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@aditi whether to stay single or married is an individual choice. Both has its merits and demerits. But if you decide to stay single it is better you do that literally. Dont meddle in your married siblings life. If you are financially independent rent an apartment and move out. Dont feel guilty about it.
If you decide to get married it is better you chose a partner who will be respectful towards you. It is better to get family's approval if you are making your own choice as afterall they are your parents and has brought you up with love and care. If you are allowing them to chose be clear on your preferences, especially what is that one thing you will not compromise or cannot accept. For me it was smoking and drinking and the fact that I cannot cook non veg. For someone else it would be different as I know many people are not averse to party drinking. So have your priorites set and dont compromise on them. You need to know you are not going to get a man fulfilling all your expectations, so understand where you are willing to cut slack.
One thing every girl needs to understand is marriage is not the ultimate aim of a girl's life. So it is fine if you are not feeling ready for marriage and want to think about marriage only in your late twenties or early thirties. But then arranged marriage would be a problem 😆😆 as that market works in a specific way. You need to know that also.
@visa yes he is different because he survived.
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