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Originally posted by: wendy25

Absolutely...

And it has not even been 20 days since she came out from house without msk baggage..In her tight schedule, Bagga,Vikas and even tony themselves came to meet her, hasn't got to spend time with her family and friends,hasn't given single IV and here BB idiots expect her to leave everything and contact them, why? Coz they have been so nice to her? If anyone, i feel it would be vishal and madhurima she would like to meet rather than them.

They don’t want to speak to her they want to share her moment in the sun. Only three people benefitted from BB Asim, Sid and Sana... baaki do we footage nahi milegi cuz it is an accepted fact by everyone that Sid is private and Asim is not open...bachi Sana... so let’s talk to her, about her... anything so that it makes news.

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

Few days back I wrote certain things about sana and was called out for that here. And now everyone seems to be discussing the same.

I am watching bb again and although its a done story but it reflected the nature of contestants which holds true even today .

I have two aspects of sana's personality and nature which have me thinking deeply .

1) She has a very very intense obstinate streak in her where she thinks that only her pov is right. And most of the times doesnt even listen to good advice ,not even from sid. That is why sid stopped interfering between her and paras.

As uma said ,she learns the hard way only. MSK is a recent example.

She has always maintained that sidharth mere se ladai karta hai. When fact was he was his softest self with her initially. But was pushed to a point where he just lost control. Salman even commented on this that she doesnt understand that what if sid did the same.

She needs to work on this. She needs to understand and accept that she needs to listen to people who care for her.

2) she lacks consistency of thought. And so its difficult for the other person to understand her. She will have a ugly fight with someone ,you as a freind take a stand for her ,and in next 30 minutes she would be giving hifi to that very person and you would be left high and dry.

She needs to work on this. She needs to give time to every emotion and reaction. She needs to cultivate a consistency of thought and action so that people around her can act accordingly.

Being highly impulsive is not a trait that goes well in a industry where networking plays a major role.

And again I will say this is my analysis of her as a person having observed her in bigboss . Have tried to avoid qouting incidents from bb as examples , but analysis can only be done based on BB13 as that is all that we have and it was a reality show and they were all real in there.

I agree that being a reality show what we saw was a slice of their personality but the qualities you pointed out worked in her favour as well...her stubbornness differentiated her hence she was able to carve a loyal fandom for herself... she did not get lost in the crowd like other women there. Secondly her letting go of things was most helpful for Sid as she could move on from arguments quickly. If she stood up to everyone who did her wrong she would not have survived to the end. People are different they respond to situations differently, in this season Sid had the ugliest fights but tries to maintain cordial ness in the end. Sana has no major fights and also did the same.... but in the end post BB they both have cut off from others. So every quality has its downside and upside...it all depends on the situation and who is at the receiving end.

Originally posted by: wendy25

Absolutely...

And it has not even been 20 days since she came out from house without msk baggage..In her tight schedule, Bagga,Vikas and even tony themselves came to meet her, hasn't got to spend time with her family and friends,hasn't given single IV and here BB idiots expect her to leave everything and contact them, why? Coz they have been so nice to her? If anyone, i feel it would be vishal and madhurima she would like to meet rather than them.

why Vishal can you pls explain? In that case Sid should meet Paras and Mahira right? Why is it ok for her to meet Vishal who was not in good terms with Sid and said everything possible even outside, Sana should meet and Sid shouldn’t meet anyone? They weren’t bad to him, they were bad to Sana! This is being hypocritical!
Bagga isn’t a star and she wanted to be in touch with her so she came to meet her! Vikas we all know the reason!
tony came for work and not on personal terms

Originally posted by: Uma2010

We do? 🤔 I am having a gender identity crisis 😳

I also was left thinking...skipping head wash is only what I am aware of.

And on another note I want to thank you for the body language link you shared...it was an interesting read. Any good book you recommend on this subject?

@ Meenakshi ji. Completely agree. She needs to work on that. Cos it is very confusing.

The vishal madhurima one is one gr8bexample. She was so against vishal during the fight. In wkw ,she blasted vishal in front of Salman.

And voila next day everything is good. So ye actually Samajh je baahar jaaya hai.

I agree one shld not permanent keep grudges. But with sana ,it happens very fast.

Sid mentioned once, she gets affected by only those who r close. And that's why it was with only sid that the jhagda got intense.

