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Sue

@Sue101

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: spnfan
p.s ; am not bashing parth but he could have handled it better thats all... if peoples bashing makes them quit social media then srk should have done that the moment people said nasty comments about his new born baby...
ignoring thousands of true fans for some 100s of immature ones is sad... there are genuine fans who likes to get connected with their celebs...

he did not ignore, he is still in insta connecting with us, and now in fb, (i am unable to send friend request because already crossed the limit and i am happy about this😊) and even the ones who bashed him, he just requested to not interfere with his personal matters😊

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Spnfan

@spnfan

Trailblazer

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: rits08

IKR? Salman and SRK take so much...not once they retorted this way... And the kind of gossips Aish and Priyanka have bore...this is nothing...ppl even said Aish's daughter's father is actually Amitabh... so disgusting yar..bt still they never give so much importance to bashers! There will always be a set of people who will bash you... Just becoz of those few ppl, you cant put the entire blame on fans and then threaten to quit IG or twitter... and if Parth was indeed so mad, why did he join fb today? Are we really dying to have them on social networking sites? No we are not! They use these sites to promote themselves, not doing us any favour! And if they can't tolerate all this then they shud keep their profiles pvt! Celeb life is always under scrutiny and fans always try to get into that! Only thing u can do is ignore such things!

if they want their personal life persoanl privatize their social accounts... there will be always a group of people who will bash you even if you give your life for a noble course... its not like payaz are the only young actors who got a hit show. there are other actors too and they are also getting bashed for one or the other reasons they dont go around and call people names... i have heard from this forum that barun sobti's wife got bashed coz she is his wife which... i never heard of him giving ivs like this.. ipkknd was a much bigger show than ky2 so cant even imagine the kind of stuf that lady has to go through. i dont think parth's frnd even went through half of it...

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eveline

@eveline

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: rits08
And please tell me who are you to judge others? Just like you have an opinion, same way we have an opinion too! And why are u threatening to leave the forum? Its ppl like us who have left the forum just bcoz this forum can't digest one iota of criticism! As for the video, Im disgusted more by it because being a fan Im insulted by these two! If fans support them doesnt mean it gives them the right to bash them and say they are dimwit who dont match to their intellect! Seriously, its not like they are SRk or Salman n so big that we worship them! There is a way and method of putting forth your point...instead of outrightly putting the entire blame on fans and threatening them to quit IG and wat not! Please go ahead and delete your IG/twitter/fb watever PaYaz for all I care! I am ashamed to be ur fan once🥱

I dont even know why mods allow these posts when its clearly made against other forum members and their opinion, rather than on the real issue! If u have problems in digesting other's POV then its ur problem.. u will have to deal with it!

At least we agree on one point..that each and every one is entitled to their opinion. The rule of respect being to air it in such a way that others who don't agree, don't feel offended. And when your opinion clearly abuses another individual...it does need a lot to be desired. And I am fan too, so are plenty here, actually most of them are fans here. The iv was not directed towards responsible and mature fans who know their limits and not abuse the powers vested in them by the actors themselves. So why feel targeted or insulted...unless the shoe fits.

And the other side of the coin is, if actors entertain it doesn't give fans right to insult or abuse them.right?? Ayaaz's statement was exactly according to his temperament, and we have known his bold and say it in your face attitude for long, if we have enjoyed his sarcastic wit to the fullest in the past, we should also know that such wit can be biting too. And why feel that was directed against you personally..it was for a certain crazed and obsessed sect. They didn't threaten it was no dramatic blackmail..they simply left..one down a few more to go in their campaign against negativity.

And as fans and humans why in the world would we want them to take shit from any which individual in the name of fandom.

I had the same feeling this morning when a post was literally sieged and hijacked by other forum members and their differing opinions. If they have a right to say, so do others I guess...as u pointed out in the beginning its a free world buddy!!

Err...aren't u the one complaining about such posts being allowed...so aren't you the one having issues dealing with it?? 😊

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eveline

@eveline

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: spnfan
p.s ; am not bashing parth but he could have handled it better thats all... if peoples bashing makes them quit social media then srk should have done that the moment people said nasty comments about his new born baby...
ignoring thousands of true fans for some 100s of immature ones is sad... there are genuine fans who likes to get connected with their celebs...

