 😃

oh absolutely. i'd be ready. ready to die for my love. but could i at least make sure that the building is not too tall? and that there is a big pool below? 😉 😆

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

But I am absolutely clear about one thing that I would gladly die for any of my kids, if the need ever arises (god forbid).

I think your question is very hard to answer and as a mother, I feel that no one comes anywhere closer to my kids but, if I am not mistaken, you are talking about romantic kind of love here. For that my answer is "NO". That said and done, I would like to clarify that I do love my husband with the bottom of my heart but my love for my l'il ones knows no boundaries.

most of the mothers say the same 😊 perhaps all mothers would have the same thought