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Posted: 9 months ago

Sunn Mere Dil epi 31 is trending at no 4 in India... I just can't believe thissmiley36

Edited by kuhelidebbarma - 9 months ago
Posted: 9 months ago

Originally posted by: hakanturkey

"I’m Turkish and also a Muslim. In our society, if there were a woman like Sadaf, her family and community would stand by her. She’s experiencing both physical and emotional abuse, and her husband is cheating on her with another woman. If you have a mother like Farzana, you don’t need any other enemies. If it were a mother in our culture, she would slap Ammar twice, take her daughter, and leave. She would never allow her daughter to meet with him again.

The so-called Islamic culture you live in has nothing to do with Islam. In your society, women are not valued. Marriage is a mutual promise. If one party breaks that promise, it means the marriage is broken. Why should the other party remain loyal to their promise?"

I kinda agree. Our society has twisted Islam in weird ways. In Pak specifically people can’t differentiate between culture, law of their land & religion.

The person you quoted earlier is not a Muslim so she doesn’t know the rules.

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Posted: 9 months ago

Originally posted by: hakanturkey

"I’m Turkish and also a Muslim. In our society, if there were a woman like Sadaf, her family and community would stand by her. She’s experiencing both physical and emotional abuse, and her husband is cheating on her with another woman. If you have a mother like Farzana, you don’t need any other enemies. If it were a mother in our culture, she would slap Ammar twice, take her daughter, and leave. She would never allow her daughter to meet with him again.

The so-called Islamic culture you live in has nothing to do with Islam. In your society, women are not valued. Marriage is a mutual promise. If one party breaks that promise, it means the marriage is broken. Why should the other party remain loyal to their promise?"

Actually it has a lot to do with South Asian culture ..(India/Pakistan/Bangladesh) ...the parents advice their children to adjust in the marriage and forgive in the marriage..because they dont believe in the concept of broken relationships and marriage...but if a person has lost himself/herself to save a doomed relationship,than there is really no use of staying in such kind of marriage . On the top of it,a person like Ammar is not even guilty of what he is doing..!! So he doesn't deserve any kind of forgiveness .

Edited by kuhelidebbarma - 9 months ago
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Posted: 9 months ago

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

Actually it has a lot to do with South Asian culture ..(India/Pakistan/Bangladesh) ...the parents advice their children to adjust in the marriage and forgive in the marriage..because they dont believe in the concept of broken relationships and marriage...but if a person has lost himself/herself to save a doomed relationship,than there is really no use of staying in such kind of marriage . On the top of it,a person like Ammar is not even guilty of what he is doing..!! So he doesn't deserve any kind of forgiveness .

"Yes, our elders also give such advice—to forgive, to compromise, etc.—but there is a limit to this. A cheating spouse, an abusive spouse, an alcoholic, and so on... Let me give you an example: even a husband interfering with his wife’s choice of clothing can end a marriage. I’m sure you’ve understood the difference here. In minor issues like clothing or similar matters, elders might want to reconcile the couple. But when it comes to cheating or abuse, the foundation of the marriage is shaken to its core."
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Posted: 9 months ago

Why does Sadaf use the dialogue for Humsha "Tum karo toh dance aur main karu toh mujra?"

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Posted: 9 months ago

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

Why does Sadaf use the dialogue for Humsha "Tum karo toh dance aur main karu toh mujra?"

nce I didn’t know what mujra means, I researched it online. While this act doesn’t have the same meaning in our culture, it conveys something similar. I’m guessing that there’s more context before and after that sentence. But Sadaf is probably trying to explain to Humsha something like this: 'You separated from Faraz of your own free will. No one is asking you to get back together with him. So why should I be with Ammar?'

In our culture, we have an expression somewhat related to mujra, used to insult hypocritical or fickle people: 'Don’t twist like a belly dancer.' Here, the word 'belly dancer' refers to women who are described by society as immoral and whose sole job is to entertain men."

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Posted: 9 months ago

If this show was boring and pathetic,it wouldn't have been discussed so much..it would have just been ignored like the way gentleman was.

I still dont want to comment on the whole drama before I see the execution of Sadaf-Bilal track which is supposedly the final track of the show. I dont have high expectations but I want to see how to go ahead from here on because lot of Bilal-Sadaf scenes are still left.

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Posted: 9 months ago

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

If this show was boring and pathetic,it wouldn't have been discussed so much..it would have just been ignored like the way gentleman was.

I still dont want to comment on the whole drama before I see the execution of Sadaf-Bilal track which is supposedly the final track of the show. I dont have high expectations but I want to see how to go ahead from here on because lot of Bilal-Sadaf scenes are still left.

Gentleman wasn't great or good but it wasn't this boring our pathetic either. Anything extreme will get discussed.

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Posted: 9 months ago

Casual IMO is like showing drinking as an ok and not a gunah. But AFAICS that’s not the case here, Ammar when doing wrong things has fallen into it and it’s not shown as an ok act and even Bilal was considered doing wrong activities as he drinks alcohol. Casual is like say other country content where it’s not considered as wrong but an ok act and like it’s ok for person to drink it at party and at home in night etc.

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