Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 18th Sep 2024 Written Update and EDT

The Poddars discuss among themselves whether Armaan should marry Abhira or not. Abhira, who can't conceive a child, tells Armaan she will not marry him

inn sab poddar logon seh bass panchayat karva loh. ugh.

They should rename themselves as panchayats not poddars... Whatever happened to madhav and his fatherhood now

Abhira reaches GH as Swarna is doing aarti and the photo is of baby krishna with yashoda. And that triggers Abhira a bit - she looks more upset. MG and Surekha notice and Surekha turns off arti on stereo. Swarna notices and in anger asks why Abhira is here. MG shuts her up, asks Surekha to take Ab away. Ab is too stunned to even register Swarnas actions. MG says dont say anything - Ab is already going through a lot.

Armaan meanwhile thinks he should call Abhira. But he spots the baby socks in his room and recalls V and Kaveri's words to him and doesnt call her.

Abhira is having a full fledged breakdown. She is talking to her mumma. And its so heartfelt. Sam's tears feel real. She has FBs of Armaan with the mute kid and how excited he was to have kids, she has FBS of V, Kaveri, Sanjay's words. and as she breaks down, she knocks over a guitar - Aksharas and clutches that to herself and cries. She is so upset about never being able to have a child and its heartwrenching. she also has no khoon ka rishtaa for herself and the way she thinks- kya mein itni buri hoon, shaayad mein parivar deserve nahi karti- OMG. Its too much. Its too sad. the way she has broken down just tugs at heartstrings. I just wanna hug her and say no babygirl, you deserve the very best!

MG is outside door and feels sad and thinks he is unable to help Ab. She sees Aksharas photo and thinks I will not let her suffer and I wont let her leave

Charu asks Kaveri if Kiara or her had infertility problems would she cancel shaadi like this. Wow. didnt expect sensitivity from her. but its great. Chorus gang tell her its unfair to treat Ab like this. Kiara says women arent baby making machines. Kaveri says I am also sad about maybe being too harsh with Abhira, but in society expectations have not changed. people want their vansh to go ahead and no family will accept a woman who cant give kids. Armaan should not suffer for not having aulaaat ka sukh. Madhav says its good if Abhira leaves coz even after shaadi she will only be tortured, we have already done enough harm to her. He says we will all taunt Abhira post shaadi and never let them be happy. Chachi says- no we will support Abhimaan. Sanjay taunts. Chachi says- tomorrow if your son had infertility issues, you would not be so amused or callous. Sanjay defends his own pov and chachi says you anyway dont care. V is adamant that they should not marry even if they want to marry for love. Chachi tries to tell V off. but V doesnt listen and she makes it about herself vs Abhira ka pyaar. Armaan is listening to all this from afar where no one has seen him

Abhira hallucinates a childs voice saying mumma mumma. And she sees her photo DP of her and Armaan and is in tears and has FBs of their romantic moments. Armaan has holed up himself in the cupboard and is also seeing pics reminiscing happier times and their dreams of happy family.

Kaveri goes to Armaans room and knocks the wardrobe and says I am not putting any dabav and you should make your own decision and says - make your decision but dont forget that girl cant give you your biggest dream and pyaar shouldnt be pachtava later.

Abhira messages Armaan that she wants to talk. Armaan immediately videocalls her. both see each other tearfully. Armaan says lets meet face to face. Abhira says nothing left to talk about, lets be practical. Your mom, dadi want you to be happy and thats normal. her words are raw, so honest and so heartfelt. She says I cant bear the pain of breaking your biggest sapna or you resenting me later. All very valid points. She is scared and overwhelmed and every word she has said in that mindset is very valid. She says I will love you always but I cant marry you.

Armaan comes downstairs where family is waiting. Armaan announces that Abhira has backed off from shaadi and done what they all wanted .

Chachi is upset. Sanjay is smug and Ruhi is smiling. %^$#@

Armaan says- congrats to V and Kaveri- what you wanted has happened and walks off

the 2 women have the audacity to act shocked. Kaveri is like we are doing all this for his khushi. Manisha speaks up and says if you had apnaoed you would have accepted her the way she is. You always wanted to change Abhira. V retorts to Chachi and says I love my beta more than her.

Chorus gang look super upset too.

So only chorus and chacha/chachi have a heart.

Rohit ko toh SS bhi nahi derahe except him rightfully holding back Ruhi from saying anything when panchayat was happening. How has he not seen how gleeful she looks?!

Precap- Manoj says we shouldnt cancel shaadi. Kaveri says Abhira only canceled. Armaan goes with haldi , applies it on her and says I will wait for my dulhan in mandap . Abhira is looking at the wedding lehenga that ig MG gives her asking her to reconsider and not cancel shaadi because Armaan is willing to stand by her and she should trust him

i bawled my eyes out watching abhira's breakdown. i had literal streams of tears coming out of my eyes. i know the feeling of not being good enough. it hurts a lot. istg if samridhii doesn't win all the acting awards, then i will personally fight whoever's in charge.

So how many times is Ruhaya going to ruin her room before that pati Rohit ask questions

Originally posted by: Sa7861

i bawled my eyes out watching abhira's breakdown. i had literal streams of tears coming out of my eyes. i know the feeling of not being good enough. it hurts a lot. istg if samridhii doesn't win all the acting awards, then i will personally fight whoever's in charge.

she is so raw and real. she has gone all out.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Abhira reaches GH as Swarna is doing aarti and the photo is of baby krishna with yashoda. And that triggers Abhira a bit - she looks more upset. MG and Surekha notice and Surekha turns off arti on stereo. Swarna notices and in anger asks why Abhira is here. MG shuts her up, asks Surekha to take Ab away. Ab is too stunned to even register Swarnas actions. MG says dont say anything - Ab is already going through a lot.

