When did I say it’s a crime? People with the best intentions can sometimes come across as selfish. Just because Abhira is a good person doesn’t mean how she handled the situation is correct. She could’ve just not asked Ruhi. Could’ve thought “how can I even suggest that idea? That’s too much to ask”
I have a question! You yourself talk about the need to be sensitive towards mothers but fail to be sensitive towards Abhira! Ruhi is in pain and I pray no one has to go through the same situation, not even Ruhi! But, doesn’t Abhira warrant same consideration as well? Only mothers who have lost their child deserve sympathy? Doesn’t new Moms like Abhira also deserve the same? You (I mean a lot Ruhi fans or anti Abhira squad) discount lots of Ruhi’s insecurities and hatred in the name of childhood trauma and all! But doesn’t Abhira have her share of trauma? Didn’t she lost her whole world suddenly as well? Being raised by single mom, I don’t think her life had been easy! So why there is no sympathy, no compassion for her? Just because she doesn’t recount her past/pain 4 times a day?
At that moment, Abhira hesitated to approach Ruhi! But her love for the baby won over her hesitation! She is a new mother who is going through a lot too! She is feeling the worst as she is unable to feed her baby! But still she has to be sensitive towards Ruhi? And Ruhi doesn’t? I would have understood if Ruhi refused to feed the baby because of her pain! But she refused because of Abhira being the mother of that baby! She wished that child harm! That’s what makes me hate her!
0