Ungrateful Minnie - Page 2

One thing we can’t do is say that someone is overvictimising themselves. Everyone deals with things differently based on their own mental state (and we know she has had depressive episodes in the past). We can’t judge everyone by the same standards because everyone is different and processes things differently. There’s no right or wrong in the way a person feels, it’s THEIR reality. I will give you an eg.: the death of a parent/spouse or child- one person can get over it and another person could turn to drugs/alcohol or commit suicide. No two people are the same and the first mistake we make is to judge. It may not be a big deal for a parent forgetting a bday for 1 kid but for another it could be the worse thing ever. There’s no right or wrong as ppl don’t choose to feel how they do, it just happens

It’s easy to say be grateful, after all she had food to eat, clothes and a roof over her head but considering the relationship she had with her mother plus her own personal experiences (also depression), it’s not too much for her to expect more from her mother. Remember they always said “it’s you and I together against the world” and then suddenly this changed

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

She said Babes made her feel abondended can you tell when did this happen ? & about CD incident HS apologised to her

Well it is not about ki HS ne uspe shak kiya or fir proof milte hi maafi mangi

Well her hope broke due to HS dialogue

Socha tha father banuga tera

Means jo Vo itna khush ho rahi thi ki they gonna live as father mother and daughter

Vo nai hoga

Or Hanuman uncle to shadi se pehle bhi the kya change hua

Well everyone knows ki dono ke dil ki baat end tak unkahi reh gai what they wanted

But ye hi to mini ke man me Tees reh gai n

She is not over victimising herself. Being called a mistress when coming from a broken family is going hurt especially . Being called like father like daughter in a hateful way is going to hurt (when coming from ur mother). Have babita ever apologised for the hurtful comments she made which is going to scar her daughter for life. When she was so eager for a complete family hanuman despite knowing mini well accused her of the CD drama. Yes he apologised and was feeling guilty but this had made their relationship very awkward from then. Its easy to say forget it but trauma doesn't go away easily. These are just 2 instances where they hurt mini mentally

Originally posted by: deefy89

One thing we can’t do is say that someone is overvictimising themselves. Everyone deals with things differently based on their own mental state (and we know she has had depressive episodes in the past). We can’t judge everyone by the same standards because everyone is different and processes things differently. There’s no right or wrong in the way a person feels, it’s THEIR reality. I will give you an eg.: the death of a parent/spouse or child- one person can get over it and another person could turn to drugs/alcohol or commit suicide. No two people are the same and the first mistake we make is to judge. It may not be a big deal for a parent forgetting a bday for 1 kid but for another it could be the worse thing ever. There’s no right or wrong as ppl don’t choose to feel how they do, it just happens

It’s easy to say be grateful, after all she had food to eat, clothes and a roof over her head but considering the relationship she had with her mother plus her own personal experiences (also depression), it’s not too much for her to expect more from her mother. Remember they always said “it’s you and I together against the world” and then suddenly this changed

Very well said! 👏

To show her hurt & she always is right KK completly degraded Babes & HS character after marriage which most of us have seen & also V all know how the initial 150 episodes was so well written. If KK wants theycan show many sweet incidents which she shared with th Babes & HS. In which family there are no misunderstandings between teenagers & parents ? If KK wanted they could hv sorted in a positive way but No.. Probably they want to go in a typical ITV soap whete the lead sufferings never end & handles everything single handedly.

Originally posted by: Sushdvj

Well I watched season 1

So whatever she said I saw that in seson 1

She waited for ashok her dad and her hope falls

She wanted happy family after marriage naa from that cd incident her that hope also broke naa and she mentioned already in her breakdown in front of micky and preet.

And she left for Australia with bitterness with babes.

Why I am not finding force.

P.s. well if people already have hate for writer

And character vo kuch bhi dikhaye us character ke liye kabhi genuine nai lagega

The reason people don't find it genuine is because they made babita and HS take U-turn on so many things. Babita in Holi track said that Minnie can't live with her forever and that Minnie will have her own life. Later on she took a U-turn on that. She also repeatedly asked Minnie to concentrate on studies in earlier episodes, later on U-turn on that as well. She also one said that she wanted to make Patiala babes a brand- U-turn on that as well. There are many more examples. And Minnie Hanuman had an amazing rapport, somehow never recovered after CD scandal.

These are gross inconsistencies in storyline. Every time babita, and sometimes Hanuman created new ruckus I was screaming WHY!!! cause it made no sense. In later episodes it was very much like Ekta Kapoor shows where super nice people become villains overnight .It's hard to like writers when they make a character do anything and everything- it suggests that they don't have a proper character in mind while writing for a story. The character is not driving a story, instead they're twisting the character to fit a storyline.

And currently writers are not doing any justice to Minnie either.

Lol. Why is everyone surprised at Poor hard done by Mini blaming Babita.

Its this RS fascination with Poor Mini that spoiled the whole show from 170 episodes onwards.

Its always been Poor Mini who is right and everyone is wrong. She lied and hid things from her Babes so many times and was very good at it. So all this drama is no surprise at all.

Poor Babita and HS were butchered so much before and now after there deaths as well, as this needed now for S2 to work otherwise how can they justify how poor Mini was let down by her loved ones.

But hang on a minute this is a one way street only to glorify and justify poor Mini and her trauma.

