Originally posted by: Uma2010
I mostly agree with you. Destiny’s ways are miraculous- we have discussed earlier too here on how Sidnaaz were meant to meet on BB 13 and how life’s circumstances and events made that possible.
In Sana’s conversation with Jariwala some days back, she wanted strong commitment and thorough loyalty from a guy. She also had an inadvertent slip when she mentioned that she would never say yes to the guy in waiting now and understands the slip up immediately and with a glance and giggle at Sid she covers it up with the Karthik Aryan bit. She mentioned that she would block her waiting list too- that wasn’t mere humour. It’s called sending signals while safeguarding one’s own goal post. She does not wish for heartbreak. She’s been there. No more. She has strong walls and the only person has been able to make a major dent in it in recent times is Sid. Her relationship with Sid however one chooses to label it is not a casual relationship for her by any means.
I also believe a formative thought process is on within her. Her words for Sid at WKV yesterday were really strong. She understands his role in her life... Aage bhi... is not just from the game pov. She sees him in her life. But she has been burnt before. Once bitten, twice shy. But Sid can and will make a difference is what I believe. Again, in any mature relationship, both parties have to know what each other’s real world is. That remains to be seen. And any relationship requires major adaptation.
Sana is a pretty straightforward girl in many ways. She wouldn’t show such intense possessiveness for Sid and burn each time he spoke to a girl if she wasn’t invested in the relationship. They have traveled far along and will travel more.
Sana’s commitment talk in the chat with Bagga is also knowing that Sid is right there. Coz to Jariwala in isolation she mentioned loyalty. There is another testing of sorts happening is how I take it. Coz Sid hasn’t said anything more than “I like you”. I don’t think discussions of the future have been made. She wants to know what he wants. She is not one for casual relationships. The very opposite and with spice. Her relationship advice to Rashmi being reference point to how far she can go as also her own sleepless nights tending to Sid. These are in no way signs of casual intentions. If so, she’d have gone for a quick burn Paras to dust off and wrap up with BB 13. If Sana actually mentions sharing the trophy and money at WKV with Sid, even in humour, I will be a happy soul. There’s thought in her on those lines.
Even Prince and Yuvika took a couple of years to date and then marry. Vikas played a role there too. Several celebrity couples continue to date without marrying. What model fits best for them they alone can decide. But I have no doubt whatsoever that they are in love. Love is the foundation around which the rest of life’s structures build. If both families are on the same page on this at it seems to be, things can go a long way.
And don’t bother about Bee. In one of her earliest posts here I remember her mentioning safeguarding herself against expectations if Sidnaaz doesn’t work 😕 So take her words with more than a pinch of salt. Her own defence mechanism is also at work in her writing as unfortunate as it is. And she recently wrote elsewhere of our thread being highly imaginative etc. So, long story short, Chaddo!
Sidnaaz for the win 🥳 😆
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