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Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

ohh ohh meri sr cheli 🤗🤗 *diya gives a tight jhappi*

went out with mom yaar got a bit late came back now only dear... solly 😳🤗🤗

ISS moment pe I need my pal more😃😆

Koi Aachi spoiler kabhi bhi as Sakti hai😃😆

Oh.. Ok ok🤗 hope you had a nice time😃

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

ISS moment pe I need my pal more😃😆

Koi Aachi spoiler kabhi bhi as Sakti hai😃😆

Oh.. Ok ok🤗 hope you had a nice time😃

cool 🤗

sorry yaar again went offline... 😆

spoilerrrrr ahhh 😆 we can have speculation spoilerrrrrrr argggg makers love to test our patience 😆

haan dear had a good running behind mom from one shop to another 😆🤣 i hate shopping yaar.. 😆

Hi guys!

Can anyone please sum up whats been happening in the show these days? I really don't get the time to watch MishNish shaadi drama!

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

@bold: haha ofcourse angry chorni will be ready. But remember we saw Ajeeb rajvansh is also ready to make the move (monday's epi), but you're right Abir will feel exhausted after loong day; fight with nish, formula 1 car race, accident, floating in pond, saved by sadhu, hospital again, run to mandhir? then somehow shaadi? UFF that's a BIG day alright #Pheww

kahin woh vali raat mein soh na jaaye

Haha magical pearls that change origin one of them is lying obviously Aus ya london, are the pearls real reliable?

haaa i'm gonna sleep now and this post ufff i'm imagining what will mishbir doo on their night n what song will be used when they actually do IT

@bold - omg now i'm more interested to know what will happen at night who will sleep first mishti too will be exhausted first haldi, then twice dress change, then the choda rasam, then confrontation with bm then running in rajkot road in bridal wear aww that more exhausting she needs extra energy to carry her costume n then hospital then mandir uff very tiring day for mishbir 😭

haha varsha is lying maybe as nannu is from london he might find if the pearls are real naa so she changed the destination 🤣

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Very true they actually havent moved an inch regarding their relationship... 😆 they are more concentrating on other issue that their own relationship has become secondary... kuhu said preleap to kunal to give a chance to their relationship but they have grown as individual character but not yet as couple.. they need to star a fresh n start talking about themselves 😆

that scene actually she worried about abir missing and then thought about nannu too then she turned to gods idol i think she left it to god... and more over what can she do she needs to handle this shaadi also and there kunal is searching abir she knew that if she gets any info she will inform him other than that she cant do anything... she let everything to god and handling the matter at hand now she cant even roam around in tensed face infront of family, so she is concentrating on shaadi... 😆 she is not mishti to try and help solve a problem.. 😆 she just does help when asked n needed..

yes i have also grown to love their bond.. the keep it separate is so inspiring yaar now i want to see how they take forward their bond after kuku divorce comes up and also mishbir shaadi..

Diyaaaa🤣🤣🤣 this cracked me up 🤣

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

A very meaningful post/parallel👍🏼

https://twitter.com/jeelezaraa/status/1222392124345208832

To all of us wondering what the significance of the shower scene was...here is a small answer🤗

This clearly shows Mishti's childhood wounds are no where near to being healed. She is STILL feeling obliged to care and obey for Mah family, as a return of favour for adopting her.

These two quotes from Abir sum up perfectly Mishti now:

"“iss ladki ke zakhm itni jaldi nahi bharenge”

"Usko pyar aur ehsaan ke farak samaj nahi aayi hai"

- Abir's pyar and presence is the only healing treatment for Mishti and her deep deep childhood wounds. Like Mishti has repeatedly said, Abir with his pyar, has taught her regain faith and trust in pyar and helped Mishti love herself and find her own strength to fight for her right.

