Originally posted by: meghumonu
I can relate with lines of Pallavi!! She was all alone even with Deshmukh family members around her!! She was not their daughter but daughter in law!! Except Aayi aka Sharda and Milind aka Kaka no one cared about her!! She became a widow only a day after marriage and also at such a young age of 22. She confessed she faced harassment and taunts for being a widow and people tried to take advantage of her being a widow!! But Raghav was different!! He never tried to S%xually harass her or saw her with lust !! He saw her as an opponent to be beaten and did everything to ensure that!! For her it was a big thing as in society widow girls/women are automatically seen as unlucky or seen as easy woman or available by perverts and not taken seriously!! Raghav took her seriously for the first time in 2 years and challenged her and accepted her as an equal in some way!! This own her over!! She was looking more out for respect than love at that moment in life from someone who she wanted to spend her life with and enter Raghav who gave her exactly that!! His personality attracted her sub consciously and after that when she got attracted to him physically she even grew bolder and never even try to hid her feelings!! Definitely a bold and different representation of widow/divorced girls whose approach towards love is same like any normal girl!! Pallavi was sure from the beginning she wanted Raghav in some way without a doubt but it was Raghav whose attraction and want for Pallavi was in constant conflict with his ego and paranoia. Well Raghav is truly more complex and much well written than Pallavi!!
Anyway this are my views feel free to debate or contradict!!
Bold: I don’t know what makes you say this…but I don’t think initially she wanted him in anyway…after the way he defamed her, the only emotion she had for him was disgust…
Raghav daring and challenging her was more of satisfying his ego, whereas for Pallavi accepting his challenge and daring him back was more for survival…in this phase both felt a bit physically attracted to each other and helped out each other in few occasion…
She surely fell for him only in the Hyderabad track…What she meant by him making her feel special or wanted was most probably in the Hyderabad track, where he apologizes and cares for her, stops her from going to kolapur and asks her to give him a chance to set right everything and sincerely tries to change himself to please and make her happy…
A man changes himself only out of the love for his woman…probably why she fell for him too.
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