Comparing Parth who is a new small time actor on TV to SRK ...well I have nothing to say!! 😊

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eveline

@eveline

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: rits08

IKR? Salman and SRK take so much...not once they retorted this way... And the kind of gossips Aish and Priyanka have bore...this is nothing...ppl even said Aish's daughter's father is actually Amitabh... so disgusting yar..bt still they never give so much importance to bashers! There will always be a set of people who will bash you... Just becoz of those few ppl, you cant put the entire blame on fans and then threaten to quit IG or twitter... and if Parth was indeed so mad, why did he join fb today? Are we really dying to have them on social networking sites? No we are not! They use these sites to promote themselves, not doing us any favour! And if they can't tolerate all this then they shud keep their profiles pvt! Celeb life is always under scrutiny and fans always try to get into that! Only thing u can do is ignore such things!

Again...SRK and Salman are being compared to a newbie small time tv actor like Parth 😆!! Can we please compare apples to apples here!! Obviously these actors are way bigger and the no 1 fact...they don't even read all the comments...or interact on a personal level...its their PR team that takes care of this job. So obviously they are shielded from such nonsense. The negativity never reaches them, bet if they and their loved ones were dealing with this personally on a day in day out basis, their reactions would have been different.

And Parth joining twitter just proves the point that they still love their true fans and ready to interact with the loyal ones ...right?? He cant win this..can he?? If he gets away from social media...he doesn't care for true fans...if he gets back...why is he back??

Again its you personal choice, but looking at the response, his fans did understand what he was trying to convey.

Yes...sometimes ignoring things you don't like is the best!!

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fan145

@fan145

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#46

I agree tht they were little impulsive and they shud have handled it bit more carefully .and .they r just beginners..u cant compare thm vth salman khan or srk ..they will gradually get it ..at this point of their life they became impulsive..and isnt we ppl bcoming soo nosy ..like we wanna speculate abt their personal lifes ..we go wild hearing any news even vthout any confirmations...and wat do u think they will stand bak nd listen to watver they hear with a smile for long tym ..noo...and if this ppl remeber ayaz made and insta vdeo abt cold war abt pani in whch parth just smiled ...he hold it back thn ..but when we croseed the limit they need to do this ..

And i get it ..only if had bashed thm even vthout thinking they r like us u wud feel abt wat they said ..see they were not pointing to ll fans ..they just pointed to those hu bashed their closed ones and yeah thm too...soo ..

I want to add this too..i saw ppl on utube cmnting to othr show fans how "bad " is ayaz ..is tht a right thng to do..this is our show the probs inside shud be dealt inside ..y being a joker around othrs ..

Ppl shud agree somtyms we all go over board ..take a chill pill and relax ..enjoy the show ..keep ur heads out their personal lifes..u cant claim it ..its theirs ..everyone gt their own personal lifes ..naa..soo relax and enjoy the show ...

See this is merelyy my opinion and i knw many of u might be against me ..and might call me fangirl or watever ..i just thought putting myself in their place..i wudnt bear all those bashing against my near ones ..its soo clr ...

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eveline

@eveline

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: spnfan

if they want their personal life persoanl privatize their social accounts... there will be always a group of people who will bash you even if you give your life for a noble course... its not like payaz are the only young actors who got a hit show. there are other actors too and they are also getting bashed for one or the other reasons they dont go around and call people names... i have heard from this forum that barun sobti's wife got bashed coz she is his wife which... i never heard of him giving ivs like this.. ipkknd was a much bigger show than ky2 so cant even imagine the kind of stuf that lady has to go through. i dont think parth's frnd even went through half of it...

Just a note...Barun's wife quit social media instantly the moment the show and Barun became hits and Barun was never...never on social media during IPK times (don't know his status now but he was totally against it then) and neither was Sanaya...thank god for that!! So, there are actors who refuse to join the circus in the first place and some quitting when it gets to be too much. Just because an actor is on social media it does not mean by default that his personal life is open to the sickest of nonsense..or is that what we think??

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--Ariana--

@--Ariana--

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: eveline
At least we agree on one point..that each and every one is entitled to their opinion. The rule of respect being to air it in such a way that others who don't agree, don't feel offended. And when your opinion clearly abuses another individual...it does need a lot to be desired. And I am fan too, so are plenty here, actually most of them are fans here. The iv was not directed towards responsible and mature fans who know their limits and not abuse the powers vested in them by the actors themselves. So why feel targeted or insulted...unless the shoe fits.

