Jodha Akbar 158: Matters of the heart - Page 4

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Spot on, Komal!

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: TheIronLady

I don't think that's the case here, Adiana. As If Jalal would have accepted his love for Jodha then I don't think he'd have behaved the way he did in D-E-K yest.

He is in denial, he thinks that if he accepts that he loves Jodha then Mirza'a words will become true and he'll end up being weak. And that's what he doesn't want at all, he don't want to be the guy who everyone feels pity for because the person whom he loves doesn't love him back. He doesn't want to be pitied and he definitely doesn't want people to think he is weak. And in top of all this Jodha's sudden care for him is leaving him more confused. That guy is just fighting with his emotion right now and it will all be put to rest when he will witness Jodha risking her own life for him. Then he will realize that Jodha is capable of loving him and her love will make him stronger, not weaker.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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You are absolutely right, Shweta. You are really a very clever young lady - you dug out that episode 49 comment of Jalal's about Mirza Hakim, and now this!👏

I had forgotten about this comment, for all that I thought it was an unacceptably crude thing for Sharifuddin to say to a Shahi Begum.

Do see my response to realitybites above as well.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: jshweta16

^ Aunty I think in one of the episodes when Jodha visited Sharifuddin in prison he mentioned "Ham janate hai aap aur Shehenshah k bich koi jismani rishta nahi hai" which somewhat irked Jodha. So if he knows then we can assume everyone knows about their marital relation.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hi Shyamala,
will get back in detail shortly. But one thing I wanted to say, many in forum are saying that, is physical relationship so important that he keep taunting and only because, she is not physical with him, she is not fulfilling her duties, but is it not important?? To make the relationship stronger or any case, it plays very pivotal role and even in today's world, spouse cheat on each other for this reason, there are divorces for this reason, so what is wrong, if Jalal is expecting it from Jodha?? when he has given her, what ever she has demanded, is she not suppose to fulfil his one and only need??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sashashyam

No, my dear, not a fan girl. I am, at 60+, far too old to be any fangirl, least of all of a boy younger than my son. I admire Rajat as an actor a very great deal, but that is an objective assessment, and I had never seen him before. My understanding of a fangirl, for Rajat in this case, would be the likes of Tripti or Disha or Munni and the umpteen other young ladies in this forum. Not me.

The same goes for Jalal as a character. I like him enormously when he is dominating, astute and strong. I want to clobber him when he puts up with things he should never put up with, is led by the nose by his wives (Jodha included) and Mahaam, and is foolish and indecisive. Like yesterday, when he should have insisted on marrying Benazir off to some other chap, but let Ruqaiya push him into marrying her himself.

Yes, in my distant youth, I was a fan of the rough and tough Humphrey Bogart, Clark Gable's Rhett Butler, and the young Amitabh Bachchan !

Was that all you had to say about this post?

Shyamala B.Cowsik



Ah yes. I am a TOTAL Fan-Girl if you ever saw one!!


But I would like to assume a very sensible one 😆. Fan -Girl has a biased connotation which I absolutely do not agree with.

I can never certain behaviours that Rajat displays just as much as I cannot abide by a weak & stupid Jalal. 😡


Oh great taste!! I've been a huge lover of Darcy & esp Rhett Butler ever since I can remember!! 😃


P.S. I haven't been writing in regarding the episodes aunty, because I don't really watch them. Y'day was such a silly episode & *that stoning*!!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sashashyam

Thank you for writing in with your views. I can see that you have strong opinions on these matters and I respect that.

Oops! You found them strong but they aren't meant to be.😳 Its just a story from the creative team's perspective.

But if you think the whole harem, and by extension the whole of a gossipy court, did not know that Jalal and Jodha had had no marital relations, you are far off the mark. That is not how palaces and harems function. Every baandi there, not to speak of the begums, would have known that, and told about everyone they could find in and outside the palace. There was nothing of the modern notions of privacy in those days, and an emperor's love life was very well documented by the staff!
Ah well as I wrote that there were rumours going and to quash them Jalal accepts the baby. Strictly as per what was shown there was not much gossiping as a tittle tattle amongst the most popular bandis.
On actual history well Jalal was a clever and ruthless man so anyone gossiping about would face death. Historians have accepted that different biographies of Akbar give different accounts of some events including some major ones, in his life and those days hardly attention was paid to the private life.
I agree that the sitting under a tree stunt could have been passed off as a tiff, but not what goes or rather does not go on within the harem. Everyone there would have known that Jalal had never spent a night with Jodha in Agra, and the baandis who had accompanied them to Ajmer would have noted and gossiped about her freely acknowledged aversion to sharing his tent,.
So the whole court that was there in the DEK would have been in the know of this, and the unkind gossip about Jodha's supposed pregnancy would have taken care of any incurious souls!