Forget others who have to listen to this great wise old Mini.

Now just waiting for Arya and Neil to be butchered to glorify Poor Mini the typical RS and KK way.

Anyone who has watched PB will know that the writers and RS have lost the plot and think that whatever nonsense that Poor Mini is speaking about Babita is pure crap and nonsense.

Poor Mini is one ungrateful Daughter and a disgusting Child to boot.

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

The reason people don't find it genuine is because they made babita and HS take U-turn on so many things. Babita in Holi track said that Minnie can't live with her forever and that Minnie will have her own life. Later on she took a U-turn on that. She also repeatedly asked Minnie to concentrate on studies in earlier episodes, later on U-turn on that as well. She also one said that she wanted to make Patiala babes a brand- U-turn on that as well. There are many more examples. And Minnie Hanuman had an amazing rapport, somehow never recovered after CD scandal.

These are gross inconsistencies in storyline. Every time babita, and sometimes Hanuman created new ruckus I was screaming WHY!!! cause it made no sense. In later episodes it was very much like Ekta Kapoor shows where super nice people become villains overnight .It's hard to like writers when they make a character do anything and everything- it suggests that they don't have a proper character in mind while writing for a story. The character is not driving a story, instead they're twisting the character to fit a storyline.

And currently writers are not doing any justice to Minnie either.

Agree with you

And some people in forum are sensible to understand this also but they are limited to hanuman and Babita's character

Agar Hunuman or babita ke character ne Uturn liya to writer ki galti

Kon un dono character ko galat bol raha

But agar mini kuch kare to vo bus us character ki galti

Kyoki vo mahan vo Duniya ki sabse dukhi insaan h

unmarried gopi bahu h

Vo ungrateful h

Vo over victimize karti h

Agar usne bola lovely dil ki buri nai h to vo uski galti h

To her Chij vo character ki galti or fault h 👏

Yaa to har Chij ke liye writer hi Jimedaar h

Yaa fir do character ke liye writer or ek character ke liye Vo character khud Jimedaar h

Vahi to mene bola agar pehle se hi writer ke liye hate h to logic hi kyo dhundh rahe ho

Or character u turn to fir

Ashok ka bhi hua

Meeta ka bhi hua

Saroj ka bhi hua

Kammo ka bhi hua

Lovely ka bhi unpredictable nature tha

So yaa to jo dikhaya usme writer ko Blaim karo sabke liye or man me gali do agar aati h

Kyoki mujhe nai aati

Nai lekin hum to writer jaisa formula apply karenge

Agar unhone character ko mahan dikhaya to hum writer ko nai us character ko blaim karenge waah or us character ko hate karenge vo bhi villian se jyada

🤪

Kitna logical h ye sab

Originally posted by: Sushdvj

Agar Hunuman or babita ke character ne Uturn liya to writer ki galti

Kon un dono character ko galat bol raha

But agar mini kuch kare to vo bus us character ki galti

Kyoki vo mahan vo Duniya ki sabse dukhi insaan h

unmarried gopi bahu h

Vo ungrateful h

Vo over victimize karti h

Agar usne bola lovely dil ki buri nai h to vo uski galti h

To her Chij vo character ki galti or fault h 👏

Yaa to har Chij ke liye writer hi Jimedaar h

Yaa fir do character ke liye writer or ek character ke liye Vo character khud Jimedaar h

Vahi to mene bola agar pehle se hi writer ke liye hate h to logic hi kyo dhundh rahe ho

Or character u turn to fir

Ashok ka bhi hua

Meeta ka bhi hua

Saroj ka bhi hua

Kammo ka bhi hua

Lovely ka bhi unpredictable nature tha

So yaa to jo dikhaya usme writer ko Blaim karo sabke liye or man me gali do agar aati h

Kyoki mujhe nai aati

Nai lekin hum to writer jaisa formula apply karenge

Agar unhone character ko mahan dikhaya to hum writer ko nai us character ko blaim karenge waah or us character ko hate karenge vo bhi villian se jyada

🤪

Kitna logical h ye sab

I have always written most of my opinion directed at writers. And I have not bashed character Minnie for victimization or any other crap you're talking about.

I have no idea from where your unbelievably arrogant opinion about my post is coming but your words are extremely disrespectful.

Seriously woman, show me where exactly in my post I wrote anything negative about Minnie?

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I have always written most of my opinion directed at writers. And I have not bashed character Minnie for victimization or any other crap you're talking about.

I have no idea from where your unbelievably arrogant opinion about my post is coming but your words are extremely disrespectful.

Seriously woman, show me where exactly in my post I wrote anything negative about Minnie?

Sorry it is not for you 🤗

It is For everyone in the thread and forum who blaim writer for babita and hanuman character but hate mini as a character.

Sorry if it's hurt you

Actually I like your point of view and added mine also

Well I not written before agree with you sorry for this

And I am not negative till now to anyone

Bold

No need of this also I already know there is not single line in your post for this .

sorry once again🤗🤗

P.s. well now it's hurting me that I unintentionally hurt you. I think negativity se sir ghoom gaya tha. U know I decided to join forum due to rewatch of season 1 where I can share my point of view also.but since I join this forum it is always negative. And one more thing I like how you share your views.

Next time I gonna be careful to not even hurt someone's sestimate even unknowingly

Even I edited my first post

Hope you forgive me🤗