And the other side of the coin is, if actors entertain it doesn't give fans right to insult or abuse them.right?? Ayaaz's statement was exactly according to his temperament, and we have known his bold and say it in your face attitude for long, if we have enjoyed his sarcastic wit to the fullest in the past, we should also know that such wit can be biting too. And why feel that was directed against you personally..it was for a certain crazed and obsessed sect. They didn't threaten it was no dramatic blackmail..they simply left..one down a few more to go in their campaign against negativity.

And as fans and humans why in the world would we want them to take shit from any which individual in the name of fandom.

I had the same feeling this morning when a post was literally sieged and hijacked by other forum members and their differing opinions. If they have a right to say, so do others I guess...as u pointed out in the beginning its a free world buddy!!

Err...aren't u the one complaining about such posts being allowed...so aren't you the one having issues dealing with it?? 😊

Firstly, nothing will solve by giving lectures to others on what they should do and not do... You can't go and tell each and every fan how to behave! I have faced all kinds of ppl on twitter...haters, bashers, fans all kinds... some bashers even threatened to morph my pics..does it mean that i create a hue and cry about it? shud i call media? or shud i go to police? NO...i cant...bcoz its over-reaction of a small thing... You have to ignore such people and move on in life! Thats it... Same goes for these two! They need serious PR lessons! And the arrogance with which they gave IV it does seem like pointing to every fan... so i do feel mad about this video! And meri bala se to hell wid them...i wont die without them...they are not doing me any favour by being on social networking site... celebs come and go... i will find some new celeb, some new show and will follow them! Its their responsibility to respond nicely to fans! I dont know too much about TV celebs, bt despite his personal life chaos, KSG never raised a finger on his fans... he always respected them so much and his IVs and responses were always fun to watch! You dont even have any idea how much this guy has been bashed, his wife bashed over and over again... Even they ignored everything! This is how their industry works...they need serious PR lessons if they want their fans to stick to them...nahi toh 1month after show ends and no one will give 2 hoots about these too!

Lastly, I dont think the forum is made to discuss how bad other people's opinion is... As far as I understand, forum members are neither part of show nor part of this IV! So yes, these kinds of posts shud not be allowed bcoz it encourages unnecessary fights and goes on to show that other people's opinion should not matter and thus they should be bashed! Fine you thot that other thread was hijacked..but there were 2 other threads as well to discuss this issue...Ab now Im the only person responding to this thread, doesnt it mean its highjacked by one set of fan base? Is it really fair? Yet im giving my opinion in the nicest possible way without looking down at ur opinon. Fine its your opinion that there was nothing wrong with that video...and i respect that...bt for me, I think the video was really pathetic... <-- but its my opinion. Please respect that as well!!

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charminggenie

@charminggenie

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#49

If an actor says really means keep my private life away , then he doesn't allow his co-actor to make insta videos enjoying the rumours. Nor should Ayaz asked if he was single on the IVs , because sarcasm or not you are letting the statement out to the fans- they will speculate because you are putting it out there on the public platform .

Ayaz was not getting any hate from KY2 fandom , him being the mouthpiece was condescending and bit hypocritical because he was indulging the fans by RTing or favoring tweets about PaNi- double standards much.

Here on this very forum one ardent Parth fan, posted a conversation between his PR/friend and the fans who called a fellow co-actor an abusive word, i never saw one comment by these two defending the professional and personal integrity of their colleague or condemn the action of their personal friend against a part which was unnecessarily dragged.

It's part of a public figure , you will always get scrutinized, heck the PM is judged by what he wears, who he married , what was the big deal ? Social media is a free space, a platform for opinion , you might like it or not ,so if these actors are so touchy then why interact. Random girls going commenting on their personal photos is okay for them , because that is not intrusive to their personal life , if the comments are all favourable - what sort of parameter is that.

We get articles, these IVs to know them off-screen, their personal lives and not the characters, it is to increase the brand value of these actors which they themselves wish upon , if you really strictly want to keep the personal life away from the glares then practice what you preach, be careful about what you put on the social media- it will be received by a large section who all will have different perception, then deal with it.

What was bitter about it all , how they fabricated the whole story through Ayaz, that was tactless.

Last, fan reactions are fickle, they don't last ,it doesn't affect their lives in any manner unless it was already complicated. So why blame the nameless , faceless fans only , when even they are transgressing.

What I don't get is the overreaction about the criticism of their IV, what sort of censorship is that. Nobody is questioning them , just disagreeing completely with their views and ways. Should that not be abstract. Or are we all about forcing just one herd view on others.

Edited by charminggenie - 10 years ago