Originally posted by: Apsvenky
Thank you so much for this. I assumed I was the only one who felt that today. While I know a lot of his dialogues were both hypocritical and extremely self centred when you see it from and outside perspective, but my point is very simple - it is honestly for me much more realistic than anything else I have seen this week. Him finally bursting out his feelings and saying what he actually felt, rather than bottling it inside made me connect to him today more than I had in the past few days. I am not defending the guy, as he does not need it. He is being true to himself - he will show this anger in this way in front of anyone who he feels he has the right to flare up on - be it his own family or Imlie. While I would've wanted this to be more private, I can still give him a pass in the sense that sometimes when your mental state is such that you do not know how else to deal with your feelings, you will lash out at the one person you assume may have contributed to your current state. Adi still feels that Imlie fighting is more detrimental for everyone rather than getting the justice that Imlie assumes she is. Again here Imlie also is facing the consequences of her actions - she is the David who has taken on the Goliath which is AC and MC, and is facing the repurcussions of that, which we knew will happen. Does that mean she will give up - absolutely not. That is why for every Adi and family blasting at her, we have an NN and Sundar to remind her why she took on this fight.
While I am hoping that we get some good conversations tomorrow with Adilie, one thing I am sure of - they will come out of this stronger only. Adi right now is only seeing what is making him comfortable to see and deal with. When he gets to full picture, we hopefully should get the repeat of him on his knees and apologizing to Imlie like we last saw in PD3. See that is the khasiyat of Adi - the day he realises his mistake, he will never hesitate before going on his knees and apologizing to Imlie - he will never let his ego come in between their relationship. Till then his blinders will be on and we will have to tolerate this side of him as well.
Thank you Aps ji ❤️
Bold: Exactly, realism is on point here. every human does that, right? If I were Adi, I'd uttered much more hurting words than those he did. Just because we hold him to higher standards, we are not able to accept his actions. Otherwise, he was human in his actions.
Blue: Is this not why we love him? He is a much better human compared to most of the men/women out there. Going on one's knees and apologizing is not an easy thing to do. And he does that the very moment he realizes his mistake! How humble of him.
And I want to remind myself and everyone that these are his BHOOLS and not his PAAPS and yes these are big big bhools for which he is suffering already and will continue to do in the future.
Like Imlie said, "bhool uu hoth hai joan anjaane ma ho.. jaanke siraf paap hoth hai"
We have a "but" for his every action because they are bhools done in anjaane but there can never be a "but" for any paap. The moment we don't have a "but" in defense of Adi anymore, his character is truly dead.
All this aside, I still want to maaro 1000 konis on his peet for his overconfidence. Behudda kahinka🤬
Edited by Chintapandu - 4 years ago