-Even when mishbir we're together, we saw Mishti's insecurity and childhood wounds still surface during Baba track (she was scared Abir would leave her when he would find out she lied and Baba's truth). Despite Abir's constant repetition on how much he trusts her, Mishti still had that inner fear - which shows how deep those past wounds are “iss ladki ke zakhm itni jaldi nahi bharenge”

-I'm kinda glad the writers haven't neglected this issue. That Mishti is still trying to learn the difference between pyar and ehsaan. Although she does truly care and love the mah family...when it comes to crisis situations and any stressful family dynamics, she automatically feels she doesn't have the right to upset BM and BP, she loses her fierce bold angry chorni voice because she believes she still feels inferior in the family. The strong voice and limited confidence she had pre-leap was motivated by Abir, through courtship and their love story - was all stolen and lost as soon as Abir broke the rishta off. Mishti suddenly lost all her faith, confidence and trust in herself. Which is why when Abir finally revealed the reason of break up recently, Mishti's first reaction was "main sahi thi." That doubt, fear and lack of confidence she had in herself was brought back as soon as she realised she had been right all this time - Abir still loves her. The teenage young mishti, needed that assurance that she had finally found the right person to trust and love unconditionally.❤️

-Even if BP always supported and defended mishti (pre-leap), there was always constant voices (jas, kuhu) in the house that always reminded Mish of her 'place' - as an outsider, paraayi etc This is exactly why she constantly feels the need to apologise, and proof herself to members of mah family that she is worth keeping. She still has the fear they will disown her.

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As Cool pointed earlier today... given all the things above, Mishti has to be extremely courageous to run away from the shaadi, it takes immense strength and faith in Abir's love to turn away from her family...and obey her own matnra "Family se bada love"❤️👏 Hats off Mishtu🤗

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Yikes! kya hua mujhe aaj?😲

I'm soo sorry everyone for my non-stop looong posts spam today #maafi

Looks like mishbir shaadi mood is waking up my inner writing ghost😆

If you did read all this...I thank you from the bottom of my heart🤗

uff Nandu where were you all this time... 👏👏 i so loved reading this post yaar, i fell in love with mishbir more reading each of your post.. 👏👏🤗🤗 come on bring it on more of such post ok dear 🤗

ok coming to mishti that two lines you mentioned just struck a chord in my heart yaar.. the mishti we knew is lost bcoz abir was lost from her life.. you explained this beautifully yaar.. 👏

Actually Mishti even though with her trust issues like in baba track she feels n shows her complete haq on abir only... she is more dependent on him as she feels only him as her own, her only family even thought there are family but he is the only person she is herself, she can show all her emotions like abir said "uska ghussa, pyaar, dard sab kuch sirf mere liye hai"... he is the only one she never felt obliged, they can fight, fall apart but can never be apart... they are lost without each other... ❤️

just my opinion... In our life our life partner is the only person who is our actual apna we have to leave one or other relations, friends even parents one day, even our kids will have a little gap after they grow up and start living their life but life partner is the only one who comes with you till the end of your life, the only person who is a permanent part of our life, others will be there but they are the only person we live with for the longest time in our entire life.. 😳

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

ohh this perfectly fits for everyone yaar... 😆 when will this get fulfilled or wil it ever be fulfilled is still a question 😆

It will happen when the show is about to end 😆

Arey AJ ke episode me ladka bakayada sleeping beauty ki Tarah pada tha white me...but Chaaaa mishti bhaagi b uski or prince ki Tarah, bas true loves kiss reh gayi

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Diyaaaa🤣🤣🤣 this cracked me up 🤣

Uru thats true yaar 🤣🤣 kuhu is like that she never tries to solve any problem 🤣 if you need help come to me else go i've lot of #mommy work i mean varsha of flowers work 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Meen 🤗

yaar sachi i was asking about you last week we are not in sync yaar its been days since we talked 😭

tomorrow pakka i'll be there full day we will talk ok 😃

aaj mom is calling yaar cant be online after this... she is very strict in my sleep schedule 😆

It's ok..I understand..sleep schedule should be correct yaar