Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 12th Aug 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 24

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

Tum aaj kya truth serum peeke aayi ho

Abhira is 💯 thinking for her joint family which is probably Armaan's wish too.. but she is not updated on his new practical wish which is that she is his family! And he wants to basaofy a naya parivaar with her

When Armaan left his marriage for Ruhi then Abhira's concern was Armaan would never make her his priority over his family. Armaan is doing that now but bbg ka mood change hogya hai.

Awwwww Bbg reasoning is the best and logical.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

When Armaan left his marriage for Ruhi then Abhira's concern was Armaan would never make her his priority over his family. Armaan is doing that now but bbg ka mood change hogya hai.

Awwwww Bbg reasoning is the best and logical.

I thinkt he line now is pyaar hun, par Meri priority tumhaari priority Nahi

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

"Pyaar hun Priority nhi" ye kisne bola tha?? Ab Armaan ne priority bana liya hai, phir bhi she is not happy.

Abhira’s desire for Kaveri’s approval is inversely proportional to her efforts to stay out of issues that are likely to rile the matriarch up..even assuming Kaveri accepts her atp, this will never turn into an abiding relationship because they are mismatched personalities..there was this old film called Khubsoorat with Rekha ..where she challenges the matriarch’s ways ..she too encourages the other family members to pursue their interests etc ..but at no point do you see her being rude or provocative in her behaviour …Abhira, in all this time, has done pretty much everything to piss Kaveri off ..I am not discounting all the good things Abhira has done ..but to counterbalance those, she’s done things like that swag se swagat, the shikanji scene etc which cannot termed as anything short of deliberately provocative …insisting on being treated with respect is one thing and making a spectacle out of it solely for the purpose of humiliating the opponent, knowing that they are at your mercy, is another …swag se swagat was nothing short of that and she only ended up getting humiliated in less than two or three days ..so what was the point of those five or ten minutes of glory ? No one is suggesting Abhira should be meek or a doormat ..everything doesn’t have to be extreme and I think Abhira needs to understand that ..where was the need to go and tell Kaveri she would shake the foundations of her firm ..a simple I’ll prove you wrong Ma’am or even I’ll make you eat your hat would’ve been okay ..now which family would be comfortable with their prospective Bahu saying that she’ll unsettle their firm …Abhira doesn’t think before she talks and she doesn’t acknowledge the possible impact the person she’s speaking to is likely to have on her life ..Kaveri doesn’t care whether Abhira marries Armaan..in fact she actively doesn’t want it ..so right now, Abhira is at Kaveri’s mercy if she wants her approval ..going forward, if they’re going to live in that house, she will continue to be at her mercy …forget Armaan, is Abhira even capable of accepting to live like that ..where she will have to bend to Kaveri on several occasions ..otherwise the home will become a battlefield and Armaan and she will still get into conflicts ..so this is not about whether they live with the Poddars or outside ..if Armaan is going to blame her for separating him from his family, he will likely blame her for causing conflict within the family too ..in the past too, he’s begged her not to get involved in other people’s affairs but as Abhira has stated, it is not in her resume to watch what she believes to be wrong unfolding ..like in the Charu case ..her judgment might be right on occasion but it could also be wrong on occasion ..she is not God ..

I really feel Abhira now needs to introspect.. and also stop making Armaan’s decision to leave just about herself ..she has seen that man putting up with shit and now, finally he wants to leave in his own interests and that of the family ..what needs to happen is a frank discussion on the pros and cons of the decision and how they would be able to handle the consequences as a couple going forward ..

Also one cannot impose their decision on the other ..Armaan has to respect Abhira’s choices and vice versa ..she cannot say things like she won’t let him do what he wishes to ..unless he’s planning a criminal activity that is ..if a man were to say the same thing, he’d be called a red flag ..it’s a good thing that women are not assigned flags lol

To me, despite all the syrupy sweet dialogues, the way ahead seems lined with stumbling blocks …leaving the family and living independently would be the most sensible choice to make at this point at least !

Let us please not bring Ruhi into this conversation..she’s inconsequential ..so also are Kaveri’s character flaws to this conversation ..because Abhira wants her and not the other way round !