Armaan meanwhile thinks he should call Abhira. But he spots the baby socks in his room and recalls V and Kaveri's words to him and doesnt call her.

Abhira is having a full fledged breakdown. She is talking to her mumma. And its so heartfelt. Sam's tears feel real. She has FBs of Armaan with the mute kid and how excited he was to have kids, she has FBS of V, Kaveri, Sanjay's words. and as she breaks down, she knocks over a guitar - Aksharas and clutches that to herself and cries. She is so upset about never being able to have a child and its heartwrenching. she also has no khoon ka rishtaa for herself and the way she thinks- kya mein itni buri hoon, shaayad mein parivar deserve nahi karti- OMG. Its too much. Its too sad. the way she has broken down just tugs at heartstrings. I just wanna hug her and say no babygirl, you deserve the very best!

MG is outside door and feels sad and thinks he is unable to help Ab. She sees Aksharas photo and thinks I will not let her suffer and I wont let her leave

Charu asks Kaveri if Kiara or her had infertility problems would she cancel shaadi like this. Wow. didnt expect sensitivity from her. but its great. Chorus gang tell her its unfair to treat Ab like this. Kiara says women arent baby making machines. Kaveri says I am also sad about maybe being too harsh with Abhira, but in society expectations have not changed. people want their vansh to go ahead and no family will accept a woman who cant give kids. Armaan should not suffer for not having aulaaat ka sukh. Madhav says its good if Abhira leaves coz even after shaadi she will only be tortured, we have already done enough harm to her. He says we will all taunt Abhira post shaadi and never let them be happy. Chachi says- no we will support Abhimaan. Sanjay taunts. Chachi says- tomorrow if your son had infertility issues, you would not be so amused or callous. Sanjay defends his own pov and chachi says you anyway dont care. V is adamant that they should not marry even if they want to marry for love. Chachi tries to tell V off. but V doesnt listen and she makes it about herself vs Abhira ka pyaar. Armaan is listening to all this from afar where no one has seen him

Abhira hallucinates a childs voice saying mumma mumma. And she sees her photo DP of her and Armaan and is in tears and has FBs of their romantic moments. Armaan has holed up himself in the cupboard and is also seeing pics reminiscing happier times and their dreams of happy family.

Kaveri goes to Armaans room and knocks the wardrobe and says I am not putting any dabav and you should make your own decision and says - make your decision but dont forget that girl cant give you your biggest dream and pyaar shouldnt be pachtava later.

Abhira messages Armaan that she wants to talk. Armaan immediately videocalls her. both see each other tearfully. Armaan says lets meet face to face. Abhira says nothing left to talk about, lets be practical. Your mom, dadi want you to be happy and thats normal. her words are raw, so honest and so heartfelt. She says I cant bear the pain of breaking your biggest sapna or you resenting me later. All very valid points. She is scared and overwhelmed and every word she has said in that mindset is very valid. She says I will love you always but I cant marry you.

Armaan comes downstairs where family is waiting. Armaan announces that Abhira has backed off from shaadi and done what they all wanted .

Chachi is upset. Sanjay is smug and Ruhi is smiling. %^$#@

Armaan says- congrats to V and Kaveri- what you wanted has happened and walks off

the 2 women have the audacity to act shocked. Kaveri is like we are doing all this for his khushi. Manisha speaks up and says if you had apnaoed you would have accepted her the way she is. You always wanted to change Abhira. V retorts to Chachi and says I love my beta more than her.

Chorus gang look super upset too.

So only chorus and chacha/chachi have a heart.

Rohit ko toh SS bhi nahi derahe except him rightfully holding back Ruhi from saying anything when panchayat was happening. How has he not seen how gleeful she looks?!

Precap- Manoj says we shouldnt cancel shaadi. Kaveri says Abhira only canceled. Armaan goes with haldi , applies it on her and says I will wait for my dulhan in mandap . Abhira is looking at the wedding lehenga that ig MG gives her asking her to reconsider and not cancel shaadi because Armaan is willing to stand by her and she should trust him

My blood is boiling even while reading this. A big no to the episode. Inki panchayat sunke bhi agar Armaan shaadi ke baad alag ghar me naa raha toh chaar chappal maroon mai aise hypocrite ML ko. Kisi ko bura lage to Sorry 🙏

Originally posted by: Pinecone

she is so raw and real. she has gone all out.

It's time to be practical as well. Would like her to leave the city ASAP and focus on her career. Later she can independently adopt a child and raise him/her as her own. It's not something alien for today's generation.

Abhira having no one there is so heartbreaking. MG is useless. Abhira has no khoon ka rishtaa and she wanted this child as much as Armaan but everyone is acting as if sapna of child is only Armaans. abhira is broken, vulnerable and has no family. yet she has not guilt tripped Armaan into marrying her like ruhi tried to do even when Armaan denied shaadi. Kaveri was wanting to see if Abhira will put Armaan first and she has- yet they have no empathy. They act SO entitled.

V has some audacity making this issue into Armaan choosing between her and Abhira. wow! Apparently if she has forbid shaadi now thats the final word. even Kaveri wasnt so heartless today.

So V will manipulate Abhira next and try to ensure shaadi doesnt happen after armaan declares that he will wait for her at mandap. but hopefully MG will interrupt V's emotional manipulation of Abhira in upcoming.

I dont think Abhira would ever leave Armaan waiting for her at altar. She loves him too much. but she also wont tie him to herself if she is really out of all medical options for real

I hope that she gets another medical opinion soon, Abhira is always logical and reasonable after she lets out her emotions and thinks with her brain, not her heart. once she feels a bit lighter after crying her heart out, I expect her to really break it down for herself about what she needs to do.