For everyone else ,usse koi kuch bhi kehta . Wo jaldi bhool jaati ,let go kar deti hai

The oil task in connection week is another example. Asim ne uske baare mein galat bola, bill saara phat gaya sid pe🤣

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

why Vishal can you pls explain? In that case Sid should meet Paras and Mahira right? Why is it ok for her to meet Vishal who was not in good terms with Sid and said everything possible even outside, Sana should meet and Sid shouldn’t meet anyone? They weren’t bad to him, they were bad to Sana! This is being hypocritical!
Bagga isn’t a star and she wanted to be in touch with her so she came to meet her! Vikas we all know the reason!
tony came for work and not on personal terms

Yes I am being hypocritical!!

Are you comparing paras with Vishal? Vishal just gave his opinion.. nothing wrong in that, the way bhau just gave his opinion as you said. He didnt conspired the way paras-mahira did right?

And i. All his lives Vishal spoke highly of sid, while paras spewed Sh*t. Paras has disgraced Sana to the levels, during bb, during msk, post msk..While Vishal never disrespected Sidharth outside but paras did.

Lets chill Ashima! I can understand right now you are upset with sana but relax...

Originally posted by: jayasharma25

I agree that being a reality show what we saw was a slice of their personality but the qualities you pointed out worked in her favour as well...her stubbornness differentiated her hence she was able to carve a loyal fandom for herself... she did not get lost in the crowd like other women there. Secondly her letting go of things was most helpful for Sid as she could move on from arguments quickly. If she stood up to everyone who did her wrong she would not have survived to the end. People are different they respond to situations differently, in this season Sid had the ugliest fights but tries to maintain cordial ness in the end. Sana has no major fights and also did the same.... but in the end post BB they both have cut off from others. So every quality has its downside and upside...it all depends on the situation and who is at the receiving end.

I have always said that forgiving and forgetting is important . After every bitter experience you should forgive and forget the other person BUT you should also learn from the experience.

If you dont learn and just keep repeating the same mistake ,you are at fault.

Sana forgiving is fine but sana also needs to remember what that incident taught her.

Originally posted by: wendy25

Yes I am being hypocritical!!

Are you comparing paras with Vishal? Vishal just gave his opinion.. nothing wrong in that, the way bhau just gave his opinion as you said. He didnt conspired the way paras-mahira did right?

And i. All his lives Vishal spoke highly of sid, while paras spewed Sh*t. Paras has disgraced Sana to the levels, during bb, during msk, post msk..While Vishal never disrespected Sidharth outside but paras did.

Lets chill Ashima! I can understand right now you are upset with sana but relax...

honestly it’s got nothing do with Sana so don’t think I m giving opinion based on that! But yes I am comparing Paras and Vishal as Vishal has said lot of stuffs about Sid too! He instigated Sana against Sid too! I haven’t forgotten what Vishal has done! Maybe Vishal must have done 30% less than what Paras did! But it doesn’t make him a saint and Vishal didn’t give opinion about Sid inside the house, he made lots of nasty comments even though he was friends with Sid for a month, Paras was always like that, still didn’t Sana be good to him until sid didn’t become extremely close to him? What made Sana go against Paras, can you pls tell me!

And my mood has got nothing to do with my opinions and it doesn’t change as per my moods! I still have problems with Sana’s lot of behaviour if I have to take BB into consideration!

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

why Vishal can you pls explain? In that case Sid should meet Paras and Mahira right? Why is it ok for her to meet Vishal who was not in good terms with Sid and said everything possible even outside, Sana should meet and Sid shouldn’t meet anyone? They weren’t bad to him, they were bad to Sana! This is being hypocritical!
Bagga isn’t a star and she wanted to be in touch with her so she came to meet her! Vikas we all know the reason!
tony came for work and not on personal terms

You are right, BB should be left behind especially in this time of Corona virus why carry any grudge...if Sid feels that Pahira are his good friends he should meet them for sure. The main word is “ If”....maybe Sid is not meeting them for his own reasons and not due to Sana. We are not privy to his thoughts. Also not only Sana but Sids mom also likes Vishal...so just maybe if they do meet outside they can rekindle the friendship.

Originally posted by: jayasharma25

You are right, BB should be left behind especially in this time of Corona virus why carry any grudge...if Sid feels that Pahira are his good friends he should meet them for sure. The main word is “ If”....maybe Sid is not meeting them for his own reasons and not due to Sana. We are not privy to his thoughts. Also not only Sana but Sids mom also likes Vishal...so just maybe if they do meet outside they can rekindle the friendship.

sid’s mom liked Mahira too! So should Mahira not be in good terms with Sid then? Sid mom invited Vishal out of courtesy doesn’t make his mom like them! Let’s not make one invitation to be likes of people!