Self Awareness: Much needed ingredient in BB

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Posted: 8 years ago
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A few months back, was watching BB Tamil and der was dis one HM who ended up d darling of the masses and having unprecedented support and fan following that no HM across any season or language have achieved. She used to goof up, but she was very straight forward, never talked behind any HMs back and though was targeted by most of the HM, never held on to the grudge and started everyday afresh. Another thing that made her stand out was self-awareness. She was quick to accept her mistake and apologize and instead of blaming others accepted blame, even when she could have easily blamed others and moved on.

And dis is what is majorly lacking in Hina. She is self absorbed, but not at all self aware. She does not realize where she is going wrong n in fact she accuses HMs of doing things that she herself is guilty of doing. So I cant sympathize with Hina when d others gang up against her coz she is doing the same. If u know the kind of level d other person is going, and u dont want to go to that level, then refrain yourself. No point of crying foul when u very well know what u r getting into.

Vikas has this self awareness. He quickly realized how dirty the game could be and realized that he did not want to be part of it and hence has distanced himself. He has kinda made peace with Shilpa and is playing smart. He knows at the end of the day, it's just a game and he does not want to put his reputation at stake for it. That's smart.

Puneesh knows exactly what he is doing. He knows which buttons to press and is doing exactly that. He's at least not playing dirty, though I dont condone all d gaali galoch (but then most of them including Hina have been guilty of that) and hence is very much aware of the game he's playing. Bandagi too knows how she wants to go about playing the game.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Also she's not a lone ranger like most of the winners in the past. She wants to turn her personal fights into gang-wars. When puneesh and akash were calling her zero during the task, she tried to involve shilpa and hiten saying that we celebrities are nothing etc. Puneesh then said that we are not talking about Shilpa and hiten and just you. She was dumb-stuck.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shilpa is another HM who's self aware. I realized more than Hina, d HMs say so many things to Shilpa, but Shilpa does not react and realizes that they r doing as part of the task. It's obvious she is hurt, but she gives d HMs d benefit of doubt.
She was in fact explaining to Pooja not to take it to heart and was defending the other HMs saying they said things due to the task and did not mean it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bang on post couldnt agree more. I didnt like punesshs behaviour but same things hina has done tok and if a person is going low its not always necessary to revert back sometimes its good to shut up. If u are gonna fight and give it back then no need to sit n cry as a victim. Hina has said a lot of cheap things so now if shes gonna take one word said to her n make a big issue it looks stupid. Completely agree on vikas and shilpa both.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Initially Vikas was very reactive, but when Salman said that he needn't react to every thing, he did exactly dat. Introspected and is now playing smart.
That's another thing that HMs need to do - introspection.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hina is actually not bad seeing all those unseen videos and all but her main problem is she has to React to every damnn situation and she think its ok to go on level the samne wala person is going...she just needs to control it otherwise the game is around her and she is very popular , strong contestant
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Posted: 8 years ago
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punish is playing dirty .he is fooling akash in the name of friendship.hope he gets out soon.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kirti31096

Hina is actually not bad seeing all those unseen videos and all but her main problem is she has to React to every damnn situation and she think its ok to go on level the samne wala person is going...she just needs to control it otherwise the game is around her and she is very popular , strong contestant


Hina is reacting to everything. If it's her nature, then it's off putting and if it's part of her game, then its a bad strategy. She needs to chose her battle wisely.

Also she's bad at taking advice and accepting mistakes. Many say salman does not point out her wrong doings, but I just feel tht Salman knows she will keep arguing and since the past few seasons Salman really does not get too involved. She needs to take the hints and improve.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonalak123

punish is playing dirty .he is fooling akash in the name of friendship.hope he gets out soon.


Hmmm...akash is doing the same too na? He was pleading Hiten to vote for him. But yes Puneesh as totally into d game and has a loyal ally in d form of Bandagi.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Shilpa is another HM who's self aware. I realized more than Hina, d HMs say so many things to Shilpa, but Shilpa does not react and realizes that they r doing as part of the task. It's obvious she is hurt, but she gives d HMs d benefit of doubt.

She was in fact explaining to Pooja not to take it to heart and was defending the other HMs saying they said things due to the task and did not mean it.

This.
Shilpa was hurt and she cried after the task. But, she didn't hold that against anyone and was quick to go the kitchen and prepare meals for everyone. ❤️

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