In fact, Shwetha has pointed out later on this thread that
when Jodha visited Sharifuddin in prison he mentioned "Ham jaanet hai aap aur Shehenshah ke beech koi jismani rishta nahi hai".
On Sharifuddin, of course he knew it because he is Bakshi's husband, a close relative. He used it to malign her so that Jodha is sent packing and he can have her. That was his malicious plan.
A very crude and impertinent comment to make, but the point is that he new about it too, for all that he did not live in Agra at the court.

I also very strongly disagree that what Jalal had for Jodha that night was stree ke liye lalasa. Whyk, when he is baring his soul to her, he specifically confesses that though he HAD wanted to dominate and conquer her at one point of time, now she had conquered him. Any woman who could say, after listening to him say all that he did, and in such a moving manner, that all he felt for her was SKLL is coarse and insensitive to the nth degree.
I don't find anything wrong in Jalal desiring Jodha as that is why he married her. So that stands true. Jalal actions hinted towards that . Jalal does want Jodha physically but he wants that meeting to be from her heart. Of course there are loopholes from script and characterization.

I am glad that you agree with me that what Jalal wants from Jodha is not just the physical aspect, but caring and affection. And I am with you in toto in regretting what they have done to Ruqaiya, even Smiley's Ruqaiya.
Shyamala B.Cowsik
The show has taken way too many liberties😆 but well its prime time TV show targeting entertainment.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jshweta16

^ Aunty I think in one of the episodes when Jodha visited Sharifuddin in prison he mentioned "Ham janate hai aap aur Shehenshah k bich koi jismani rishta nahi hai" which somewhat irked Jodha. So if he knows then we can assume everyone knows about their marital relation.

Shwetu,
How many times do you watch each episode? You are so thorough and can score A+ in any exam on JA.😉
Shariffu knows Jo-Ja's marital relation. That's why he planned the fake-pregnancy track. Everyone in the harem must also be knowing. Just after the religion issue, Jo in her usual loud bhaashanbaazi style declares to Ruqaiya that Shahenshah ne vachan nibhaya. right in the middle of the corridoors. Certainly every baandhi, every eunuch and every sipahi of the palace will be aware of their marital relation by now. We have to suppose that this is only private insult to Jalal..😕😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@aunty, rajat is like a younger bro for me, so im a fan, but not a romantic fan.😆 anyways, 1st of all wonderful analysis aunty. yes u said it right, jalal-jodha's relationship is really a open secret. HB, maham, BB, cheapu, adham, ruku, salima evryone know about it. & also during ajmer sharif trip two separate tents were made for them. so even atga khan & other officials also know about it. who else left??? & DEK consisted of these people only. yes i also feel tht talking about pvt. things in public was bit too much, but then why dont people criticize jodha when she discussed about separate tent with a random dasi??? when jodha talked rudely with jalal in the meena bazar or in amer during the bow arrow session thts also in public. yes i know jodha had her reasons, but similarly jalal also has his reasons. i dont blame jodha for the shove, bcoz it will be a natural reaction of any women, if her husband is drunk, but after showing his emotional side, if jalal's feelings r termed as just SKLL, then thts really insensitive. if jalal only had lust for jo, then he wouldnt have felt her pain after her suicide attempt & also in the kali mandir.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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the only thing keeping me from not leaving the forum is your posts, one sure thing to all forum members is to go with flow as you say, maybe if we lucky the worst is probably over
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Posted: 12 years ago
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jodha akbar ka romance kab shuru hoga
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hello Aunty 🤗🤗
I never thot ur post will be so enlightening 😳 m ready to go with the flow as it doesnt affect my daily life with fictional shows 😆

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