I do not agree with Mumtaz or what Dharmendra did
I do not want to blame only Dharmendra he was married by his parents at young age
After becoming a actor every human wants a spouse from their field or educated or as beautiful as them
So may be Dharmendra felt Hema will suit him more than his wife
Its not only about love but compaibility
I had read sunny was pretty miffed on his dads second marriage
Bobby was a kid may be 12 year old when Dharmendra married Hema so kids opinion does not truly matter to Dharmendra or his wife and brother on this matter
I think sunnys image of silent and angry and all scared of him is one he developed to protect himself from media and society questioning him about Dharmendras second marriage. Its also to protect his mom and younger brother from the society and media. I have never seen any journalist in interview ask about hema or esha to sunny. But they have asked bobby about hema and esha his sisters in interviews. Or they ask esha about her brothers. In youtube interviews you can see that they ask bobby on hema or his sisters too. So media too knows whom they can cross limits with and whom they cannot and what ques to ask whom without facing warth.
The fact that the brothers never attended their two sisters wedding itself shows all the respect etc is just for outside world may be. Or may be sunny bobby over years love their sisters and want to spend time or go out with them or talk to them but are scared to hurt their mother. So they do not go to any big function of the sisters too.
In any place where a father marries two or three wives its kids who suffer most. Specially kids who are small. They miss the father the most as in childhood you want parents with you to take care and spend time with you. Which i think bobby missed. Thats why he says sunny is his second father. Because by than sunny started working and he took care of bobby finance school, college, career, homework etc protecting him from bullying basically he became father to bobby or did those duties
Sadly arjun and his sis did not have an elder brother like sunny to take fathers place in life after boney married sridevi. So arjun has lot of unresolved emotions inside compared to bobby deol. Both had similar situation. But for bobby he had sunny to take a fathers place and duties in his life and protect him from harsh ques of society. So its not affected him so much as arjun that he did not have daddy at home growing up. Also bobby said in kapil sharma show he never said in school or college hes dharmendra son or sunnys brother. Thats to avoid questions classmates would ask him i guess. To avoid the uncomfortable ques and bullying he kept his identity to himself. Or kids tend to show off whose their dad or brother if they come form big families in school or college etc. Asian society are tough on kids without father or whose father left their mom etc bec bullying targeting mocking all happens to kids for no fault. Just having a father at home ensure no one messes with any kid bec one threat to complaint to dad will scare biggest bully or teachers too away. I guess majority did not mess with bobby because he had sunny to protect him. Arjun was talking of bullying in interview but he did not have a brother like sunny to protect him.
Edited by myviewprem - 2 years ago
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