Imlie Written Updates and Episode Discussions 25 Nov 2021 - Page 20

Originally posted by: aarti1234

Thank you so much.. You have put every thing literally everything I have been asking and getting answers as

1.) Lihaaz

2.) bache ki amma

3.) guilt of 2 suicides

4.) weak mind

5.) 7 saal ka rishta

6.) disgusted looks..

Even if I accept all these reasons they are not valid for AC. Why no bashing AC, why not standing for Imlie's honor when AC calls her naukrani, murderer..

The reason I got for this is that if he bashes AC, Malini would be upset and Malini can't be upset because

1.) Lihaaz

2.) bache ki amma

3.) guilt of 2 suicides

4.) weak mind

5.) 7 saal ka rishta

6.) disgusted looks..

When will he do anything literally anything, even if for token, to break this circle. He is asking Imlie to live life with him in whatever window he can spare of above reasons. How is that any kind of commitment, care, love, relation, any damn thing towards Imlie. People say Malini doesn't matter to him, if she doesn't matter to him how is going out of his way, putting his relation with Imlie at stake, to keep Malini in good moods.

you cracked me up there aratiya ji🤣🤣🤣 with the copy paste

Ye sab chodo, hypothetically, how many of the ladies who are supporting Adi and "understanding" him would do the same if they were in Imlie's place now?

Not to offend anyone but I'm curious, I've read somewhere that she shouldn't have left him, would anyone stay if they were in her place? I mean imlie is super human for a reason but lagta hain there are real people with super humanity?

Originally posted by: Chintapandu

Ye sab chodo, hypothetically, how many of the ladies who are supporting Adi and "understanding" him would do the same if they were in Imlie's place now?

Not to offend anyone but I'm curious, I've read somewhere that she shouldn't have left him, would anyone stay if they were in her place? I mean imlie is super human for a reason but lagta hain there are real people with super humanity?

hahahaha totally agree. You don’t abandon your husband and marriage at the first sign of trouble. But this was like a whirlpool and she was left with no choice other than to leave.

Originally posted by: Chintapandu

Ye sab chodo, hypothetically, how many of the ladies who are supporting Adi and "understanding" him would do the same if they were in Imlie's place now?

Not to offend anyone but I'm curious, I've read somewhere that she shouldn't have left him, would anyone stay if they were in her place? I mean imlie is super human for a reason but lagta hain there are real people with super humanity?

Never in a million years I would ever want Imlie to stay in that place(atleast not until he repents for his actions and actually do something about the situation)I agree to Adi ji's duty as a father but why is it compromising his duties as a husband?

Both Imlie and Adi ji have prioritised other people before their rishta. Imlie with her family and Adi with now preggo version MC and Bacha. In all this situation I don't remember Imlie ever failing to be a wife then why Adi gets leeway because of Bacha and maa. Regardless of the situation, he should have been able to balance both his relationships of being a father and a husband.

I don't know why people are saying that Imlie shouldn't have left because from where I am seeing she did everything in her power to save her relationship. Even after knowing that her husband was s*xually assaulted( being the only one to know about the assualt) She was ready to move on, give in and start fresh( KC morning). Like Adi ji has always asked her to but did Adi himself do it?

Again, he said to zone out the noise of MC but could he control himself from going after MC when he got to know his bacha was in danger?

According to me, 2 people make a relationship work. They are the ones who decide the rules of the relationship and how far one is ready to make compromises. It is the 2 of them who decides whether to move on or to stay, be it getting over cheating, lying or deceiving one another. If I can forgive my partner for him cheating on me does not mean That some other woman should do the same. That is why relationships are different for everyone. If one partner is screaming that she is not comfortable, why does the partner have to force it on him/her. Imlie reached to her threshold of compromises but how was it right of Adi to expect her to "adjust" With the situation any further than she already did. It has always been if one is not comfortable( to an extent that nothing can be done) then the other obliges. That is just basic respect given by two people in any relationship, whatever the situation is.

Bohot zada bol diya ye toh☺️

Sorry ji if anybody got offended, just my POV

Red1: I see all of that as SM ka raasta🤣🤣🤣

but Malini directly and actively getting involved in making their relationship would have actually made them burdened by her ehsaan.

Red2: He did come out of it once( literally) but us time superwomaniya was with him. Is baar I am expecting him to come out of his own( bolte hue bhi sharam aa rahi hai😂😂😂)

Adi groveling is the best part of him. Bas gidgidate rahe and I can watch that till the end of the series( such a sadist I am😂)

Originally posted by: book.worm

hahahaha totally agree. You don’t abandon your husband and marriage at the first sign of trouble. But this was like a whirlpool and she was left with no choice other than to leave.

And she didn't leave forever either, she's waiting for him to realise his mistakes.What more can she do?

Originally posted by: Colormenow

Red1: I see all of that as SM ka raasta🤣🤣🤣

but Malini directly and actively getting involved in making their relationship would have actually made them burdened by her ehsaan.

Red2: He did come out of it once( literally) but us time superwomaniya was with him. Is baar I am expecting him to come out of his own( bolte hue bhi sharam aa rahi hai😂😂😂)

Adi groveling is the best part of him. Bas gidgidate rahe and I can watch that till the end of the series( such a sadist I am😂)

hahahahaha okay then let’s agree that SM used other people to influence Adilie🤣

LMAO this time he will definitely come out as Aryan is loitering around his superwomaniya🤣

After all he has 7 years experience in groveling 🤣

Originally posted by: Chintapandu

And she didn't leave forever either, she's waiting for him to realise his mistakes.What more can she do?

hahahah she is telling everyone except Adi that she will go back the moment he accepts the truth. The only person who doesn’t know that is Adi, good thing he doesn’t know otherwise Banda would go back to his overconfident self😆

Everything 🔴: same page book ji🤗

🔴2: I give that in for argument's sake since people conveniently forget that it was because of Adi that she got closer to Family before him. She freaking gave up on her self respect the day she got married to him until recently. Adi never had to, He conveniently got married to MC because his self respect was "bruised"

Even after all of this she did accept him as her husband and kept him above all. Whenever she had to make a choice, she always choose Adi over anything and any one.( not gonna add Sk, have a different take on him) while fulfilling all her responsibilities as a wife.

I hate it everytime when he says that when no one was with Imlie I was standing with her … so did you do a favor she was in this situation all bcoz of you … you were selfish to not let her go she would had been peaceful she would had come to terms with her life but it was you who did let her forget and move on … the way he talks is as if he has done a big favor to her 🤦🏽‍♀️ I hate tht attitude!