Originally posted by: shalu1786

They clearly showed what armaan and want with this mehandi designs.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

Abhira’s desire for Kaveri’s approval is inversely proportional to her efforts to stay out of issues that are likely to rile the matriarch up..even assuming Kaveri accepts her atp, this will never turn into an abiding relationship because they are mismatched personalities..there was this old film called Khubsoorat with Rekha ..where she challenges the matriarch’s ways ..she too encourages the other family members to pursue their interests etc ..but at no point do you see her being rude or provocative in her behaviour …Abhira, in all this time, has done pretty much everything to piss Kaveri off ..I am not discounting all the good things Abhira has done ..but to counterbalance those, she’s done thinks like that swag se swagat, the shikanji scene etc which cannot termed as anything short of deliberately provocative …insisting on being treated with respect is one thing and making a spectacle out of it solely for the purpose of humiliating the opponent, knowing that they are at your mercy, is another …swag se swagat was nothing short of that and she only ended up getting humiliated in less than two or three days ..so what was the point of those five or ten minutes of glory ? No one is suggesting Abhira should be meek or a doormat ..everything doesn’t have to be extreme and I think Abhira needs to understand that ..where was the need to go and tell Kaveri she would shake the foundations of her firm ..a simple I’ll prove you wrong Ma’am or even I’ll make you eat your hat would’ve been okay ..now which family would be comfortable with their prospective Bahu saying that she’ll unsettle their firm …Abhira doesn’t think before she talks and she doesn’t acknowledge the possible impact the person she’s speaking to is likely to have on her life ..Kaveri doesn’t care whether Abhira marries Armaan..in fact she actively doesn’t want it ..so right now, Abhira is at Kaveri’s mercy if she wants her approval ..going forward, if they’re going to live in that house, she will continue to be at her mercy …forget Armaan, is Abhira even capable of accepting to live like that ..where she will have to bend to Kaveri on several occasions ..otherwise the home will become a battlefield and Armaan and she will still get into conflicts ..so this is not about whether they live with the Poddars or outside ..if Armaan is going to blame her for separating him from his family, he will likely blame her for causing conflict within the family too ..in the past too, he’s begged her not to get involved in other people’s affairs but as Abhira has stated, it is not in her resume to watch what she believes to be wrong unfolding ..like in the Charu case ..her judgment might be right on occasion but it could also be wrong on occasion ..she is not God ..

I really feel Abhira now needs to introspect.. and also stop making Armaan’s decision to leave just about herself ..she has seen that man putting up with shit and now, finally he wants to leave in his own interests and that of the family ..what needs to happen is a frank discussion on the pros and cons of the decision and how they would be able to handle the consequences as a couple going forward ..

Also one cannot impose their decision on the other ..Armaan has to respect Abhira’s choices and vice versa ..she cannot say things like she won’t let him do what he wishes to ..unless he’s planning a criminal activity that is ..if a man were to say the same thing, he’d be called a red flag ..it’s a good thing that women are not assigned flags lol

To me, despite all the syrupy sweet dialogues, the way ahead seems lined with stumbling blocks …leaving the family and living independently would be the most sensible choice to make at this point at least !

Let us please not bring Ruhi into this conversation..she’s inconsequential ..so also are Kaveri’s character flaws to this conversation ..because Abhira wants her and not the other way round !

The whole "neev Hila dungi " dialogue was so funny considering she was living in a house owned by KP.

@bold: Not the most sensible but the only sensible option.

Right now old saying comes to my mind for Abhira..." Chitt bhi Meri aur patt bhi Meri"

Well that's the hope.. Armaan didn't reach this by thinking alone though.. he needed to be told by Rohit in as many words.. Abhira has heard now from enough people and even today from Vidya that KP is not going to agree.. But I'm with you that Armaan needs to also vocalise that he wants to leave for his own sanity outside of the fact that it also helps with his situation with Abhira! But Abhira I don't think is going to get any reality check.. and if she's supposedly the one with a more practical approach, she should find it in her to break the fear mirage in her head and see some truth past it.. KP's acceptance aside, what will their lives in PH look like, especially now that she knows Ruhi isn't here with best intentions? I really hope she asks herself that question in good time! Fingers crossed

