The onus of blame lies more on Rohit then Armaan - Page 2

I personally believe that Ruhi is just jot a good person, just because not once has she cared for her child even before he was born. The doctor clearly said she hadn’t even been taking her medications- because she was always too invested in Abhira’s baby and how it will snatch her baby’s rights. But that thinking isn’t actually coming from facts but rather he own insecurity - she is using her child to make a place for herself. And that is sad! Although I agree that it is her trauma that is causing her to do and say all of this- but not once did she think about cursing a baby. She hates Abhira sure but like they child is not even born yet and she know it’s a complicated pregnancy- so don’t support her but you can just walk away without cursing the child and abhira.

and I agree, she doesn’t hvae to feed that child and take care of the baby if she doesn’t want to- and that doesn’t make her good or bad- but why still bash on the child is what always gets me.

I think Armani is still guilty- especially listening to Abhira talk about her nightmares. Because if he wasn’t he would have woke up and comforted her- but he can’t because he also fears that the truth will come out one day. I think he is just warming up slowly to the baby and trying to get over the fact that it is not his BSP- and trying to come around the web of lies that he and especially rohit has created. So I don’t think the guilt has gone yet but he is just adjusting/accepting it and starting to believe they can be a family.

Then only can the writers just crush all of that down and bring the truth out lol and we are back to a crying and depressed Abhimaan.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

So are you saying, armaan and abheera being wrong is the writer's fault, but ruhi is a bad mother and that is a fact?? Isnt this hypocrisy??

Just because she denied to give her milk and didnt accept Abheera's baby as she felt Abheera is doing a favour, she becomes a bad mother?? And her baby should be snatched from her??

And why is Armaan sa not equally guilty?? Because he didn’t initiate the idea of baby swapping?? 👏👏👏

You all keep misunderstanding I am only saying both Armaan and Rohit suck but Rohit sucks more for defrauding Ruhi. Ruhi is not at fault at all. Abhira is immature but not evil like she isn’t doing all the consoling Ruhi bit with baby with bad intentions. She needs to know its not the right away but her intentions are pure she genuinely wants Ruhi to heal.

This kinda insecurities and jealousy is always there in almost all the families in real life.

That doesnt make any woman a bad mother. And how did anyone conclude this without letting her be a mother at the first place??

And why aren't we tagging Abheera as a bad mother?? She risked hers and baby's life. It was a critical pregnancy, right?? Doctor had warned even her of losing the baby. Why aren't we calling her a bad mother for risking her baby's life??

Originally posted by: Drna7

Initially Ro was more at fault as Ar was really tensed at that time.

But now approx. 12 days have passed so for me they both are at equal fault now.

But I have seen posts making Ar villain as if it was not Ro who himself gave his baby away.

And though I agree even Abhira is not acting completely sane nowadays and she should also try to think from others perspective but they don't have to be so harsh and label her bad mom because she cannot feel her baby died and this one is not hers.

Ru is also in her own sufferings and needs time and care. But few things like today's dialogue was due to jealousy.

At the end both wives should punish their husbands for playing with their feelings even though their intentions were not evil. And deserves few slaps too.

They keep forgetting that Abhira did question why her baby is not in NICU or under care. Armaan is stupid to keep the ruse up for so long but Rohit is worse for suggesting it. Abhira really needs some sensitivity training. Her intentions aren’t wrong but her method is. Also people keep calling her perverted but she is a confused new mom. Moms do ask other moms for breast milk and it is common in some families. In Muslims sisters actually nurse each others babies as it makes their babies mehram for each other so then cousins become milk siblings can’t get married to each other and can play together. Its encouraged actually to stop cousin marriages

Originally posted by: maahi11

I agree both Ruhi and Abhira has the right to know the truth but is Ruhi even a good mother. I mn get mother is mother good or bad doesn’t matter, but it does matter. Ruhi thought process is limited to see Abhira in pain, after Abhiras pregnancy news came out, she cursed the baby, she told Abhira shouldn’t get the happiness of being a mother, we know the kid is of ruhis but what if it was of Abhira, she hates the kid referred as saman, she openly told MG she would not let Abhira near the kid let alone touch the kid, Infact what more she had this thought Abhira has complications in her pregnancy it was abhira’s baby who should have died not her. the person having such thought process will give what upbringing to the child, to be jealous, after the truth is out she will make abhiras life miserable but she is not fit to be mother, I guess that’s the reason Rohit is so admant to let Abhimaan parent his kid.

On top all this Ruhi still doesn’t realizes her mistake that, she risked her and kids life by going out alone. Infact I am surprised no body even Rohit too did not for once reprimanded her for the same

A bad person can be good parent while a good person can be parent .

Roohi isn't given a chance to be a parent so it's a bit difficult to comment.

Armaan sa ki age kya hai ? Who was the person who said NO to Ruhi on mandap n went to Abheera even when Ruhi was begging n asking to marry her ? Rohit handed him the child but what did Armaan sa did in return ? Accept the child n now busy making memories with him as his parent,enjoying all the firsts with the child,fearing if the doctor would reveal the truth which his baby queen won't be able to take..

Even if Ruhi is a bad mother it doesn't changes the fact that she brought that baby in the world and that baby belongs to her ONLY..Baby isn't a toy that can be shared and no mother in the world can share her child with anyone else..

No one understand that fact here. For all it will be like abhira is so insensitive blah blah and all agar dekhoge toh yaha bas chuhi ka dard abhira hi samaj Rahi hei aur usmei hi abhira yeh Sara faltu giri ka rhai hie baby ko share karna and all.

Originally posted by: viji2111

A bad person can be good parent while a good person can be parent .

Roohi isn't given a chance to be a parent so it's a bit difficult to comment.

The fact is she is good human being kitne b nafrat ho aap iss tarah koi b bache k liye nhi bolte hei jo usne kaha.

In all this, the truth better be blurted by Rohit himself or the hospital staff OR ANYONE but Armaan. Otherwise THE Rohit PODDAR will forget what he has started and him and his mother will again start blaming Armaan for what Ruhi will do to Rohit rightfully. He will blame Armaan for ruining his relationship and not at all acknowledge what he has done. Armaan at this point will be doomed both ways. If he says the truth, he will be responsible for Rohit's bashing too.