Love reflects in the eyes of your beloved!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Love is something which cannot be defined. It means different for different people.
Today again Sudha's love and Pammi's love for Chandar was juxtaposed.
Pammi says if you love someone you must own it to get complete happiness to which Sudha beautifully explains if you love something, not necessarily you have to own it.
Just like you love the snow on the mountains but you cannot take it away with you, and if your love is true you will love it even when it melts and flows into the river.
In every form you will love your beloved.

Chandar has not yet realized what love is. He definitely doesn't love Pammi nor does he knows about his feelings for Sudha.
Though his heart is unaware his eyes says it all.The innocence with which he looks at Sudha as if he can never go wrong when she is around.
And when with Pammi his every expression shows how hard he tries to save his innocence.
He feels free when he is with Sudha. He feels tied when he is with Pammi.

How and when Chandar is going to realise whose love is true and how he defines his version of love?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: archanajoseph

Love is something which cannot be defined. It means different for different people.
Today again Sudha's love and Pammi's love for Chandar was juxtaposed.
Pammi says if you love someone you must own it to get complete happiness to which Sudha beautifully explains if you love something, not necessarily you have to own it.
Just like you love the snow on the mountains but you cannot take it away with you, and if your love is true you will love it even when it melts and flows into the river.
In every form you will love your beloved.

Chandar has not yet realized what love is. He definitely doesn't love Pammi nor does he knows about his feelings for Sudha.
Though his heart is unaware his eyes says it all.The innocence with which he looks at Sudha as if he can never go wrong when she is around.
And when with Pammi his every expression shows how hard he tries to save his innocence.
He feels free when he is with Sudha. He feels tied when he is with Pammi.

How and when Chandar is going to realise whose love is true and how he defines his version of love?


I totally agree wiht you, I loved the way Sudha explained love. I feel like Pammi's love is basically just lust. I don't like the way the plot is going but I guess we just have to wait and see! I totally love the relationship between Chander and Sudha since the bond between them is clearly visible. I am not that fond of Pammi's character though, she is just too flirtatious. Sudha's love for Chander looks permanent but Pammi's love looks temporary. I don't think Pammi yearns for Chander as much as Sudha. They both are different Characterwise but they both yearn for the same thing, which is love, Chander's love. The reason why I think that Chander doesn't realise his feelings for Sudha is because she keeps forgiving him and I don't think she'll ever stop forgiving him. I think I know how the plot is heading though, Chander is going to fall in love with Pammi and he is going to realise his feelings for Sudha after it is too late. Its love Vs lust, lets just see what happens.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Archana Pammi is lusting on Chander, but what Pammi tells is true. If you try to give what you love the most it will be very painful.
Sudha has not realized this, because she has not faced the need to give up Chander. She is secure with Chander because she doesn't see any competition that can take her away from him.
And when she feels the heat she will understand it is easy to tell in theory give, but not that easy in practice.
Giving the person you love to someone else is not as easy as giving a flower or a dress.
Pammi's ways to get Chander are not right. She knows and she understands Sudha-Chander does share a beautiful bond. She is willfully coming between them.
And in precap I hate it yaar. She is manipulating Chander's guilt for her own selfish needs.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Archana Pammi is lusting on Chander, but what Pammi tells is true. If you try to give what you love the most it will be very painful.

Sudha has not realized this, because she has not faced the need to give up Chander. She is secure with Chander because she doesn't see any competition that can take her away from him.
And when she feels the heat she will understand it is easy to tell in theory give, but not that easy in practice.
Giving the person you love to someone else is not as easy as giving a flower or a dress.
Pammi's ways to get Chander are not right. She knows and she understands Sudha-Chander does share a beautiful bond. She is willfully coming between them.
And in precap I hate it yaar. She is manipulating Chander's guilt for her own selfish needs.



I 100% agree with you Shruthi
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I feel Pammi is completely lonely as she has lost her husband and also heart broken from the perspective of her brother...and as she said that she never got parent's love. To me her experiences have taught her that love is temporary so it has to be owned. Her insecurities as a consequence of being lonely makes her very impulsive and that we call as lust. All her actions show that in Chander she is not looking for a life long relationship as she very well knows that she herself is incapable of.
On the contrary, Sudha despite losing mum has a father who has given her a complete sheltered life...she knows what love is...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: cherrypansy

I feel Pammi is completely lonely as she has lost her husband and also heart broken from the perspective of her brother...and as she said that she never got parent's love. To me her experiences have taught her that love is temporary so it has to be owned. Her insecurities as a consequence of being lonely makes her very impulsive and that we call as lust. All her actions show that in Chander she is not looking for a life long relationship as she very well knows that she herself is incapable of.

On the contrary, Sudha despite losing mum has a father who has given her a complete sheltered life...she knows what love is...


Yes its quite true what you said. Even though there is this saying that 'love is blind' I feel like Pammi is blindly loving Chander like literally, what I mean by that is that there is no particular reason by it. Sudha has known Chander for a long time thus she knows more about him but Pammi just suddenly starts liking Chander for no ultimate reason it could just be infactuation and lust. On yesterday's episode when she was talking to Sudha, she sounded quite desperate, she told her that she was very lonely and all of the stuff you said and that she wanted Chander. She was comparing her life to sudha's and telling her that she needed him most in her life because she thought that Sudha hadn't been through a lot in life. It is quite true but like Sudha said beautifully that love does come in different forms but to see the different forms we have to show nothing but pure love. I am positive that Sudha's love is true love. If chander is the body than Sudha is - the soul. (this was said by @snehaHCAPK)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaush22


Yes its quite true what you said. Even though there is this saying that 'love is blind' I feel like Pammi is blindly loving Chander like literally, what I mean by that is that there is no particular reason by it. Sudha has known Chander for a long time thus she knows more about him but Pammi just suddenly starts liking Chander for no ultimate reason it could just be infactuation and lust. On yesterday's episode when she was talking to Sudha, she sounded quite desperate, she told her that she was very lonely and all of the stuff you said and that she wanted Chander. She was comparing her life to sudha's and telling her that she needed him most in her life because she thought that Sudha hadn't been through a lot in life. It is quite true but like Sudha said beautifully that love does come in different forms but to see the different forms we have to show nothing but pure love. I am positive that Sudha's love is true love. If chander is the body than Sudha is - the soul. (this was said by @snehaHCAPK)

@ Bold I don't think Pami is in love with Chander...she doesn't love him at all...for her chander is a just a thing/source of pleasure...in simple terms she is targeting him as to her Chander seems reachable from all perspectives...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@cherrypansy that could be it! to be honest I don't like her a single bit but I'm sure that their relationship (Sudha-Chander) is strong enough to endure her! I have a broad idea as to what might happen in the end and I'm quite upset about it after having read some spoilers but let's see what happens and I was very upset watching yesterday's precap!
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