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

Well that's the hope.. Armaan didn't reach this by thinking alone though.. he needed to be told by Rohit in as many words.. Abhira has heard now from enough people and even today from Vidya that KP is not going to agree.. But I'm with you that Armaan needs to also vocalise that he wants to leave for his own sanity outside of the fact that it also helps with his situation with Abhira! But Abhira I don't think is going to get any reality check.. and if she's supposedly the one with a more practical approach, she should find it in her to break the fear mirage in her head and see some truth past it.. KP's acceptance aside, what will their lives in PH look like, especially now that she knows Ruhi isn't here with best intentions? I really hope she asks herself that question in good time! Fingers crossed

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

Abhira’s desire for Kaveri’s approval is inversely proportional to her efforts to stay out of issues that are likely to rile the matriarch up..even assuming Kaveri accepts her atp, this will never turn into an abiding relationship because they are mismatched personalities..there was this old film called Khubsoorat with Rekha ..where she challenges the matriarch’s ways ..she too encourages the other family members to pursue their interests etc ..but at no point do you see her being rude or provocative in her behaviour …Abhira, in all this time, has done pretty much everything to piss Kaveri off ..I am not discounting all the good things Abhira has done ..but to counterbalance those, she’s done things like that swag se swagat, the shikanji scene etc which cannot termed as anything short of deliberately provocative …insisting on being treated with respect is one thing and making a spectacle out of it solely for the purpose of humiliating the opponent, knowing that they are at your mercy, is another …swag se swagat was nothing short of that and she only ended up getting humiliated in less than two or three days ..so what was the point of those five or ten minutes of glory ? No one is suggesting Abhira should be meek or a doormat ..everything doesn’t have to be extreme and I think Abhira needs to understand that ..where was the need to go and tell Kaveri she would shake the foundations of her firm ..a simple I’ll prove you wrong Ma’am or even I’ll make you eat your hat would’ve been okay ..now which family would be comfortable with their prospective Bahu saying that she’ll unsettle their firm …Abhira doesn’t think before she talks and she doesn’t acknowledge the possible impact the person she’s speaking to is likely to have on her life ..Kaveri doesn’t care whether Abhira marries Armaan..in fact she actively doesn’t want it ..so right now, Abhira is at Kaveri’s mercy if she wants her approval ..going forward, if they’re going to live in that house, she will continue to be at her mercy …forget Armaan, is Abhira even capable of accepting to live like that ..where she will have to bend to Kaveri on several occasions ..otherwise the home will become a battlefield and Armaan and she will still get into conflicts ..so this is not about whether they live with the Poddars or outside ..if Armaan is going to blame her for separating him from his family, he will likely blame her for causing conflict within the family too ..in the past too, he’s begged her not to get involved in other people’s affairs but as Abhira has stated, it is not in her resume to watch what she believes to be wrong unfolding ..like in the Charu case ..her judgment might be right on occasion but it could also be wrong on occasion ..she is not God ..

I really feel Abhira now needs to introspect.. and also stop making Armaan’s decision to leave just about herself ..she has seen that man putting up with shit and now, finally he wants to leave in his own interests and that of the family ..what needs to happen is a frank discussion on the pros and cons of the decision and how they would be able to handle the consequences as a couple going forward ..

Also one cannot impose their decision on the other ..Armaan has to respect Abhira’s choices and vice versa ..she cannot say things like she won’t let him do what he wishes to ..unless he’s planning a criminal activity that is ..if a man were to say the same thing, he’d be called a red flag ..it’s a good thing that women are not assigned flags lol

To me, despite all the syrupy sweet dialogues, the way ahead seems lined with stumbling blocks …leaving the family and living independently would be the most sensible choice to make at this point at least !

Let us please not bring Ruhi into this conversation..she’s inconsequential ..so also are Kaveri’s character flaws to this conversation ..because Abhira wants her and not the other way round !

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Take a bow lady ! Her fears & concerns are only in words. In actions it's a completely different story. And yeah dreams are another dimension 🤣